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| LADIES: How To Find "Mr Right" by Nobody: 2:47pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
have you had one failed relationship after another? Are you tired of waiting for the right guy to come along? Why not go out and find him yourself? To get the right man, use the following strategies. Live your own life. The best thing anyone can do to be more attractive is to lead an interesting, fulfilling life; only deeply manipulative or insecure people want to be with someone who has no side interests, activities, friends, or hobbies. Think about your own tastes: would you rather be with a man who spends his weekends hiking, traveling, playing cello, and taking you to dance classes or one who sit in his living room playing video games and catching up on his favorite shows? Hold yourself to these same standards by spending plenty of time with your friends, pursuing your own interests, and developing new hobbies. (In fact, you may just meet some interesting men while you’re there!) Don’t drop these things the second you meet someone; make them integral to your experience. You’ll find yourself happier and more independent while you’re at it, which will help steer your dating decisions and make you more compatible with interesting men as well. Don’t be needy. Neediness repels most romantic partners – and the ones it attracts tend to be unbalanced in a complimentary way Look in all the right places. Start by imagining the type of man you're looking for. Make a list – at the top of which should be responsible, respectful, and honest – of characteristics, quirks, and deeper-level traits that you want in a man, but be careful not to get too caught up in non-essentials (ex. brown-haired) or you may find yourself writing off some real gems. (If you find your list goes on and on, you might have some soul-searching to do.) Then, imagine where that type man would be. Would he be hanging out at a bar? Or, more likely, would you find him golfing, hiking, getting an education, or pursuing some other similar activity? Make a list of 10 places that you would want your future husband to frequent (from art galleries to bookstores, anything goes as long as you are legitimately personally interested in what happens there and would choose to go there on your own). Finally, make a point of going to those places whenever possible - as long as you continue your own, fulfilling personal life. You've probably already found that you are meeting more men just by pursuing your passions! Dress in whatever way makes you feel comfortable and confident. Never feel that you should have to dress in a sexually provocative way to attract a man. In general, women dressed in a way that is either too sexual or too prudish have a harder time gaining traction with men they don’t know yet; a woman who dresses in an overly sexy way looks like she's trying too hard to get attention, but a woman who is dressed in an overly conservative way looks like she's suppressing her natural self. All men are a little different, of course, but if you want to dress like a lady, you will attract men who are looking for a lady. Make a point of confidently expressing who you are, instead of seeking approval or validation through your clothing. Make sure you are truly compatible. As the relationship buds, ask him what he wants out of life. How does he plan on accomplishing those goals? What is he going to do to accomplish those goals? Do his goals fit with your goals? Similarity in values, backgrounds, and goals are a good predictor of success. Don’t overlook large discrepancies in interest (such as whether or not to have children) in the hope that one of you will feel differently later; this is a very unstable, unrealistic beginning to what could be a long-term disappointment. Develop a healthy relationship. t’s not always easy to know what a relationship is supposed to be and feel like, especially if have been hurt before; having one awful relationship can completely throw off your sense of balance and self-trust, making you second-guess your every move for years to follow. N/B: THIS POST AINT PERFECT , CORRECTIONS AND CONTRIBUTIONS WILL BE WELCOMED  |
| Re: LADIES: How To Find "Mr Right" by Nobody: 2:48pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Space |
| Re: LADIES: How To Find "Mr Right" by ArchEnemy(m): 2:59pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
- Drop those highfalutin ideas of a perfect Guy. Tall, dark, handsome, rich, gentle and what ve you. If not you go tey for bus stop. - Be respectful. Cultivate the habit of respect. Not many Guys ll go for a lady that does not respect them. -Be responsible: you should be able to take care of yourself. Dont be a parasite waiting for its next prey aka gold digger. This ll make some guys run away. |
| Re: LADIES: How To Find "Mr Right" by Deshannel(m): 3:00pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
*fingers crossed* |
| Re: LADIES: How To Find "Mr Right" by Medunah: 3:04pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
If Mr.right isnt forthcoming, get a hold of Mr.left and then drag him to the right. Easy as that! |
| Re: LADIES: How To Find "Mr Right" by Nobody: 3:10pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
True |
| Re: LADIES: How To Find "Mr Right" by Nobody: 3:22pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
ArchEnemy:how did i forget all this?  1 Like |
| Re: LADIES: How To Find "Mr Right" by ShakurM(m): 3:42pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Why not be the Mrs right? |
| Re: LADIES: How To Find "Mr Right" by Nobody: 4:02pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Medunah:mr middle nkor  |
| Re: LADIES: How To Find "Mr Right" by Nobody: 7:37pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
Ok |
| Re: LADIES: How To Find "Mr Right" by Tymax(m): 7:43pm On Jan 31, 2015 |
If only they would listen. Quit acting like the world owes you a favour. Be the kind of woman you want your son to marry. |
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