Cutehector4u:
Why is it hard for a nice guy to be loved whole heartedly in return? Is it too hard to ask for

tpiaobsession:


Don't be going around with your heart on your sleeve bro.

Stop putting people on guilt trips.

prettyjo:
#word#

Cutehector4u:
I guess dats my mistake. Puttin my heart on my sleeve. Wat's d meanin of puttn people on guilt trips

tpiaobsession:





Means trying to make them feel responsible for your feelings which 9 times out of 10, they are not the cause of.

Shugaryme:
Awwww... noted.


btw, who broke your heart?
gist us na...

Cutehector4u:
ok thanks. I'd stop doin dat. What do u advice me to do again bro? Let dem go right?

tpiaobsession:





Stop attaching your happiness to another human being.

Let your true joy come from God.

kallmemrB:
chaii the person scatter his heart...even grind am join....

this is what all single guys think until they fall in love and do the same mistake they are warning people abt

Shugaryme:

The mistake of?

kallmemrB:
of all what the op wrote.....not appreciative,not caring enough...not this not that

Shugaryme:

Hmmmm
Are you guilty of the mistake?

Cutehector4u:
Why is it hard for a nice guy to be loved whole heartedly in return? Is it too hard to ask for

kallmemrB:
hell yes and i learnt my lessons the hard way....its the experience that makes u a better person not the words

Shugaryme:

Awwww, ehya


how did it happen?

Shugaryme:

Awwww, ehya


how did it happen?

MizMyColi:


Let me help you rephrase.

[b]There are genuinely nice girls out there (0.01% of the world's population though) who have willing and adorable hearts, who want to explore the beauties of love.

Why is it hard for a guy they're into to love them truly and genuinely --- and reciprocate at least 50% of their love?

Why do guys have this mentality that it's impossible for a girl to be really nice without having a motive.

I read with utter and abysmal dismay, the comment of one of the people whom I follow on this forum, that a lady only starts acting all nice and enters pretend mode when she finds that her BClock is ticking at a geometrical rate. He warned his fellow guys to be wary of such ladies.

Granted, he has a point.

But why do we make out our world as so bad, when there's sheer beauty around us, amid the strife we sometimes experience.

What about those who genuinely want to be better?
Do we dismiss them too simply because they're whatever you fathom them as?
When will we learn to give everyone we're opportune to encounter the benefit of the doubt, that they may either prove or disprove themselves?

(Sigh)

My dear, don't mind me joor.
T'wasn't my intention to go this deep.
Had to lerritout.
#Bless[/b]

kallmemrB:
its the experience that makes u a better person not the words

Cutehector4u:
hMost ov d gurls am tryn to get close with have been hurt pretty bad in the past and when I try to make dem fell bera, its all a fruitless effort

tpiaobsession:



its not your responsibility to "try to make them feel better" inasmuch as you werent the one who hurt them to begin with.

that's the root of the problem.

i think you try to make yourself "feel better" by singling out girls who you feel are emotionally vulnerable due to their past experiences.

but the thing is the girls can sense your emotions are shallow (no offence) even though you feel they are deep.