classicB:
No sin is greater than the other. Nobody Is a saint for abstaining from sex alone. You have to do away with all other sins before you are fit to accuse people engaged in premarital sex. You might be a gossiper yet a virgin, another person might not be a virgin yet be a good giver. Both of you are sinners! Stop placing one since above the other.

gilgal7:

Even thou its branded u need to test run the engine,checkout the engine type whether is V6,the interior the main expected specification...etc wrong choice dosen't pay

Ontarget:

If you can age and die without having sex it doesn't mean other abstainers like you will agree with you. So speak for yourself.
I hope you are ready to burn in hell cos don't tell me you have never sinned before.

komek:


Hypocrite!

There is a statistics that said that in the Western world, 75% of the teenagers are involved in pre- marital sex. An these are same people that brought this your so called doctrine. Now does it mean all those 75% will end up in hell? Why do we have the urge in us? Africans think, think , think.

msmon:
Sex is one important need of any mankind and it's very essential. However, we can't ignore the fact pre-marital sex is adultery.

classicB:
in the bible times people married very young, and had sex at very young age. But here reverse is the case, so I dnt see anything wrong in matured adults having sex. But I dnt see to having sex with someone u cnt marry

ireneidiva:

Number 1, if you die without having sex, so what? What kind of dumb reason is that!
Number 2, anybody that marries because of sex is still a kid.sex before marriage will definately take you to hell adn so will other things like creating this kind of thread too. Sin is sin!

msmon:
What's your own understanding of the subject matter?

ireneidiva:

Number 1, if you die without having sex, so what? What kind of dumb reason is that!
Number 2, anybody that marries because of sex is still a kid.sex before marriage will definately take you to hell adn so will other things like creating this kind of thread too. Sin is sin!

seedord247:



Na who tell you that?

kurt09:
Thread from pit of hell.

uboma:


It seems you are not aware that brand new cars can go faulty? Only a lazy man will decide not to open his bonnet simply because he's using a new car...

ireneidiva:

Number 1, if you die without having sex, so what? What kind of dumb reason is that!
Number 2, anybody that marries because of sex is still a kid.sex before marriage will definately take you to hell adn so will other things like creating this kind of thread too. Sin is sin!

uboma:



Is pre-marital sex adultery? Read up the meaning from a dictionary.

Ontarget:
Some righteous or church people on this forum wouldn't stop pushing us to abstain from sex till marriage. They always give reasons like: It is a sin and the bible says so so and so. But they wouldn't tell us how to overcome the challenges that comes with abstaining till marriage these days. I agree that sex after marriage is the best solution to curb STDs and unwanted pregnancies but achieving such in the midst of some resisting factors appears to be an uphill task.

Apart from the sexual urges we have to deal with all through the period of abstaining we seem to forget to ask ourselves a certain question. And the question is: WHEN WILL YOU GET MARRIED AND FINALLY HAVE THAT SEX? Marriage in a country like Naija doesn't come cheap especially for the guys. The guys are expected to have a fat bank account first before thinking of marriage. Unfortunately some guys will be unlucky to get that kind of fat bank account at age 45 no matter how hard they have worked. Some ladies will clock 45 and still no signs of a husband coming close. If we must abstain from sex till marriage are we really going to abstain till old age if conditions are not favourable to get marriage? Is there a maximum limit to wait? What happens if you will never get married due to bad luck? Does it mean you will abstain from sex till death? If actually it was CERTAIN that everybody would be getting married at about 25 years old then it would make valid sense for people to wait till marriage.

Secondly, I think insisting on sex till marriage can cause another issue that most of us don't even think about. Due to the excitement of having sex for the first time and all that urge, someone who has been abstaining from sex can easily be tempted and decide to get married unprepared just to have sex to know how it feels. The outcome of this is that marriage crashes due to this unreadiness and kids will be brought to the world to suffer especially when the couple weren't financially ready. I have come across some folks here advising people to get married rather than have sex before marriage. Is it better to get married because of sex and the marriage crashes soon afterwards or is better to have PROTECTED sex before marriage and avoid the suffering a collapsed marriage? If you feel sex before marriage will take you to hell then it means everyone on this planet will end up in hell cos we are all sinning in different ways.

Contributions please.

MzNelly:
People be coming up with reasons why pre-marital sex should be endorsed

LOL, Have your sex and leave 'em virgins alone. Nobody asked to be convinced.

AZeD1:

What are the chances of a brand new car going bad?

mikoy1:
i think sex should be between two adults that are ready to bear the consequences of their actions, 2 sex before marriage is bad. if u cant control ursef den get married sharperly. the holy bible said we shud get married n avoid pre marital sex.

Joshkid:
I sight u bro!

seedord247:
I keep asking them the same thing... Where in the bible did they talk about premarital sex ?...

If i'm a product i need to test it and see how efficient it will work if i decided to take it home..

uzolexis:

Pre marital sex is fornication not adultery. Did the bible say anything about fornication? I'm just asking, I'm not endorsing premarital sex, I just want to know where it was stated in the bible that it's a sin.