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Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by harrysterol(m): 8:48pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
These "LITTLE GIRLS" are out here in leggings, no job .... nothing... But yet they want a guy in a fresh haircut, his own house, a new car and makes at least 80mill a year. phew They believe it is their bfs job to give them money to fix their hair, nails etc and all they do to apperciate is give him sex. My dear, you are a prostitute . Your bf gives you money not because he wants to show he is the MAN, not because you give him sex but because he loves you and wants to see you do well. IT IS NOT HIS RESPONSIBLITY.... He isnt giving you money to get between your legs, if thats so he wouldnt be committed to you....... or are you the only one with a vag!!na? NO....everyother lady has one... so stop this mentality of, after all I am giving him sex, he needs to take care of me...... you should know that they are alot of girls who are ready to give him sex for free but he is with you because he loves you and he gives you money because he loves you, not because you give him sex... YOU ARE NOT ENTITLED TO HIS POCKET. Hmm ... Ladies... You can't set high standards for a man that you yourself don't even meet. I'm not saying that a man with NOTHING to offer is acceptable o..... Not by any means......But if you yourself also have nothing and you will only talk to or get to know someone who has a lot more than you or can pay your bills, then that makes you a GOLD DIGGER. You shouldn't judge a man's potential as a partner based on looks and materialistic things alone. If a guy is working hard and making an effort to be better, why can't y'all grow together? Huh?? Your goal should be to be a part of his success, not to live off of his success...... Stop trying to find a man that drives, instead find a man with morals and drive and then contribute and help him become a better man just by being a good woman. His successes will always be yours because he will always remember you being there for him...... On the good days and the bad days. And it goes both ways.You become better together as a unit. You will miss out on some amazing people when you judge them on what they do and don't have... Call it "standards" if you want. But I guess it takes a certain mindset to understand my way of thinking. Some girls need to grow up mentally before they start barking out demands from the opposite sex... Be GOAL digger not a gold digger http://www.naijavillage.com/2015/02/your-boyfriend-is-not-responsible-for_16.html?m=1 1 Like |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by Tymax(m): 9:00pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
I can feel the vehemence. Powerful. |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by SuperSuave(m): 9:21pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
Tell dem |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by harrysterol(m): 9:27pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
Tymax: |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by Nobody: 10:02pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
If I hear say they change , op your write up is just like pouring water on a stone for them. |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by Nobody: 10:05pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
The idea of giving SEX as compensation for money is common among girls nowadays as if they are the ones giving it. My prayer is God shud seal vag!!na for 6mths globally in order to control konji and see the true value of ladies |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by ronald4lif(m): 10:08pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
wristwatch: |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by harrysterol(m): 10:09pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
wristwatch:seconded so we can differentiate them |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by harrysterol(m): 10:14pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
Doxie69:my people say, flies way no the hear something na dem the follow casket enter grave |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by Maamin(m): 10:21pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
Endorsing this thread to FP ASAP! |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by harrysterol(m): 10:33pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
Maamin:n the mod won't do the needful |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by harrysterol(m): 10:35pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
Why Ladies viewing without comments Am just sounding the trumpet am not against you guys |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by Nobody: 10:35pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
Nigerian gals see relationship as some an emancipation from poverty don't blame them though, blame it on poverty. |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by harrysterol(m): 10:38pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
hatbricker:relationship na employment for them, then no care either the guy the work or not just bring the cash too bad |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by whizqueen(f): 11:01pm On Feb 18, 2015 |
Incase |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by Nobody: 12:36am On Feb 19, 2015 |
No mind them... They think say we be their papa. |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by mirexxx(f): 12:58am On Feb 19, 2015 |
who said he was?? sending cards n surprise presents wouldn't hurt A guy was like...babes ur hair don old o he kept repeating the sentence how much does it cost 2 make hair ?? give her na! it only shows ur a caring bf. she'l appreciate it! if u can't do it now is it when you are married that you will am not saying he should become her dad o little things counts it shows how responsible you are 2 d people you love 2 Likes |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by DonaldGenes(m): 1:16am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Word! |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by DonaldGenes(m): 1:18am On Feb 19, 2015 |
Tymax: HmmmmmmmmmmPH |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by MisterLongman(m): 1:22am On Feb 19, 2015 |
The funniest part is that they will be castigating prostitutes when they are indeed the diluted version of prostitutes |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by MisterLongman(m): 1:28am On Feb 19, 2015 |
mirexxx:Yes, little things but it still doesn't change the fact thet he is under no obligation to provide for her upkeep. He can only do that out of his own volition but when a girl starts making it seem its his responsibility, it no more little thing, its a big deal |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by harrysterol(m): 5:33am On Feb 19, 2015 |
mirexxx:see wahala do it now Does gifts hurts o So what are you saying exactly ? |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by harrysterol(m): 5:42am On Feb 19, 2015 |
whizqueen:of wetin |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by harrysterol(m): 5:44am On Feb 19, 2015 |
MisterLongman:diluted indeed You right, they are screaming at does on the street but not forgetting, they're another strain of the business |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by mirexxx(f): 8:24am On Feb 19, 2015 |
harrysterol:and who told u I can't dont do it so surprise gifts now means he's responsible for your upkeep? mtchewwwww 1 Like |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by mirexxx(f): 8:27am On Feb 19, 2015 |
MisterLongman:yea right |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by harrysterol(m): 8:34am On Feb 19, 2015 |
mirexxx:surprise gift at will is different from the spontaneous gifts you gals r clamouring for |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by Nobody: 8:39am On Feb 19, 2015 |
of course he is not!!! |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by happyjuliet(f): 8:40am On Feb 19, 2015 |
After making der fucking money dey will change position sharp sharp...Abeg der is nothing like real LOVE in Niger jare . |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by mirexxx(f): 8:40am On Feb 19, 2015 |
harrysterol:OK guess u don't like spending at all or maybe u're just damn broke case closed! gudmonin 1 Like |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by harrysterol(m): 8:53am On Feb 19, 2015 |
mirexxx:imagination u wish only broke gals as u just admitted ask for cash den morning, hw ur nite |
Re: Your Boyfriend Is Not Responsible For Your Upkeep by spacefreak: 8:56am On Feb 19, 2015 |
I can buy surprise gifts for a girlfriend but that doesn't make it a responsibility. I respect girls depending on their level of independence. I can't pay for your hair everytime it gets old or recharge your line everytime it gets low. What I'm trying to say is a "girlfriend" should have a level of independence and not overly dependent like an slowpoke. |
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