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Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by nobosaba(m): 8:40am On Jun 15, 2015
Ladies, do not make excuses and say you didn’t know when enough was enough.

Here are 4 red flags that should give you the key to exit the relationship, as soon as you can.

1. He cheats

Many people will say this point is debatable because lots of couples who have fidelity issues repair their relationship and end up better than where they were pre-cheating. But it’s not the act of cheating that’s the deal-breaker here; it’s the disrespect, broken trust and significant risk to your health. (Hello, STDS!) With all the risks that hang in the balance for just a tiny bit of pleasure, it’s entirely inconsiderate and selfish when a man cheats on you. Do you want someone who puts his wants before your needs, like security and trust? You should not, which is why you have to say BYE to cheating men.

2. He gets violent, even if he doesn’t hit you

You may think this is a no-brainer but honestly it isn’t. Most women I know who’ve been in abusive relationships have immense strength, only to shut down in the presence of her partner’s anger and violence. No healthy relationship can be built off a foundation of fear because you never know when his actions may escalate.

3. He doesn’t claim or proclaim you

Many women will spend time in limbo-like relationships with guys who won’t give them the girlfriend title. Here’s the truth: If you’ve been dating a man for longer than six to nine months and he hasn’t made you an official part of his life, it’s time to MOVE ON. Stop making excuses for why things aren’t progressing to the next level; you’ll only waste time and your time is worth more than that. Don’t settle for less because you don’t want a man who makes you a bargain-bin find. If he knows your worth, he’ll claim and proclaim you and there will be few conversations about how ‘he isn’t ready.’

4. He suffers from addiction

There are plenty of honor badges to be earned by standing by your man when he’s fallen on hard times. But CAUTION if you stick with a man fighting demons, namely addiction. Addiction can range from less-severe, like cigarettes, to major issues such as drug, alcohol, pornography and sex. Someone who suffers from an addiction will do anything – and I mean anything – to get their fix, even at the expense of those they love. So unless you’d like to be second to whatever vices he has, it may be time to ‘leave smoke.’
Source: http://www.trendyglitzy.com/2015/03/must-read-for-all-ladies-dont-marry.html?m=1

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by Tapout(m): 8:46am On Jun 15, 2015
pls this shi't shouldn't be one sided ...... ladies are guilty of the above shi't too angry

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by izyrach(f): 8:47am On Jun 15, 2015
kiss...**yea,,..I'll keep daht in mind..

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by jrerico1(m): 8:50am On Jun 15, 2015
That means am not going to get married cry

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by Greyworld: 8:55am On Jun 15, 2015
Tapout:
pls this shi't shouldn't be one sided ...... ladies are guilty of the above shi't too angry
Bro don't take it personal if yu are guilty of any just back pedal.



No 1 said ladies are saints.

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by Enegod(m): 9:07am On Jun 15, 2015
undecided

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by GeneralQuamdeen: 9:11am On Jun 15, 2015
The title should be like "dont marry your partner if he or she do all these things"... Coz sure i know a neighbour's wife that does these

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by DjHypno(m): 11:36am On Jun 15, 2015
The title of the thread should be don't marry at all. Cos youths of these days does almost all those stuffs you listed.

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by jamex93(m): 11:36am On Jun 15, 2015
make make we marry gal wey dey beat her man abi

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by kay29000(m): 11:37am On Jun 15, 2015
Number 3. should be removed from the list. If he doesn't claim you, why would he want to marry you? And if he doesn't call you a girlfriend, and proposes to you, it means he is showing he has been showing his affection, even though he saying been calling you a girlfriend. Some people don't like too make too much noise, they like their actions speaking for them. Anyway,if you have problem lasting long in bed, hit me up on BBM- 7C22F6EC.

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by ossaisly(m): 11:37am On Jun 15, 2015
ok, we don hear
Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by kamez(m): 11:37am On Jun 15, 2015
Op what about addiction to the English premier league?

Cos I can sit all day watching all the matches including hull city vs Aston villa grin

Shey DAT one follow for the addiction ni?

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by elantraceey(f): 11:37am On Jun 15, 2015
I can't even date someone like that except for the cheating which can't be known at first.

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by Ameboperoo(m): 11:37am On Jun 15, 2015
What if my girlfriend does them?
Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by ITbomb(m): 11:38am On Jun 15, 2015
lol
Naija girls no send as long as the cash is secured for them

1. IF it were cheating, Tuface would never have gotten married. When you have money, the only wish for the girl is to be the main chick or babymama while others are side chicks.

2. Violent? I no go even talk that one. They would say "it was my fault" as long as the money as there

3. Proclamation noni? Just get a nice apartment with premium subscription to African Magic and you will be guaranteed the services of a full housewife with no payment of dowry.

4. Addiction: She met him at a bar and then spend her waking hours trying to make him stop going to the bar. Goodluck

Guys, be focus and get your cash first, na tooth pick you go use choose the best. no need to learn habits or wooing lines

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by sexymoma(f): 11:38am On Jun 15, 2015
If he drinks Origin grin

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by edlion57(m): 11:38am On Jun 15, 2015
And
Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by williams368(m): 11:39am On Jun 15, 2015
Nice bt der is no perfect man
Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by sexaddict08(m): 11:39am On Jun 15, 2015
Jesus is d way

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by Nobody: 11:40am On Jun 15, 2015
aren't all these already obvious?

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by Nobody: 11:40am On Jun 15, 2015
Holy fudck!!!

This shiiiiit is conclusive proof that I'd never get married....

I am so in love with me Mary Jane, call it an addiction if you please, but the Jay has never done me wrong...
Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by herald9: 11:40am On Jun 15, 2015
jrerico1:
That means am not going to get married cry
Don't worry, not all them ladies are on Nairaland cheesy

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by boolet: 11:41am On Jun 15, 2015
What if he breathes, should she marry him? undecided

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by HRich(m): 11:42am On Jun 15, 2015
nobosaba:

Source: http://www.trendyglitzy.com/2015/03/must-read-for-all-ladies-dont-marry.html?m=1
If you that post this says you are not guilty of cheating. Than Heaven is your home.
Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by Nobody: 11:42am On Jun 15, 2015
Poo tongue

1. If he is fvcking around, he is probably testing around to see if you are the right one for him or if there is another out there... If you are not loyal to him, he will drop you.

2. If you drop him because he smokes weed, you have already missed a lot grin

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by Sijo01(f): 11:42am On Jun 15, 2015
jrerico1:
That means am not going to get married cry


Are you gay

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Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by REMMEI(m): 11:43am On Jun 15, 2015
What if she's the one passing through/doing these aforementioned?..


undecided
Re: Don’t Marry Your Boyfriend If He Does These 4 Things by bashydemy(m): 11:43am On Jun 15, 2015
The ladies should stay in there parent house for eternity cos you can never escape all of the above from young of nowadays

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