Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,194,549 members, 7,955,039 topics. Date: Saturday, 21 September 2024 at 03:10 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Culture / Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? (93253 Views)
The 10 Most Expensive Cultures/tribes In Nigeria To Marry From / If You Don't Have 500,000naira, You CANT Marry From Nsukka (pic Proof) / 10 Most Expensive Cultures To Marry From In Nigeria (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (25) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by vivalavida(m): 3:43pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
bigfrancis21: Dont mind them. 3 yoruba men dumped clarion chukwura and we didnt make any noise. Because no one is proposing to her abi her friend,she is creating a thread 11 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by knowledgeable: 3:43pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
CHM11: Complete rubbish: Marriages between Igbos and Yorubas are as high as ever. Marriages between Igbos and river line groups in the SS continues from generation to generation, but marriages between some groups like Fulanis or Kanuris are strictly prohibited based on religion and ethnicity, and that's where you need to focus your cynical and tribal motivated attention on. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by splashbaby(m): 3:44pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
nzeobi:Wrong! Igbos find it difficult to live with others.. Instead owanbe unite and create love. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
chillingbabe:My cousin (From Anambra) married an Enugu lady. 6 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by UjSizzle(f): 3:46pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
CHM11:Lol don't mind the people bashing you joorh. I'm Igbo and not particularly fond of east based igbos too. It's like there's something different about their way of life, as opposed to those who have been... erm... diluted by other tribes. Guess it's the environment. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by onila(f): 3:46pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Igbo men are horrible egoistic and love bullying pple yoruba men are better 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by fairheven: 3:46pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Men !the kind of "stereotype" I see on Nland makes me worry about the future of this country how do you u categorize a whole tribe of 30million pple or there about an just make a sweeping and unguarded comment.who ever choses not to marry from another tribe is a personal decision an not a tribal decision,...human beings behaviors are totally based on individuals background an nothing to do with tribal inclinations. 8 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by caukerzee(m): 3:46pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
My dad is Anambara My mom is plateau. Your point is? 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by spiderman404: 3:47pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
1 Like |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by onila(f): 3:47pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
most of the Nigerian men that treat me badly are Igbo men remember one time in highschool some igbo boys read my diary and told me to commit suicide how mean 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by chezzy13(f): 3:47pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
She should just find her way out now cos very soon he will come up with "MY MUM SAID " I should not marrying outside anambra. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by lyntiffany(f): 3:47pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Calculia:you are so correct my bro, it's only in IBO you see guys marrying from other tribes. Ijaw, Efik, uroboh, yorubas too.Wondering where the girl got her information from.Am in Uyo and I marvel at the rate our guys marry akwaibom girls. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by FOLLOWJESUS: 3:48pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
The igbos have much value for marriag and cherish their wives and husbands somuch,the igbo trib are the only trib that practically practice the vow we make in marriag for better for worst,very faithful to each other not the woMan that will marry 10 husbands before her time is up and the man that will have 20 concobine out side.we sarching for that woman who can stand by u when the going is tough,and the man who will reciprucate. 11 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Anowax(m): 3:48pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Nairalane:Johnbosco 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
sleekangel85:My dear weather its u or ur friend, pick urself up and start again. two of my anambra girlfriends are not married cos their parents said it must b an anambra guy. So life is not waiting 4 anybody. If u stay on this u will waste ur time. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by ramalot(m): 3:49pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Because human beings are shallow-minded. |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by debulle: 3:49pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
sleekangel85:IGBOs are unique.They are the most disliked in this country but they can't be neglected.Igbos(Anambra) hold their tradition and culture in high esteen.Most towns if not all have what is called AJA ANI.The AJA ANI is like the god of the land and it abhors any evil.Some tribes don't have regard/neglect somethings which Aanmbra pple hold in high esteem.like some tribes don't see anything wrong in somebody that is married and the woman will still be having affairs outside,some tribes their Lady can give birth to many men as she wish.Anambra pple have big respect for marriage institution and regard for women.Its on record that Igbo men always take good care of their homes.Pls all relationship must not end up in marriage and as you are generalising its not true that Anambra pple don't marry outside their tribe.Anambra are educated and rich pple and they travel a lot.They equally like good things in life,they inter marry with the pple that are good to them and can contribute to their success in life. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by ramalot(m): 3:49pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
FOLLOWJESUS: You couldn't be any further from the truth. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Nobody: 3:50pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Lol... I doubt this jargon original poster wrote up there. I'm an Anambrarian and my Uncle married an Edo woman while one married an Abian. 90% of my female cousins married non-Anambrarians and the one that got married an Anambra man(her coursemate) last two years told me she can marry any tribe except Yoruba. I, Personally, won't marry an Igbo lady born and bred in the East - I don't know why. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by UjSizzle(f): 3:51pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
CFCfan:Sweet heart your family is different, and you haven't even been home long enough to know what's going on down here. Hapu ndi ma ana ka ha kowa gi ihe n'eme There are exceptions alright, but to be honest, people who are deeply (strangely too) rooted in their Anambra ways are highly unlikely to stray far away from home. Parents who aren't very exposed, have had the misfortune of dealing with unruly people from other tribes are very likely to generalise bad behaviour as peculiar to said tribe too. They will try to advice their children against marriage. But then they'll also not push it if said child insists on their choice. But darn parents can be convincing sha especially when they start dropping their proverbs 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by CHM11: 3:52pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
UjSizzle:Thank you... Anybody who have served in the east or even rivers state(where east based igbos are the majority) know what I'm saying... Its very very hard to understand them... To them its right if they spit on you, but when you spit on them they want to start fighting.... Anyway, its better for them to live amongst themselves. Whoever likes should hate my comment but I just spoke the truth. EAST BASED IGBOS ARE A WEIRD...someone shoot me!!!!!! 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by AreaFada2: 3:52pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
CHM11:. Wrong regarding Igbo don't marry outside. My cousin is married to an Igbo man. We have several Igbo ladies married to extended family members, some since 50 years ago. They have been excellent wives & mothers, and genuinely part of our family. We couldn't have wished for better wives. It's good to keep an open mind. The one truly meant for you would be different from all your negative experiences. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by happyzed0(f): 3:53pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
So am wastn tym wif dis anambra guy no wonder ntin gud is cmin out 4 d pass 3yrs nw I dnt knw his intension 2ward Me I dnt even knw his parentz we ar into hide n see relatnshp oh God pls help me 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Achilies(m): 3:53pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
[color=#006600][/color] bigfrancis21: May you live longer and prosperous than your forefathers. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by andyanders: 3:53pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
sleekangel85: Babe, your guess is as good as mine in asking herein. As regards to the subject matter, I have to give you a short story which I am privy to. A friend of mine who was dating a Yoruba girl here and put her in a family way before he traveled out of the country and the lady gave birth to a baby girl, a replica of the guy. The lady was too young when she put to bed and had to even drop out of school in order to take care of the baby. When the guy came back to Nigeria, I had to take him with my car tracing to find the lady by going to someone that knew her before we were able to see her.He was happy too see the baby and the mother and I told him to just settle down with the lady for good. He accepted and we went and rented an apartment for them to stay and the baby girl was to happy to see her father and things were moving on fine. The younger sister to my friend now went behind and was arranging another girl for her brother from her place in Anambra. Could you imagine that when my friend was coming back to Nigeria and told me to come pick him from the airport, getting to the airport, I saw his sister and a lady with her and I never knew that she was telling the girl that I was the one that was arranging for their brother to marry a Yoruba lady. I got to get this information from someone who over heard her discussing with her friend. In fact, they made sure that the Yoruba girl was not married to their brother as they arranged another lady from their place for the guy and even went fetish to accomplish this. The people are something else 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by kelobestline(m): 3:54pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
I believe d mentality is not from anambra alone, its' a general tribal sickness in nigeria; inherited from our great-grand parents. But it's surprising to discover dat these sentimental belief still exists amonst our generation. Though am not from anambra but pls try to generalise abeg. Our mentally civilised edge'll see us eradicate this sentimental belief. True love is a great key...... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Rexnegro(m): 3:54pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
sleekangel85:U dey mind the foolish guy...some people no go even understand thread before they use their dirty fingers to type rubbish and feel they know what up . Errant nonsense. Babe no mind am Jor u said the truth. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by amadice(m): 3:54pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Rhebekah:....Ur happiness in Ur marriage is paramount...Ur dad will not live with u forever...so what will it benefit u if u make Ur dad happy and be sad tomorrow becos Ur dad will died one day...marriage is a bondage think and reason well before u choose Ur partner....divorce is bad 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by ACM10: 3:54pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
Seriously my Anambra brother will be making a great mistake of his life if he eventually marries OP. I thought we do money ritual with our wives. Why are you breaking your head to queue up for slaughter? 13 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by extension: 3:55pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
'Dont marry yoruba ooo ,they will not stay ooo'. This words came out from a yoruba mother,my neighbour to me in onike,yaba in 1999. They will leave u and marry yorubaman later. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by Nobody: 3:55pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
I love my people! Proudly Anambra!! Gozi uwa n'ile na ibu Nwa Anambra Like the official page of Anambra State on https://www.facebook.com/pages/Anambra-State-Online/729514517126819 ANAMBRA A'DIGHO MMA! 2 Likes 1 Share
|
Re: Why Do Igbos Especially The Anambrans Marry From Their Tribe? by VirginFinder: 3:55pm On Feb 22, 2015 |
I dont fancy a Yoruba lady marrying an ibo man, at all. But the reverse is ok by me. |
(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) ... (25) (Reply)
Origin Of The Bantu Peoples: Eastern Nigeria/Western Cameroun? / The 10 Most Expensive Cultures/tribes In Nigeria To Marry From / 2 Lovers From Okija, Anambra Commit Suicide Over 'Osu' (Disturbing Pictures)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 84 |