Most often married men at some
point in their marital life get
tempted to break the vow of
fidelity. This isn’t peculiar to the
male folks alone, many married
women also tempted to engage in ‘away matches’. To the women,
such action may be largely
influenced by material needs or the
urge to satisfy unfulfilled sexual
desires. Men on the other hand are
mostly into extra marital affairs to try some new or simply have fun.

However, the danger of engaging
in such feat can not be
overemphasized. Apart from the
strong possibility of it leading to
divorce, infidelity diverts the
interest of such individual from the his/her immediate family. The
person becomes carefree and
bother little about the well-being of
the family but largely about the
satisfaction of the partner outside.
It becomes worst if the marriage is already blessed with kids as such
lifestyle most often affects them
gravely. In this parts, there is a generalized
believe that men are naturally
created to be unfaithful. As true as
this may sound, most of the
infidelities recorded in marriages
are caused by the action and inaction of the woman. So really,
what do men want?

1. Keep Yourself In Good Shape: Most men who get engaged in
extra marital affairs often do so not
because their wives isn’t beautiful
but because ‘madam’ have decided
to be careless about her body and
beauty after marriage. Some ladies feel getting married is a licence to
blow out of proportion. While love
is a key element in marriage,
beauty plays an important role in
ensuring it last. Women suddenly
make themselves less attractive after the first or second child. That you have given birth doesn’t
give you the liberty to grow a beer-
inspired tummy as if you are
competing with the man. While an
eight-figure maybe relatively
difficult to achieve, it is important that a slimfit or appropriate body
size be maintained by the woman.
Don’t be deceived, when you look
like a sack of beans at home it only
takes minimal seduction for him to
fall in the hands of the coke bottle- shaped girls outside.

2.Be Ahead Of The Sex Game: Some ladies also believes that after
getting married there is no reason
to get in tune with sexual strategy
in vogue. While food maybe the
shortest route to a man’s heart, sex
have been proven to be even more effective. Don’t be surprised with all
your delicious delicacies he gets
romantic with a girl who may not
necessarily know how to cook but
can give him a mixture of ‘Snake in
the monkey shadow’ with the slide of ‘Jackie Chan’ and ‘Jet Lee’ in bed.

3. Dress To “Kill” Him: Dressing is another key point
ladies must thoroughly consider in
marriage. The fact that the
traditional marriage was done
dorning ‘iro’ and ‘buba’ doesn’t
mean that has to be your uniform for ever. Depending on the extent
of his taste, the skimpy, short and
micro mini skirts are very vital
wears you mustn’t do without
especially when you’re with him.
Men love tantalizing undies and will never resist a seducing night wear
except he is fasting. You must also
appear presentable and sassy
every point in time. Make yourself
irresistible to a point he virtually
begs you to go out with him every time.

4. Maintain Emotional Presence: Married women are also expected
to be of good character and a close
confidant of their partners. When a
woman’s behaviour doesn’t give
the man the green light to share his
troubles and problems he often go out to seek for a listening ear. Once
he has peace in his home, he won’t
consider seeking same outside.

These are the basics!

Wow, what a post!

Nicely written

interesting

Make sure say u sabi cook!!!

Dress to kill him? like my dressing shld get a gun and shoot life outta d man ...den what m i keeping in marriage? a corpse

yinkus4u2c:
Dress to kill him? like my dressing shld get a gun and shoot life outta d man ...den what m i keeping in marriage? a corpse

Ah! No be dat kind killing ooooo......my dear

musfad:
Ah! No be dat kind killing ooooo......my dear

hehehehe

just kidding too

a cheat is a cheat no matter what u do, even jay-z is fooling around when he has beyoce at home. so this will only work if the man trully know God.

Buh ah still believe it depends on d woman

nyc1 op..no knowledge is a waste.

Chizzy20:
nyc1 op..no knowledge is a waste.