OmoEniafelamo:
Seven pages of comments and no one was able to discern the FAKENESS of both the OP and the story. No wonder Buhari is running for president. And newly released data show about 21M suffering mental issues. Think, folks.

On the other hand, one could actually comment on the story but not before acknowledging that it's fake to begin wth. This is how Andyblaze became famous before anyone knew what he was up to. Pathetic.

lonelydora:

because they are busy with BBM, Facebook, 2go and WhatsApp.

PunkyBrewster:
You don't have to wash his clothes but he's right about the rest. It's common sense/courtesy to wanna make the bed you slept in, in the morning or help out during meals. How can you just sit there while someone is preparing a meal for the two of you? I'd be very uncomfortable.

Only thing I don't agree with in his bullet points is the one about washing his clothes. You're his GF, not his adoptive or surrogate mother. I'm sorry but he can wash his damn clothes until he "wifes" you or someone else. How childish. I really don't get the trend of some guys expecting their GFs to wash their clothes for them, especially when you're not even living together. That's just BS imo.

classicB:
He said this after a prolong chat that am not a wife material. He said I dnt display the attribute of one, what I.dnt understand is that must a gf act as a wife even when she isn't? Just to prove she's a wife material

engrkenny:


Washing his clothes is such a biggie? Didn't know that cos myself, no one washes my clothes to my satisfaction. Albeit under the right conditions, most girls would want to wash for a guy even when the guy don't feel comfortable with it. Our ladies binding themselves with rules and ending up desperate since 1909.

iPopAlomo:
So him go cook finish... you go chop inside and him go still wash the plate...?!

you're not qualified to be a side chick material... talkless of girlfriend material...

UjSizzle:
Quick question. What kind of chat app looks like this?
No indication of who's saying what... Nothing at all, just bullets

sweetcocoa:
The OP's boyfriend reason's well(based on the info we have), what's wrong in sleeping over at a bf's house, especially if she expects that the relationship will lead to marriage? How do you bond with someone if you can't spend time together doing stuffs like laundry and cooking?

What you lot don't seem to know, is that, a man will respect you because you deserve it and respect yourself, not because you think it's beneath you to help him out where necessary.

PunkyBrewster:
You don't have to wash his clothes but he's right about the rest. It's common sense/courtesy to wanna make the bed you slept in, in the morning or help out during meals. How can you just sit there while someone is preparing a meal for the two of you? I'd be very uncomfortable.

Only thing I don't agree with in his bullet points is the one about washing his clothes. You're his GF, not his adoptive or surrogate mother. I'm sorry but he can wash his damn clothes until he "wifes" you or someone else. How childish. I really don't get the trend of some guys expecting their GFs to wash their clothes for them, especially when you're not even living together. That's just BS imo.

AgapeCharis:
That's bbm.
Take a look at the blurred areas very well.

classicB:
He said this after a prolong chat that am not a wife material. He said I dnt display the attribute of one, what I.dnt understand is that must a gf act as a wife even when she isn't? Just to prove she's a wife material

classicB:
He said this after a prolong chat that am not a wife material. He said I dnt display the attribute of one, what I.dnt understand is that must a gf act as a wife even when she isn't? Just to prove she's a wife material

UjSizzle:

Hmmm thanks. I don't use BBM... It's pretty ugly.

buoye1:
You emphasised more on the washing of cloth and dodge other salient points the guy raised!I'm not supporting that but let's call a spade a spade....Op needs slap not an advice

vjsmiles:
NO OFFE?NSE BUT HE IS RIGHT....

IF ALL THOSE THINGS HE MENTIONED ARE TRUE THEN BAE YOU AINT EVEN A HOUSEGIRL ONCE AGAIN NO OFFE?NSE

Tashaamania:
OP, I wont lie to you
Husbands are scarce these days, so the one you have now, you should learn to hold him very tight

On a serious note tho, you should try adjust on your part. Its really not nice what he complained about. And trust me, he really likes you to even voice it. How would you even watch your bf cook while you are around? Thats soo not cool.

I know you are not lazy and you are just doing it either because you guys aint married or because you dont want him to start seeing it as your duty. Whatever the case maybe for you, no knowledge is a waste. Do it as somethng you are trained with, even if you two dont end up together, it doesnt change anything in you rather it builds up your confidence as a woman.

classicB:
Thank you all. Am not a lazy girl I just dnt want him to see everything he listed as my duty

Truckpusher:
The boyfriend was good enough to tell her.

Yeye op.

If I were his boyfriend, I will make the bed by myself and when next she comes around she's sleeping on the couch.

searching4love:




CAN YOU BE MY WIFE YOU POSSESS ALL THE QUALITIES I'M SEARCHING FOR

Tashaamania:



I believe that the only time a guy is meant to bend is when he's working on his girlfriend

Adaezeagu:
I thought u said u will rather die than get married. Olosho

missjenna:
Op what I don't understand is why you posted this here.
Do you derive some sort of weird pleasure in showing people your flaws and short comings?
Or don't you know that what you did was wrong?

Of course no guy would tolerate a lazy lady. So you go to his house and you still expect him to cook for you?
The fact that he said you don't wash his clothes means that you have never even tried to wash his clothes for once.

Despite the fact that I am an advocate for women rights and gender equality, I believe that there are things that women are obliged to do.
You don't even lay the bed you slept on? Definitely, any man would be annoyed by this. Its spells laziness and immaturity on your part. It also shows that you are not an organized person

Op this guy loves you an he wants to marry you, that is why he is saying all this. The best you can do for yourself is change.
Prove to him that you have changed so that he doesn't leave you for another woman
Thanks

cherryice:

hahah I lovee this part

Tashaamania:




Honestly, I hate the sight of a guy bending to wash clothes, cook or even do any work.I grew up in a house where there is only one dude - my bro and the rest are girls. Mum made sure we, the girls pampered him shege even though he was the eldest and it was annoying back then, so I kinda grew up with "men need be pampered" attitude


I believe that the only time a guy is meant to bend is when he's working on his girlfriend