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The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Revolva(m): 9:37am On Mar 07, 2015 |
We all know the stereotype that women love bad boys because nice guys whine about it all the time. But there is some truth to the stereotype. A recent study showed that men with “bad boy” traits such as disagreeableness, narcissism, psychopathy, and Machiavellianism did indeed have more romantic partners than humble and agreeable guys. While I am not suggesting a guy become a bad boy (or that women date them), nice guys could learn a thing or two from bad boys—minus the jerk behavior, of course. 1. Bad boys will talk to any woman they meet. While a “nice guy” is quietly building up the courage to talk to the woman from work he has stared at for months, thirty bad boys have already hit on her. The odds are pretty good she has begun dating one of them, while the nice guy is still mentally preparing to talk to her. The narcissistic bad boy has no problem using a lame pickup line on a hundred girls a month. And even if 99 girls reject him, that one success a month will put him ahead of the nice guy who is too afraid to talk to any girls. 2. Bad boys are confident. Most people don’t like cocky guys. However, most of us like whiny, needy, and pathetic guys even less. A bad boy may be bad news in many ways, but his cocky “Who cares what anybody thinks of me?” demeanor is more attractive than the “Woe is me, I can’t get a date” attitude of some nice guys. In terms of attracting women, narcissistic overconfidence beats crippling insecurity any day. 3. Bad boys are charming. Psychopaths aren’t all criminals. In fact, there are more psychopaths in business leadership positions than in prisons. Psychopaths are often well-liked and manipulative charmers, and they know how to use humor, charm, and compliments to make a girl feel good, even if they don’t mean any of it. The bad boy has already won a girl over with his charm before most nice guys can get an awkward “I kind of like you” out of their mouths. 4. Bad boys will talk to even the most guarded women. Every guy who has ever gone to a club is familiar with women who get dragged there with their friends, hating every second of it. They glare at any guy who so much as looks like he is going to approach them. This scares off most guys, except those men who are so self-centered that a woman’s hostile body language doesn’t even affect them. The bad boy approaches these “difficult” women, turns on his charm, and occasionally connects with them. It is not just the case at clubs. Bad boys will approach girls that other guys are afraid to approach, including those women that other men have determined are “out of their league.” Why is that really pretty girl with a bad boy? Likely it is because a “nice guy” was too afraid to talk to her but a bad boy wasn’t. |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by elantraceey(f): 9:42am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Well I don't like bad boys |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Fabdedon(m): 9:44am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Bad boys make them scream happily and turn them to Olive twist.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Nobody: 9:45am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Op, a "bad boy" is a not a psychopath. Get that straight |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by iceberylin(m): 9:47am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Badoo mood activated |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by valmunich(m): 9:52am On Mar 07, 2015 |
So now, who's a bad boy? |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Enegod(m): 9:54am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Woman will not say they want a badboy, but deep down it's the only thing that can get them off. |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by goldenone(f): 9:57am On Mar 07, 2015 |
elantraceey:Me too |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Nobody: 10:44am On Mar 07, 2015 |
So i'm a bad dude? Wowww! |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Psalmwise(m): 10:49am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by cyprianlah(m): 10:51am On Mar 07, 2015 |
elantraceey: If I hear! |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by elantraceey(f): 10:53am On Mar 07, 2015 |
cyprianlah: Well you've heard |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Rexhenrex(m): 10:56am On Mar 07, 2015 |
na him be say folashade like dayo pass me? abeg who get blackberry charger?? Mean while knack like 4 GMB and share for GEj 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Nobody: 10:57am On Mar 07, 2015 |
elantraceey: That's because you are a bad gal. 1 Like |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by cyprianlah(m): 11:00am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by elantraceey(f): 11:02am On Mar 07, 2015 |
cyprianlah: Girls do but not all girls . |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Xb4Real: 11:08am On Mar 07, 2015 |
And some dudes now will form bad boys to be liked by gals. People deceiving people since time immemorial PATHETIC. 2 Likes |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Nobody: 11:09am On Mar 07, 2015 |
OP, be very careful before you put out issues like these. I am not a bad boy and I don't want to be, but I have all the qualities you outlined because they are positive.. 'Bad' boys don't have such qualities. Don't try to make people change their attitude because of trivial issues like these |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Nobody: 11:17am On Mar 07, 2015 |
elantraceey:well i can smell it from afar, you're lieing |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by elantraceey(f): 11:23am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Bluestarry: You need to do something about your unbelieve . |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Nobody: 11:27am On Mar 07, 2015 |
elantraceey:It's "unbelief" Stop writing gibberish on the forum alright |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by elantraceey(f): 11:30am On Mar 07, 2015 |
missclassy: And what if I choose not to change it , will that soothe you? |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Nobody: 11:34am On Mar 07, 2015 |
elantraceey:
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Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by hucienda: 11:38am On Mar 07, 2015 |
ladies... take it easy. |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by quiet006storm: 11:39am On Mar 07, 2015 |
yes o, this is really true, someone told me his story and i decided to pen it down as a couple of short stories on bolanlesnuptialtales..com. its in its 9th chapter. |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by elantraceey(f): 11:40am On Mar 07, 2015 |
missclassy: Oh really Then you won't have made you're sarcastic correction in the first place . |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Nobody: 11:41am On Mar 07, 2015 |
elantraceey:seriously babe? Like? |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Nobody: 11:43am On Mar 07, 2015 |
elantraceey:
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Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Mhizizzy(f): 12:12pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
I don't like bad boys o |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by Nobody: 12:33pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Just be a Gee, Cool, Calm and Collected and them Chicks will come rolling |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by cyprianlah(m): 12:43pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Re: The 4 Reasons Women Love Bad Boys by elantraceey(f): 12:46pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
cyprianlah:Lool , I'm no saint on my own. |
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