Have you ever wondered if there are guys out there that
simply will not marry you? Are there certain men from
whom you should just stay away because chances are,
the relationship is going to be an exercise in frustration
for you? You are not alone — many women think about
this all the time. And yes, there are certain types of
men that you should just plain avoid because if you
were playing the odds, the odds say these guys are just
not going to seal the deal with you.
Here are 10 types of men that I, as a professional
matchmaker, would recommend you stay clear of:
1. Mr. “Still Hung Up On His Ex”: We have all been out
with this guy. He says he is over his ex, yet at every
turn, he talks about her and compares you to her.
Please. He is not over her and until he is over her, he is
not marrying you.
2. Mr. “I Am Not Ready For A Serious Relationship Right
Now”: This is the guy who dates a lot and then when he
gets too close or decides he isn’t interested in you, he
uses the excuse that he’s not ready. The question about
this guy is this: Is he really not ready, or is that just a
convenientexcuse to dump you and avoid the
commitment?
3.Mr. “Bigger Better Deal”: You know this guy. He is the
one who likes you a lot but is always wondering if there
is a better version of you out there, somewhere in the
universe . Honestly, do you need to be with the guy who
is never going to think that you are good enough to
marry?
4. Mr. “I Hang Out With Guys 15 Years My
Junior”: This is the guy who is 47 and a CEO of a
company or a big-time executive and all of his
contemporaries are married, so his BFFs are 25-year-
olds and clubbing it. He is out until 3:00 a.m. several
nights a week, looking to pick up and then he kids
himself into thinking that when a 25-year- old girl says
yes to a date with him, it’s because he is such a good
guy, not because she is dreaming of flying private.
5. Mr. “Still Trying To Figure Out His Career”: If he is
40-plus and having a midlife work crisis, believe me, he
is not going to marry you. Men need to be settled in
their careers or at least know which direction they are
heading on the career front before they can settle down.
6. Mr. “50-Something And Never Been Married”: This guy
is lurking everywhere. He is 50-plus and never married,
yet he will swear to you that he is ready. When you ask
him why he is still single, he will tell you it’s because he
hasn’t met the right one. Then the question becomes
that if he hasn’t found her in the hundreds of women he
has dated before you, what is going to make you so
special that you are going to be his one? Probably
nothing.
7. Mr. “Doesn’t Believe In Monogamy”: This guy thinks
he is very avant-garde progressive, but most people will
say he is just looking for an excuse to cheat. Do you
really want to be with a guy who tells you upfront that
he won’t be faithful?
8. Mr. “All About Me”: This guy is all about himself,
24/7, 365 days a year. Sharing your life with someone is
hard enough, so do you really want to sign up to be
with someone who is so into himself that they will never
even notice you, your wants and your desires?
9. Mr. “My Kids Are The Only Thing I Care About”: This
guy is a tricky one. When you first meet him, he is
endearing because you admire how dedicated he is to
his children. You think to yourself that you would like to
be with a man who is that responsible. However, then
you start to see that he doesn’t have any room for you
at all because he is only about the kids. If you are
going to be with a man with kids, he needs to want to
find a place for you, front and center, in his life at least
some of the time.
10. Mr. “Dates Other Women Who Mean Nothing To
Him”: This guy is really a commitment-phobe in
disguise. Why does he need to date women who mean
nothing to him if he is dating you and you supposedly
mean something to him? You do the math. Well, you
want to add to it. Tell me then. Or you don’t agree. Let
me know too.

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No 1 tho

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Mhizizzy:
No 1 tho
Nice thread op

Thanks

these are all true...