angrybird007:
Are u trying to tell me
Seu.n might not be O.sewa

mmsen:


Thanks. Such a sad story.

nnafather:
Blood of God! Now I know why my elder brother John no wan take eyes see me. This guy nearly beat me to death when we still dey small. My father must read this...Halleluyah!!!!

Sammiejokes:
and some people will say i must not marry a virgin, okay ooo i hera, if she is not a virgin she must be a confirmed lady committed to things of God

nnafather:


God forbid!!!!

UGLYS:
This will shock you like PHCN’s high tension wire.  How will you feel to raise a child only to find out he is not yours. Lagos DNA expert, Dr. Oyinwola Azeez has revealed something thought provoking. According to Dr. Azeez 40% of the first borns are not from their so called fathers. He spoke to City People Magazine from his Lagos based hospital. Read him:

I can tell you this happens to so many men. Do you know that 40percent of most of the first born don’t belong to their so called biological fathers; all over the world, reason? Most of the ladies often have one or two boyfriends, he said.

Mr Oyinwola however said he ventured into the trade after his own personal experience. He lost his wife and decided to give another woman a chance. He met this lady in London and invited her to Germany when he went for a visit. She came, they made love and that was it. After one year she called him to say, well that night’s love making has resulted into twins, he was shocked and then said okay. Continue…
After a while, he flew to London at exactly when the twins were one, he went with one of his friends and they had a birthday celebration for the kids. He started taking responsibilities, after two years he bought her a car.

After the whole scene, it was already four years that he lost his wife and wanted to give marriage a second chance. So he flew to London again, but before flying he told his brothers about the twins and said, he will carry out a DNA test, and if they were his he will be bringing them home, his brother agreed and he left. When he got to London, they went for a DNA test, while waiting for the test, they flew to Italy for dinner. After a while when they got back to London, he remembered the test and said, Lady let me check my mail, lo and behold the kids were not his. He was disappointed and he left.
But before then, he was already planning to move her in to Nigeria. She was already dictating to the carpenter the way she wanted her room to be and so on. The whole plans got shattered because she lied, that was how I would have been training another man’s children, he explained.

***Similarly, I was glued to my radio during a family section program and heard another shocker; A woman was married to a man and they had Four (4) kids. All Four children do not belong to the man and all Children had different fathers.

So here was my thought, Perhaps the man was incapable of having children and the lady doesn't want to lose her husband and her home. If she had fathered the children via One man, then I Can categorically tag her a "A heartless cheat". Mind you, she still cheated but maybe compelled to do so due to prevailing circumstances.

But these are my thoughts, what will you do as a man, if you discover that you aint the father of your first son or Four children?

smakati:
I always advise people to do paternity testing right after a baby is born, even before the naming ceremony. It will save you money and ftom agony

Kachisbarbie:
The problem is, a lot of people ranting here and now are probably not married.
They haven't been through the pains/agony of TTC. Then you discover the problem is a male factor.
You start thinking,how can I take this pain/shame away from my darling husband?
What options do we have?
Can we afford the options? Etc

We all know it's typical of Nigerians to attribute the problem of TTC to the woman.

Believe it or yes- some of these men are very aware the kids are not theirs.
Yes, they are aware. They just look the other way __ while the wife does her thing.

How many average Nigerian can afford IUI/IVF/ICSI...very few.
It's easier for them to get a young guy or whatever to sleep with them, than to raise millions of naira for an IVF which might not even be successful.

I have learnt not to judge people.

tumababa:
my own opinion.........

this percentage will be higher among those women who got pregnant before marriage and also those who got pregnant during the first 6months of marriage.

the likelihood of fathering another man's child after both couples have been TTC 1year after marriage is low (except the guy has been confirmed to be impotent by a certified doctor)

UGLYS:
Obinoscopy, davide470, lalasticlala. We need more inputs

b0rn2fuck:
I hearr say the test cost between 400k to 1m. I say 4 wetin,dem wan test deady body ni? I knew this could be remour ladiess tell their hubby to scare them away

tbaby534:
Eh yah what a story. Out of every 10 women there is a good one at least.

emmadejust:



Really? that's too much oooo, I wish to its actual cost and where someone can go and do it with accurate result.

tooltip:
Damn! i pity the dude.......he might have been good in bed too

nnafather:
Blood of God! Now I know why my elder brother John no wan take eyes see me. This guy nearly beat me to death when we still dey small. My father must read this...Halleluyah!!!!

holatin:
am not surprised after reading Femi kuti story

some ladies of nowadays are worse than the devil.

imagine nurturing a child for over 20 yrs, and later getting to know he or she is not yours.
it can cause straight death for the guy.


LADIES WHY.

*off to ask my wife once again*

itstpia8:

are you polyamorous?
perhaps.

tooltip:
. . . .

itstpia8:


are you paranoid or perhaps crazy?

tooltip:
no pun intended.....wanted to know where your stand .....oya start talking

itstpia8:


read up on sarcasm, and get help as well.