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Poll: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor?

Yes: 54% (6 votes)
No: 18% (2 votes)
Unsure (Poster Might Be Crazy): 27% (3 votes)
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Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by Nobody: 5:04am On Jan 14, 2009
Approved or Disapproved?

This does not mean startling up petty little fight or doing something drastic to brew up a fight.

Okay, this is what I think, I think it's healthy for a relationship because it makes one notice the imperfections of their others and it prepares one for marriage. You begin to ask yourself, can I deal with this? Is this right or wrong?

And also, I heard on NL, that after an argument comes reconciliation comes hot steamy sex.

Reasons why arguments and (fights) are good for your relationship

1. The aftermath and forgiving scene is heartwarming, or can be sometimes.
2. Helps strengthen your relationship
3. Prepares you for marriage
4. reveals your partners imperfections
5. Does he/she stays and listen to your side of th ecoin or does he/she just walk off?
6. communication skills
7. etc
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by Sissy3(f): 5:11am On Jan 14, 2009
yes i do agree argument is good but to the extent it doesnt involve hot water pouring or beating. i even like hot steamy sex after the argument cox then he will still be hot and it will result in more longer hours of action kiss
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by nalijah07(f): 5:12am On Jan 14, 2009
I agree with your points.
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by C2H5OH(f): 5:16am On Jan 14, 2009
You damn right poster. Argument is a must in any healthy relationship. confirmer
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by bluespice(f): 5:57am On Jan 14, 2009
poster might be crazy tongue
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by iice(f): 8:42am On Jan 14, 2009
Yup. . .argument is good
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by smooooooth: 8:44am On Jan 14, 2009
all ladies wil agree to this one, but we need to separate arguement from nagging, cos thats what u all do,nag, nag, nag till u drive a broda crazy.
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by bluespice(f): 9:07am On Jan 14, 2009
not all people nag and u do know that men nag also
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by smooooooth: 9:14am On Jan 14, 2009
bluespice:

not all people nag and u do know that men nag also

now u nagging again grin.
men dnt nag ,they too sweet for that
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by bluespice(f): 9:16am On Jan 14, 2009
oh pls
men nag n ive met nagging men a lot

n im not nagging either tongue
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by smooooooth: 9:19am On Jan 14, 2009
bluespice:

oh please
men nag n ive met nagging men a lot

n I'm not nagging either tongue

i am sure not one of them nagging men, i love argument though, and i think a little fighting is good for a relationship. i mean real fighting like they do in WWF cheesy
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by bluespice(f): 9:24am On Jan 14, 2009
can u be married to chyna?
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by Ben13: 9:30am On Jan 14, 2009
If the argument is happening right on the bed, it's very good.
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by iice(f): 12:02pm On Jan 14, 2009
Men who nag are just lipsrsealed
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by Nobody: 12:45am On Jan 15, 2009
smooooooth:

all ladies wil agree to this one, but we need to separate arguement from nagging, cos thats what u all do,nag, nag, nag till u drive a broda crazy.
I say no petty lil fights. . . . undecided
If your gf likes to nag, oh boy, embarassed
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by sistawoman: 4:26pm On Jan 15, 2009
Arguments mean to me that each person has thier own brain, own reasoning power and there is balance in the r/s. It says that we can disagree/speak our minds and yet still settle it.

It means that we dont have to agree on everything and should not agree on everything therefore we are stronger.

Stronger how you may ask?

Because we have two seperate brains approaching the same problem from two seperate angles thus giving us two seperate solutions. When this happens an argument or confersation come about.

Also arguements are so sweet to make up after.

@smooth
Men NAG TOO!!!!!!!
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by frijos(m): 4:47pm On Jan 15, 2009
@ Poster argument is not good for any relationship and we shud all try to avoid it at all times.

couples who argue are couples who don't or are finding it hard to understand each other.

I understand some people deliberately cause argument just to spicen up their relationships but unknown to them they make it worse.
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by SOJ(m): 4:57pm On Jan 15, 2009
frijos:

@ Poster argument is not good for any relationship and we shud all try to avoid it at all times.

couples who argue are couples who don't or are finding it hard to understand each other.

I understand some people deliberately cause argument just to spicen up their relationships but unknown to them they make it worse.

What's with dat?

There is no reason to avoid arguements;they r inevitabilities in relationships. see it this way: when too rough surfaces rub each other, they will smoothen over with time.
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by frijos(m): 5:48pm On Jan 15, 2009
I'm not tryna say there ain't gon' be no arguments in relationships but one shud try as much as possible to avoid it u dig?
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by naijafan(m): 11:57pm On Jan 15, 2009
frijos:

I'm not tryna say there ain't gon' be no arguments in relationships but one shud try as much as possible to avoid it u dig?

prevent it from happening at all, or prevent it from degenerating into something else. . . i'd say the latter is much more easier to accomplish. and yea, we all love the aftermath - now tell me that's not good for relationships too wink
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by Nobody: 11:58pm On Jan 15, 2009
All the stuff you listed are good for a relationship but dont happen in a marriage o. grin Wake up ASAP.
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by tope2000(f): 12:16am On Jan 16, 2009
Arguments can be good, atleast it shows u both have different opinions abt issue wink
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by Nobody: 12:17am On Jan 16, 2009
Atleast it prepares one for marriage.
And what is a marriage without arguments?
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by Nobody: 12:18am On Jan 16, 2009
Ko da fun eyin te vote wipe mo crazy cheesy
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by tope2000(f): 12:19am On Jan 16, 2009
HeatFusion:

Ko da fun eyin te vote wipe mo crazy cheesy

lmao grin
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by MrCrackles(m): 12:21am On Jan 16, 2009
HeatFusion:

Ko da fun eyin te vote wipe mo crazy cheesy

hehe do i know dis userID?! cheesy
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by Nobody: 12:22am On Jan 16, 2009
MrCrackles:

hehe do i know dis userID?! cheesy
welcome back.
Hope the trip went well smiley
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by MrCrackles(m): 12:23am On Jan 16, 2009
Healthy arguments are pretty good!

I luv me a tantrum throwing lady
grin cheesy
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by MrCrackles(m): 12:23am On Jan 16, 2009
HeatFusion:

welcome back.
Hope the trip went well smiley


who tell u say i go trip? cheesy
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by Nobody: 12:25am On Jan 16, 2009
MrCrackles:

Healthy arguments are pretty good!

I luv me a tantrum throwing lady
grin cheesy
You be Neyo? cheesy
"It's just the cutest thing
When you get to fussing (cussing)
Yelling and throwing things
I just wanna eat you up
I don't mean no disrespect
When I start staring
Knowing that it makes you madder (uh, oh)
I'm sorry but seeing you mad is so sexy"


MrCrackles:


who tell u say i go trip? cheesy
You did. . . . I can see it went well. Iwo nan ti n yo ereke
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by MrCrackles(m): 12:28am On Jan 16, 2009
HeatFusion:

You did. . . . I can see it went well. Iwo nan ti n yo ereke

undecided
chei, i fear oo!
who u be
?
anyway hols was fine, i had a swell time!
Re: Argument In A Relationship Is Actually A Good Factor? by Nobody: 12:30am On Jan 16, 2009
MrCrackles:

undecided
chei, i fear oo!
who u be
?
anyway hols was fine, i had a swell time!
shhh, fear not, caruso. cheesy

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