Chucks2015:

(1) Does she still love him?

(2) Does the break thing make any sense?

(3) Is he losing his pride or is this allowed because he messed up and broke up with her twice?

(4) I am also surprised she can go 3 weeks without talking to him and she claims she loves him. Does this make sense?

(5) Is she actually trying to break up with him or is her pride also hurt and she wants both of them to be sure what they want.

(6) Should he keep sweet talking and apologising?

Cutehector:
He is definitely losing his ego. Moving on is d only way foward. Like me for example, I can go on my knees begn my girl bla bla bla, buh if it gets to her head and I see dat she isn't tryna forgiv, I let go. Most times, I hardly even beg. I just let dem be and giv dem space.

Chucks2015:


Thats what i told him. You have begged enough. It so bad the girl is expecting him to call her again later. He however feels he deserves it cos he broke up with her twice and she deserves to do shakara

Cutehector:
shakara my foot. Shakara is one of my top turn offs. D moment I notice she is doin it dat much, I turn d table around. She should go bleep herselv for all he cares.

Olutola88:
The relationship will most likely NOT work. They will keep having issues cos of the distance. Btw, it's not easy for a lady that has enjoyed active sexual life to just go on a break like that( she will most likely see other guys). They should free each other at least for now, if they are both single when the dude comes back then can think of starting something again if the affection is still there

Chucks2015:


So what do you advice him to do. Do you think she still loves him? How can he turn it around? Can he tell her that he cant wait for 3 months cos there is no use??

stambouli:
Your pal is kinda unstable.breaking up in a moment and calling back in twenty minutes to apologise.he keeps breaking up every now and then,even if the girl loves him,his unstable act of breaking up with her everyday will make her think twice.your pal should re-evaluate his thoughts and think deeply on whether he really wants the lady or not.

Cutehector:
if she still loved him den she would hav forgvn him a long tym agao

Chucks2015:


I agree with you. Now he is stuck he does not know if the girl is doing this cos she wants him to decide what he wants or if she's done and just playing him. He wants her but i know her past plays on his mind. He is trying to let go. She is not helping though. She flirted with a guy on twitter after they broke up and it is making him conclude.

Chucks2015:


True talk. I told him a one month relationship cannot sustain long distance especially with a sexually active girl. She is used to sleeping with guys and it not working out so you have no real hold on her especially when your not there. So you really think she does not love him again? thats scary though cos i saw the pics and videos she sent him. Girls sha

stambouli:
Your pal still has reservations concerning the number of guyz the lady has been with and he always gets annoyed whenever he thinks about it.I doubt if he trusts the Lady. I think he should just let the lady go cos he is in London and she's in Nigeria ,they need trust to make it work and ur pal lacks trust in the lady

Cutehector:
feelings die u knw. Well as for d pics and videos , is it adult content?

Chucks2015:


Lmao i know they do. But that fast? lol na everything o. Adult to her actually professing her love

Chucks2015:


You know I believe trust is built or earned personally. I dont he trusts her fully either. Also is 7 a lot for a girl of 23 yrs?

Rexhenrex:
sowie to say this,but the gurl is a player and never loved the guy,he better find someone else.if u are in a relationship where by you always beg the other party and the never admit being wrong then u are no longer in a relationship rather in a fellowship of the other party because the love is one sided,tell him to moveon.

In4matic:
My friend Wether its you or your Friend that this is happening to need to grow up because the man herein is still a boy. Unsafe unattractive and a loser. So what if she has dated twelve guys? What is he currently doing with her? Even if guys hit on Her doesn't that mean she is attractive? Or would he b content to date a woman no other man wants? I bet he won't.
She agreed to date him despite the number of real men asking her out only to discover she settled for a child!
He better not call her for d next month while he works on growing up and mastering his emotions , also give her time to miss him. And no she is not dating anyone else she'd have told him CLEARLY or dropped a very obvious hint

klark3:
Op u really need to help ur guy. He's in love, he doesn't know what he's doing presently, trust me he will cry when he eventually realize this moment. d only way to stop him is to constantly foil any of his plan to call d girl. He has already traded his respect as a man for love, I know it's gonna be hard for him, but try your possible best to stop him, let him end everything, d girl is just playing on his emotions, & most importantly, he should never accept her back again.

Love sha...

Chucks2015:
Guys i have spoken to him and what he really wants to know is if her attitude is just her making a point that you cannot just break up with her anytime like that or is she moving on. She saying they should break up till he comes back

klark3:

d girl has moved on, she is just taking ur guy for a fool, or probably as plan b. Presently ur guy is weak, he has been incapacitated by love, u're d only one dat help him end this folly. Ur guy cannot face d pain of breaking out alone, he needs encouragement, that's why he ends up calling her, breaking out of love isn't easy. Blackett has already explained everything, just apply his advise.

Chucks2015:


I am just seeing blackett advise but it makes sense sha.

Chucks2015:


True talk. I told him a one month relationship cannot sustain long distance especially with a sexually active girl. She is used to sleeping with guys and it not working out so you have no real hold on her especially when your not there. So you really think she does not love him again? thats scary though cos i saw the pics and videos she sent him. Girls sha

Chucks2015:


lol thats a different opinion. Mastering of emotions is something he clearly needs to do cos he cant keep been indecisive. However i feel he can be uncomfortable with her number. the problem is him letting her know. As for calling him a loser and unattractive. He is still got the girl remember. How can u be sure she is not dating anyone? Like women dont lie or deceive. I think she is but she is keeping him there cos of his "potential". but we can never know. He did ask and she said No. but didnt expect a yes anyway, her behaviour alone rigs of it imo