Ladies of today no longer pay attention to the development of the most important aspect of their lives; which is CHARACTER. They have been deceived by the western world which portrays physical appearance as the only thing that matters. The west have deceived us into thinking that for a man to love a lady, all she has to do is look beautiful or sexy. But this is a all lie, because physical appearance does not make a man fall in love with a woman, it only make men to lust after them. And very often, this lust is mistaken for love by both men and women and this is the reason for a lot of failed relationships and marriages we have today.

The popular believe this days is that character no longer matter when it comes to relationships and marriages. This is the reason why many ladies only focus on how they look and not on how they behave.
But this not suppose to be so, because, a woman's character remains with her till the day she dies but beauty fades with age.

So, here is an advise for the ladies; don't focus too much on physical appearance because, any man who profess love to you just because you are beautiful or sexy, will leave you when the beauty fades. Instead focus on how to develop a good character because, if a man loves you because of your character, he will remain with you even when the beauty fades.

And for the men, you may think you are in love with a lady simply because she is beautiful or sexy, just wait till when those physical feature are no longer there. Then you will realize that you never really loved the lady, instead, what you felt was infatuation and lust. The result of this is that you no longer want to stay with the woman you claimed to love just because she is not as beautiful or sexy as before. This is the reason why a lot of marriages today end in divorce. So my advice to men is that we should try not to focus too much on how a lady looks, instead, we should try and look for ladies who are worthy in character, because, if your love is based on character, the fading away of beauty that comes with age will not make you love her less. Why is this so, it is because even if her beauty fades, her character will never fade.

So, ladies and gentlemen, i have shown you the truth. You have a choice to either accept it and apply it to your lives, or to reject it and continue with your old ways. The choice is yours....