From time immemorial, a woman’s virginity has been seen as one of
her most prized possessions and a certain respect was accorded to
any woman who remained a virgin till marriage.
But with modernization came a new school which places less value on
a woman’s virginity. These days, virginity is even seen as a curse.
Girls have no qualms losing it to the first man that comes their way.
In the days of old, a maiden was expected to go into marriage as a
virgin. If on the first night after the marriage her husband
discovered she was not a virgin, her family gets instant
condemnation.
But civilization has substantially changed the way people perceive
virginity. Today, there’s so much pressure on girls to gain s*xual
experience before getting married as some men do not want to
marry a woman with no s*xual experience.
Most girls who have friends that are already sexually active feel
left out when they are discussing their experiences, hence the urge
to also experiment for themselves.
Virgins are really very scarce these days as majority loose it even
before the age of 20. Some girls even compete among themselves
who would be the first to lose her virginity.
But what is the big deal about virginity? Could it be the secret to a
happy marriage?
Let’s take a look at some of the answers given by some Naij.com
readers.
According to Ella Ada Obani, being a virgin does not guarantee a
happy marriage but it earns trust. “ You might be a virgin, but ur
attitude and character is zero ,” she adds.
Owomoyela Abimbola Hanna said: “ Yes it does, because the bible
doesn’t support s*x before marriage. And whenever we do things
according to the will of God, we live a happy and fulfilled life .”
“ It pays to be a virgin. If you are a virgin when you pray, God
answers you speedily because you have kept yourself pure. Secondly,
it is only a foolish man or a ‘man dog’ that does not have value for
a virgin. Do you know what it cost a lady to preserve her indecency
for just one man? Any husband that happens to be the first to
drink from the cistern of his wife should count himself blessed. 2yrs
ago, Imo state government was giving out cars to serving female
corpers that got married as virgin. Let us teach our children to
uphold their virginity. Your virginity is your pride ,” Ebony Celestine
said.
Anekwe Nkechi believes that some girls are still virgin in 20’s but it
has nothing to do with happiness in marriage. She explains that some
virgins find it difficult to conceive, saying: “ so virgin or no virgin
doesn’t guarantee anything .”
Justynoble Ben is of the opinion that being a virgin can guarantee a
happy marriage to some extent because your husband will always
respect and cherish you and with that he will hardly hurt you. “I f I
am given such privilege to be a virgin again, I would love to be ,” he
adds.
Eno Jonah said: “ It doesn’t guarantee a successful marriage but
you’ll be happy about not having a dark past. Your husband will
always respect you for that, if given another chance I’ll still be a
virgin for him again .”
“ The answer to this question is Yes & No. Being a virgin guarantees
a happy home as your hubby will cherish you like gold not only that,
he won’t have the mind to cheat on you and you also earn respect
trust from him. On the other hand, why I say it doesn’t guarantee a
happy marriage is when you are married to the wrong person. I am a
virgin and am very proud of myself, still love to be a virgin again in
my next life ,” Muslihat Obomeghie said.
Another reader named Jane Odukwe said: “ My question is the man
coming to marry a virgin, is he a virgin? Typical no, so why is he
looking for a virgin? Sounds as if making marriage work is made
for women alone. What about the men, can’t they put effort to see
that their marriage works too .”
It is quite understandable that the pressure to remain a virgin till
marriage has become more and more difficult in today’s world
which celebrates waywardness, immorality, indecency and stupidity
more than uprightness and decency.
But there are still a number of virgins out there and you can be one
of them. If you desire to, all you need to do is make up your mind
and determine to keep your virginity till marriage.
Though it is not very easy, it is possible.

www.informationng.com/2015/03/the-sad-truth-about-virginity-and-how-it-affects-marriage.html

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Yawn. Give the virginity thread a rest people. E don do na haba!

so after dis make i(we) do wetin nw? smh.

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so after dis make i(we) do wetin nw? smh.

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Summary please

what you wrote doesn't reflect the headline.





But it pays to be a virgin.

Virginity doesn't define which marriage will last or not.

It's all about choice. Any girl that chooses to remain a virgin till her honeymoon should be applauded. it's not an easy feat. But in the same vein, any lady that chose to lose hers shouldn't be derided. Getting deflowered doesn't make one a girl bad.

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