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Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by Kingsasian(m): 7:15pm On Mar 13, 2015
tosyne2much:
Im glad my boo does not ask for favour before i bleep
but she asks during or after.....lol
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by Nobody: 7:16pm On Mar 13, 2015
anigbajumo:
Return 4waten abeg?I swear I go dey curse her frm my mind nd stil continue to bleep her.......Next dae make she no cum again I no send her..

This is why she should get paid you don't give a rats ass about her. If it was a prostitute would you not pay her?

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Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by EMEzzy(m): 7:19pm On Mar 13, 2015
andromida:


The worthiness in this context does not define the man's entire worth as a human being but the man's intent in their entanglement and yes its ok because she knows he has no good intentions towards her, he is using her as a prostitute they just didn't define it as such why should she not get paid for it??

What they are doing is not righteous why should she pretend to be a goody two shoes and fool herself? Anyway the vjayjay was never meant to be free that is why it comes sealed for the safety of a woman in certain well defined, healthy relationships not low down corner affairs where people know what they are doing then want the woman to pretend as if she does not know the truth of the entanglement.
Arent they supposed to be dating? How would she think a person who is her bf(she is actualy a sid chick)doesnt have good intentions for her? Like i said earlier only a hoe thinks that way.

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Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by baralatie(m): 7:19pm On Mar 13, 2015
andromida:


This is why she should get paid you don't give a rats ass about her. If it was a prostitute would you not pay her?
you just labelled someone a prostitute .
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by Laredojohn(m): 7:19pm On Mar 13, 2015
Most of those ladies believe that's the best time to get their wishes, my view is any lady who asks for any sort of financial gain, during, when sex is about to start , during pre-intimacy , is definitely a runs gal because she will probably do same for other guys and she sees sex as a job she must b paid for.gbam

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Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by Nobody: 7:21pm On Mar 13, 2015
baralatie:

you just labelled someone a prostitute .

Nah, he is using her as one he should pay her.
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Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by tosyne2much(m): 7:22pm On Mar 13, 2015
Kingsasian:
but she asks during or after.....lol
She doesnt cheesy
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by AdeniyiA(m): 7:22pm On Mar 13, 2015
They ask most times before or during the act because they know that men are not in their right senses, all the senses have moved to their third leg lipsrsealed
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by Nobody: 7:23pm On Mar 13, 2015
EMEzzy:
Arent they supposed to be dating? How would she think a person who is her bf(she is actualy a sid chick)doesnt have good intentions for her? Like i said earlier only a hoe thinks that way.

I read him refer to her as a side chic does that look like good intentions to you?

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Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by BushidoBlue(m): 7:23pm On Mar 13, 2015
falconey:
I wish I can answer this but I don't have a VIRGINA!!



Ladies the floor is yourz............

MODs I think it should be DURING/AFTER, the DOING/AFTER doesn't seem right.
Dude it's VAGINA!!!!

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Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by baralatie(m): 7:25pm On Mar 13, 2015
andromida:


Nah, he is using her as one he should pay her.
let me get you clearly,
any Guy whose aim in relationship is intimacy a rolling stone
and the lady who tags along a hoe.
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by falconey(m): 7:27pm On Mar 13, 2015
BushidoBlue:

Dude it's VAGINA!!!!
thanks men , that shows I don't really have it.


























But you are wrong.
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by JustCare: 7:28pm On Mar 13, 2015
falconey:
you are talking about married couple.....what business transaction? They are one!!


Sex or no sex she won't stop asking for favours and the man won't stop asking for sex.
And not everyman will grant such because of sex, during/before/after.
And there you go...making it a one sided thing. It's really mutual bro.
what if the man asks the woman of favors while in the act i mean the man asking for some needs etc during the thingny
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by Nobody: 7:29pm On Mar 13, 2015
baralatie:

let me get you clearly,
any Guy whose aim in relationship is intimacy a rolling stone
and the lady who tags along a hoe.

You mean a guy who just wants to get laid?

The man might have conned her and she may be anything.
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by brownlord: 7:29pm On Mar 13, 2015
Kachisbarbie:
Your cousin passed you the gist?

Then she isn't his "girlfriend", they are not serious with each other.

If what they share is real, I see no wrong in it. Normally @ that point, his nerves are relaxed and his brain is rebooting (that's if she gave him a show-down grin).

So, he would be vulnerable and pleased, what better time to table your request?

Please, Mbok, Biko___ over-sanctimonious peeps, don't come here and start sermon on the mount. kiss

The best time for m to turn down request
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by uromicom: 7:30pm On Mar 13, 2015
diddydiva:
seconded!!!

thirded

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Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by kullozone(m): 7:31pm On Mar 13, 2015
andromida:


Leech? the men are happy to pay for the transaction in many runs cases. I don't think sluts sleep with men for the money so no leech cases here.

chai!
this post is disturbing...
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by baralatie(m): 7:35pm On Mar 13, 2015
andromida:


You mean a guy who just wants to get laid?

The man might have conned her and she may be anything.
really?
she might be what!
a wife...no
a girlfriend...no
a concubine.... no
anything means
and I am not excusing the man either.if the only thing he sees in a woman is between her legs.how many of it will make him normal
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by anigbajumo(m): 7:41pm On Mar 13, 2015
andromida:


This is why she should get paid you don't give a rats ass about her. If it was a prostitute would you not pay her?
da way I woo a Lady determines dat....una cum dey waka inside sun I cum escort u nd we talk 2advance level den u follow me go my hostel (sit confortable inside ride wif full Air Con),una cum reach my hostel stil dey bleep u inside Air con....I don even do u a favou coz una don enjoy wif ease.y pay again.....if I gat 1k for her transport fare make she dey fank God.....bt if guys OT iz nt well composed E no fit work,jez 4street guy wey undstnd........If 2say na Ahii I go no say na Ashii I wan bleep,I wnt trouble mai self coz my money gonna speak 4 dat....
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by macdelene(m): 7:43pm On Mar 13, 2015
My dear evrythin ashawo. U wen ur brain dey for ur penis. Nko. Its Becos at those period the man brain has turn into water grin
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by LewisO: 7:45pm On Mar 13, 2015
andromida:


Tell them.
[size=15pt]U ehn. sad[/size]
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by luckyboss(m): 7:47pm On Mar 13, 2015
Tallesty1:
Any woman(Married or single) that ask for a favour during sex is a prostitute.
You're right come to the meaning of favour in this post which is financial aspect.
But in the real meaning of favour it can be anything other than money e.g; this reminds me when I do usually offended my Dad..he will chase me out, used some abusive words on me which by no option I have to go and summoned his best friend to apologize him but he can't admit.
But when my mum went to bed with him and ask of the favour to forgive me he will do without much words.

From then i learnt that the best place for a married woman to seek a favour from the husband is in bed no matter what they are doing, DURING/AFTER.
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by LewisO: 7:48pm On Mar 13, 2015
Laredojohn:
Most of those ladies believe that's the best time to get their wishes, my view is any lady who asks for any sort of financial gain, during, when sex is about to start , during pre-intimacy , is definitely a runs gal because she will probably do same for other guys and she sees sex as a job she must b paid for.gbam
[size=15pt]Give that guy a medal and four free clean pus**y. grin[/size]
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by film2(m): 8:00pm On Mar 13, 2015
See ehh, experience they said is the best teacher, I have being a victim of this; my first date did such to me,I loved her silly,same my second date...I normally ask myself that question, a girl that asks for money after sex often is she not a slut? a guy that loves a girl can attend to her needs anytime any place not exactly after sex .my opinion is this; check these type of babes they are easy to be wooed over,owned by highest bidder and end make marrying men that will mess them up..

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Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by komek(m): 8:05pm On Mar 13, 2015
x9ja1960:
Ok...am sure many G's have experienced this old trick.

My cousin was with his chic...well his side chic...not that he has a main chic sha grin Anyways, he was with this chic and after the first round, the girl started throwing charges. She started with how he is supposed to place her on a monthly salary of at least 30k and landed on the fact that she is traveling to her home state, so therefore needs money for transport.

My G being a badt gai, formed ear problem and proceeded to collect his 2nd round in the rising emotions. While they were taking a rest, she demanded a response to her request. My cousin started by wondering aloud why women always ask for something in return after having sex with a guy as though men must pay for a fun they both obviously shared in? She went quiet - a sign of gradual buildup of anger. My cousin continued anyways. He asked her if she was asking him to pay for sex...she replied no. He asked her that assuming she didn't come to see him that evening would she not have traveled...she didn't respond. To the salary placement of 30k, he reminded her that she was working and also well paid, so why should he place her on another salary especially since he has dependents...she gave no comment. Next she became very angry and started shouting that she is not ready for my cousin's stories...that he must give her that money o...that after all my cousin is the last born therefore she doesn't see why he should come up with excuses each time she asks him for money! At this point my cousin went quiet and simply added as a last shot...I am the last born therefore all my hustle should be surrendered to you abi...smh. She hurriedly left the bed and told him without mincing words that he must give her that money, whether he likes it or not...even if it means borrowing from somebody.

Sha she left afterwards and my cousin passed me the gist. We had a good laugh with the drama and wondered if she had just 5 guys giving her 30k monthly...she for don resign from work tey tey...lol. Come imagine say she now upgrad after a while in the biz and got just 5 guys giving her 50k monthly...levels for don change! We had a good laugh sha...women sabi turn guys to Sure-p (p for pay).

In the end nobody plan to become runs girl...na play play people dey take become bad players...hahaha

Is she from IMO state?

Any MOST Nigerian gurls especially in Lagos would want u to pay for sex some how.
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by kevodre: 8:06pm On Mar 13, 2015
Morale of d story.....In life,no one helps u once u're bleeped
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by baralatie(m): 8:10pm On Mar 13, 2015
kevodre:
Morale of d story.....In life,no one helps u once u're bleeped
well said!
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by Edusouls(m): 8:18pm On Mar 13, 2015
LewisO:

[size=15pt]Total rubbish!

Do u think before posting this crap, huh?

Only a f00lish gay will post this nonsense. undecided[/size]

monkey, if i catch my sister with a wash out like you,i go disown am...
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by oshaosha2014(m): 8:20pm On Mar 13, 2015
andromida:
Anytime a woman sleeps with a man who is not worthy of her i believe it is o.k if she asks for payment. grin She knows she has not done right by herself and getting paid at least makes the act right on some levels within her mind.

Going by your reply, I think it is in the guy's right to ask for favours too. because she is not worthy of dating he shld ask her for money for building a duplex. Na two way thing jare. Guys pls start asking for favours, na u dey lose sperm o.
Re: Why Do Women Ask For Favours During/After Sex by Edusouls(m): 8:20pm On Mar 13, 2015
EMEzzy:
Utter rubbish,lacking in wisdom whatsoever,not to mention you think like a kindergerten.
pig brain, u no get sister, bring am nahh make the whole men Bleep am, abbey u no go dey happy...black monkey..

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