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Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by Sauron1: 12:38am On Jan 16, 2009
tope2000:

U thot wrong darling undecided
When i want to get nosey with u, Oh u r gonna hate me.
My own interrogation will pass the MI5, CIA AND FBI join together grin

U can add Jack Bauer!!!!
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by sistawoman: 12:38am On Jan 16, 2009
How many wives do you think a man should have?

Do you eat puzzy?

Do you like head?

What sexual positions are off limits?

Do you believe in quid pro quo?

How often do you want to have sex?

How soon after marriage do you want children?

Do you cook?

Do you do laundry?

Will you share the cooking and cleaning?

What is your level of education?

When talking about goals break them into personal and career goals?

be back in a bit
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by sillyboy(m): 12:38am On Jan 16, 2009
sistawoman:

How many children do you want?. . .at most 2
How do you define men and women roles? Men on top. . .women beneath.
What is your r/s like with your mom? Mother and son

What is your 1 year, 5 year, 10 yr and 20 year goals? Be me and and make sure am with u.
What religon will we raise the children? Christians till they decide
What languages will we talk in the home? . . .lol. . .I'd probably think the woman is kidding

Do you want a wife that stays home or one that works? work of cos. . .am I a slave?
How will the finances be handled? Properly. . .you give me ur pay and I manage everything as the man

When was the last time your bank account was overdrawn? None of your business

Have you ever hit a woman? Nope. . .except my class captain in pry. 1
What is your view on cheating? Shit happens. . .men only!
What is cheating to you? Sleeping with another woman mistakenly. . . tongue
Are EA's allowed?. . . .
Did your father cheat on your mom? What an insult of a question.
did your father hit your mom? Are u nutts woman?!
what were your mom responsibilites in the home? Will you please leave my parents outta us?
How did you view your moms role in the home? Not again. . .you are pissing me off
How do you view women. . weaker sex, equal to you or what? Weaker indeed except if we wannna be dishonest.

back with more.

@ Sitowoman.

Am not replying you ooo. . .
am only giving my answers if a woman ask me such.
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by sistawoman: 12:41am On Jan 16, 2009
sillyboy:

@ Sitowoman.

Am not replying you ooo. . .
am only giving my answers if a woman ask me such.

EA = emotional affairs the opposite of PA = Physical Affairs.
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by Nobody: 12:41am On Jan 16, 2009
sillyboy:

@ Sitowoman.

Am not replying you ooo. . .
am only giving my answers if a woman ask me such.
angry angry angry you are so sexist!

She is right to be asking you about your parents.

If his father was abusive to his mother, chances are, he'll be a woman beater too.
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by sistawoman: 12:42am On Jan 16, 2009
Oh yea i forgot the first set of questions for me is always:

Full name
DOB
Address (for the past 10 years)
Other names you have used?

all this given to my brother to run the back ground check
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by kushi1: 12:45am On Jan 16, 2009
sistawoman:

Oh yea i forgot the first set of questions for me is always:

Full name
DOB
Address (for the past 10 years)
Other names you have used?

all this given to my brother to run the back ground check


Thats necessary!
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by tope2000(f): 12:46am On Jan 16, 2009
@sillyboy
How will the finances be handled? Properly. . .you give me ur pay and I manage everything as the man

Are u serious?? u no get shame tongue
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by sillyboy(m): 12:48am On Jan 16, 2009
HeatFusion:

angry angry angry you are so sexist!

She is right to be asking you about your parents.

If his father was abusive to his mother, chances are, he'll be a woman beater too.


That's not being sexist dear. . .
The fact that a father beats his wife does not guarantee the son is gonnna do same. . .
Studies shows that boys that witness their mom being assaulted by their father. . .
tends to be on the mothers side. . .hence. . .treats women better because of what their mom went through. . .

Please dont ask me about the study I have just quoted . . .cos I dont know. tongue

sistawoman:

Oh yea i forgot the first set of questions for me is always:

Full name
DOB
Address (for the past 10 years)
Other names you have used?

all this given to my brother to run the back ground check


Are you running Social Security Office now or Homeland?

EA's are not allowed.
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by sillyboy(m): 12:49am On Jan 16, 2009
tope2000:

@sillyboy
Are u serious?? u no get shame tongue

Tele nko. . . ?
Before she spends everything on Victoria Secret and othe cosmetics that doesnt add to their beauty.
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by Treetop20(m): 12:49am On Jan 16, 2009
tope2000:

@sillyboy
Are u serious?? u no get shame tongue
with how little he is
i am sure the woman will bitch slap him for even
saying such a thing
cheesy cheesy

i am just having a laugh bruv
don't take me seriously
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by Sauron1: 12:51am On Jan 16, 2009
How many wives do you think a man should have? one

Do you eat puzzy? I don't want to discolour ma lips

Do you like head? Not really

What sexual positions are off limits? Any back-breaking position

Do you believe in quid pro quo? WTF

How often do you want to have sex? Every evening

How soon after marriage do you want children? After 18 months

Do you cook? Nope

Do you do laundry? Only when u are heavily preggers

Will you share the cooking and cleaning? Ditto

What is your level of education? Top draw

When talking about goals break them into personal and career goals? Story!!!!
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by Nobody: 12:54am On Jan 16, 2009
sillyboy:

That's not being sexist dear. . .
The fact that a father beats his wife does not guarantee the son is gonnna do same. . .
Studies shows that boys that witness their mom being assaulted by their father. . .
tends to be on the mothers side. . .hence. . .treats women better because of what their mom went through. . .

Please dont ask me about the study I have just quoted . . .cos I dont know. tongue
No, it does not guarantee that he'll also be abusive, but it does alert the lady.
So just incase he wants to act stupid and slap her "accidentally".
Slap me once, shame on you. slap me twice, shame on me.
If he continues to accidentally act like he's brain damage and shows the trait of his father, then the lady won't have to question the "mistakes". na to carry bag and get the hell away from him.

I feel sorry for you men sha. If you know you're abusive, just step out of my way.
Because I will crush your balls with my knees. I can't get arrested for defending myself, now.
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by tope2000(f): 12:57am On Jan 16, 2009
sillyboy:

Tele nko. . . ?
Before she spends everything on Victoria Secret and othe cosmetics that doesnt add to their beauty.

Im sensing u r a very unromantic guy, so u u'd be mad if ur wifey buys stuff to make herself feel good n to sexify herself 4 u?
Tssssk, i am disappointed  sadcheesy

Treetop20:

with how little he is
i am sure the woman will bitch slap him for even
saying such a thing
cheesy cheesy

Dont mind him o
He is prolly one of those guys that actually give their wives his wages because they dont wanna sleep on the sofa grin

~Sauron~:

Do you eat puzzy? I don't want to discolour ma lips

Dead . . . .  grin cheesy
As long as u dnt ask 4 head too then i guess its cool
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by isika82: 1:01am On Jan 16, 2009
Is it wrong to ask how immigration status and how do you ask?

What about salary questions?
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by Nobody: 1:02am On Jan 16, 2009
isika82:

Is it wrong to ask how immigration status and how do you ask?

What about salary questions?
Good questions. some losers might be trying to get with you to avoid getting their ass deported
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by Sauron1: 1:04am On Jan 16, 2009
tope2000:

Dead . . . .  grin cheesy
As long as u dnt ask 4 head too then i guess its cool

I have been told a woman's love-vendor juice contains acids. grin grin grin
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by sillyboy(m): 1:04am On Jan 16, 2009
Treetop20:

with how little he is[/b]i am [b]sure the woman will bitch slap him for even
saying such a thing
cheesy cheesy

i am just having a laugh bruv
don't take me seriously


why do you always come up with lame jokes. . . . undecided
for info. . . wink. . .am a little below 6 foot. . .and very atheletic. . . . wink
You are always on the side of women. . ."woman wrapper"

HeatFusion:

No, it does not guarantee that he'll also be abusive, but it does alert the lady.
So just incase he wants to act stupid and slap her "accidentally".
Slap me once, shame on you. slap me twice, shame on me.
If he continues to accidentally act like he's brain damage and shows the trait of his father, then the lady won't have to question the "mistakes". na to carry bag and get the hell away from him.

I feel sorry for you men sha. If you know you're abusive, just step out of my way.
Because I will crush your balls with my knees. I can't get arrested for defending myself, now.


Why do you girls always aim for the balls. . .se una no know say the thing dey pain. . .?
and who told you you wouldnt serve a term for breaking balls?

@ tope.

That is how you women will be talking of romntic. . .till a guy becomes "baba iyabo doll"
*Sincerely,. . .I wouldnt collect her pay. . . .but she must handle it well. . . .
am a figure guy. . .cant help it.

I never claimed to be romantic before. . . .
But I bet my life that am more romantic than treetop.
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by Nobody: 1:08am On Jan 16, 2009
sillyboy:


Why do you girls always aim for the balls. . .se una no know say the thing dey pain. . .?
and who told you you wouldnt serve a term for breaking balls?
That's your weak point.
Gets you down faster than a bat on your head.

It's painful? duh, that's the reason why I go for it smiley

If he slapped me, I have the right to defend myself.
My right
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by Treetop20(m): 1:08am On Jan 16, 2009
sillyboy:

why do you always come up with lame jokes. . . . undecided
for info. . . wink. . .am a little below 6 foot. . .and very atheletic. . . . wink I have seen what you look like
You are always on the side of women. . ."woman wrapper"

Why do you girls always aim for the balls. . .se una no know say the thing dey pain. . .?
and who told you you wouldnt serve a term for breaking balls?

@ tope.

That is how you women will be talking of romntic. . .till a guy becomes "baba iyabo doll"
*Sincerely,. . .I wouldnt collect her pay. . . .but she must handle it well. . . .
am a figure guy. . .cant help it.

I never claimed to be romantic before. . . .
But I bet my life that am more romantic than treetop.
cheesy cheesy really?
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by C2H5OH(f): 1:08am On Jan 16, 2009
What kind of bitch ass game is this.  Are you going to take a checklist on your date and begin asking these stupid ass questions?

It's like a job interview.
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by Nobody: 1:09am On Jan 16, 2009
Treetop, be quiet jor.
You're so romantic to the point of not answering my question up till today
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by Treetop20(m): 1:10am On Jan 16, 2009
HeatFusion:

Treetop, be quiet jor.
You're so romantic to the point of not answering my question up till today
but i am quiet
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by Nobody: 1:13am On Jan 16, 2009
Treetop20:

but i am quiet
but of course.
no argument here
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by tope2000(f): 1:15am On Jan 16, 2009
~Sauron~:

I have been told a woman's love-vendor juice contains acids. grin grin grin

they r just winding u, it contains vanilla flavour wink tongue

sillyboy:

why do you always come up with lame jokes. . . . undecided
for info. . . wink. . .am a little below 6 foot. . .and very atheletic. . . . wink
You are always on the side of women. . ."woman wrapper"

woman wrapper because is not a sexist like most of u guys shocked shocked shocked
i still pray y'all dnt corrupt his reasoning once again angry


@ tope.

That is how you women will be talking of romntic. . .till a guy becomes "baba iyabo doll"
*Sincerely,. . .I wouldnt collect her pay. . . .but she must handle it well. . . .
am a figure guy. . .cant help it.

Ofcos a woman shud know how to handle her money well but u cant tell her what to do with her money
u can only advice


I never claimed to be romantic before. . . .
But I bet my life that am more romantic than treetop.
undecided
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by sillyboy(m): 1:19am On Jan 16, 2009
9ja girls too baje for unnecessary spendings jor. . .
buying aso ebi up and down plus pancake. . .
and pants that doest fit em and high heels shoes to kick balls. . . angry

@ Tope.
Mark my words. . .
Treetop will come out of his shell someday. . .
and you will see his true color. . .
A mo iru won jor. . .
no be 2day.
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by tope2000(f): 1:21am On Jan 16, 2009
sillyboy:

@ Tope.
Mark my words. . .
Treetop will come out of his shell someday. . .
and you will see his true color. . .
A mo iru won jor. . .
no be 2day.

rofl. . . imma be on the look out wink
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by Nobody: 1:23am On Jan 16, 2009
sillyboy:

9ja girls too baje for unnecessary spendings jor. . .
buying aso ebi up and down plus pancake. . .
and pants that doest fit em and[b] high heels shoes to kick balls. . . angry
[/b]
absolutely nothing wrong with that
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by Treetop20(m): 1:24am On Jan 16, 2009
sillyboy:

9ja girls too baje for unnecessary spendings jor. . .
buying aso ebi up and down plus pancake. . .
and pants that doest fit em and high heels shoes to kick balls. . . angry

@ Tope.
Mark my words. . .
Treetop will come out of his shell someday. . .
and you will see his true color. . .
A mo iru won jor. . .
no be 2day.
really? i reckon i am being fake then?
not everyone is into bashing women and talking smack about them
because it is the internet

tope2000:

rofl. . . imma be on the look out wink
yes be on the look out
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by Sammy107d(m): 2:07am On Jan 16, 2009
Marry me
Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by tpia: 4:57am On Jan 16, 2009
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Re: What Are The Top Questions To Ask Before Marrying A Nigerian Guy/gal? by sistawoman: 4:02pm On Jan 16, 2009
More ?'s

Are you a member of Nairaland?

If so what is your user(s) name?

How long have you been a member?

How do you feel about online forums?

Are you jealous?

From your prospective how did your last 3 relationships end?

What is your view on condom use?

How many times have you gone in unprotected?

When was your last visit to the doctors office?

Do you have Hypertension, diabetes or any other ailment?

Are your parents alive?

Are your grandparents alive?

How did they die?

Do you have any sick siblings, aunt, uncles?

What illness run in your family?

Have you ever changed a diaper?

Have you ever babysat child(ren)?

What is your view on discipline?

When was the last time you got a cut off notice on a bill?

In the last 18 months how many times has your electric, water, cell phone, gas, house phone been turned off?

Do you pay your bills before or after you get a cut off notice?

If the bill is due on the 7th when do you consider it to be late?

In the past 2 years how many times have you moved?

What were the circumstances behind that move?

How many jobs have you held in the past 3 years?

What were the circumstances behind you leaving your jobs?

Is your salary more than your age?

Did your salary increase or decrease with each new job?

Do you own a car?

Are there car payments on that car?

When will it be paid off?

Have you ever had a car accident?

What is your driving record like?

Parking or moving violations in the past 3 years?

Do you have student loans?

When will those be paid off?

What is your credit score?

How many credit cards do you own?

How much available credit do you have on those cards, not dollar amount but percentage of unused credit?

How often do you use your credit cards?

How often do you max them out?

Do you pay them off each month or only the min. balance?

How do you feel about male/female friendships?

Have you ever bleeped a friends gf or wife?

Have you ever been an Other Man?

Can you accept me and love me and not want to change anything about me right now?

If not, what would you change?

If you could change 3 things about yourself what would they be?

Give me three things that you like about yourself; physically, sexually, mentally and spiritually.

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