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The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Nobody: 4:48pm On Mar 17, 2015
Trying not to generalise. But you'd agree with me that this seems like it in the typical/traditional Nigerian setting.

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by ArchEnemy(m): 4:52pm On Mar 17, 2015
I dont subscribe to this unwholesome perspective where you ll kill the woman with responsibilities

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by xreal: 4:52pm On Mar 17, 2015
Nooo

At least, not where I am from.

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Nobody: 4:54pm On Mar 17, 2015
nawaoh
Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by BeeBeeOoh(m): 4:57pm On Mar 17, 2015
Point of correction: That Over-grown human being at the baq of that woman is the wife to the woman..

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by freecocoa(f): 5:05pm On Mar 17, 2015
True in some places.

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by dre11(m): 5:30pm On Mar 17, 2015
This is a lie
Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Nobody: 5:38pm On Mar 17, 2015
ArchEnemy:
I dont subscribe to this unwholesome perspective where you ll kill the woman with responsibilities

I wish all men are like you.

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Nobody: 5:39pm On Mar 17, 2015
xreal:
Nooo

At least, not where I am from.

Where are you from?
Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Nobody: 5:40pm On Mar 17, 2015
dre11:



This is a lie

Are women not expected to pamper their husbands?
cook his food, wash his clothes, clean after him.

In fact, some people call their husbands 'big babies'
He is their first child.

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Nobody: 7:04pm On Mar 17, 2015
Yadoctora:


Are women not expected to pamper their husbands?
cook his food, wash his clothes, clean after him.

In fact, some people call their husbands 'big babies'
He is their first child.

Exactly, na dem sabi sha, me I cannot angry

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by SAMBARRY: 7:56pm On Mar 17, 2015
What KanwuliaJara was talking about the other day
Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Chillis: 8:00pm On Mar 17, 2015
Wow. Perfect description !

Suffer heads.

See the ogogoro man face sef.

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by 7footre(m): 8:45pm On Mar 17, 2015
It's about time somethings change... she's a super woman

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Nobody: 9:03pm On Mar 17, 2015
And what exactly is wrong with this picture? You women are all lazy.

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by bennyrazz: 9:43pm On Mar 17, 2015
@op, your assumptions and insinuations are totally wrong.

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by promise3048(m): 9:44pm On Mar 17, 2015
hardworking women will nt complain only d lazy ones
Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Ngokafor(f): 10:52pm On Mar 17, 2015
...funny but true in most cases...

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Harmvirus(f): 11:03pm On Mar 17, 2015
True

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Nobody: 4:09am On Mar 18, 2015
so true.
Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Ewuro4: 4:18am On Mar 18, 2015
Yadoctora:

Are women not expected to pamper their husbands?
cook his food, wash his clothes, clean after him.
In fact, some people call their husbands 'big babies'
He is their first child.

And what is wrong in all the aforementioned if the man accord same if not more affection to his woman?

I cook his food, wash his clothes, clean after him, call him babe, infact he's my first child I catered to alone for years before kids started rolling in grin grin

People should learn to mind their own business and do what works for their families. It's not one size fits all Biko.

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Nobody: 8:54am On Mar 18, 2015
Ewuro4:


And what is wrong in all the aforementioned if the man accord same if not more affection to his woman?

I cook his food, wash his clothes, clean after him, call him babe, infact he's my first child I catered to alone for years before kids started rolling in grin grin

People should learn to mind their own business and do what works for their families. It's not one size fits all Biko.


In The typical Nigerian setting, the wife is not accorded same. Learn to relate in context.

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Nobody: 9:10am On Mar 18, 2015
Timbuktou:
And what exactly is wrong with this picture? You women are all lazy.

After she does all of the above, what do you do for her? You complain that she does not dress sexy, smells of maggi and is too tired to satisfy you in bed.You complain of her saggy br.east even when you fight for ownerahip with the children and made it so cheesy .

To help her with the chores, wahala. mama from the village sef must not hear.

There are good Nigerian men though.

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Nobody: 9:12am On Mar 18, 2015
bennyrazz:
@op, your assumptions and insinuations are totally wrong.
How wrong?
Are most women not weighed down by combining the home front with husbands who only add to the work load instead of being supportive.

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Nobody: 9:13am On Mar 18, 2015
promise3048:
hardworking women will nt complain only d lazy ones

Hardworking women deserve to die of stress while their husbands read newspapers and watch TV?

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by adanduka: 11:09am On Mar 18, 2015
See the contentment on the man's face sef undecided

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by bennyrazz: 12:32pm On Mar 18, 2015
Yadoctora:

How wrong?
Are most women not weighted down by combining the home front with husbands who only add to the work load instead of being supportive.
very wrong. The picture you posted depicts a woman as been everything. If women know that they can do everything and they understand that a man is just an additional baggage then i see no reason why they should get married in the first place. And you should understand that what suits Family A does not suit Family B, the models of each family is different. And you should stop painting a picture of women are labourers because they are not. In a family, everyman has is role and if the man is not playing the role he should play then something is either wrong morally, spiritually or financially and if the woman can fill the void pending the time the man resumes his duty, so be it and if the woman cannot withstand the heat she should get out of the kitchen.
Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Nobody: 1:13pm On Mar 18, 2015
bennyrazz:
very wrong. The picture you posted depicts a woman as been everything. If women know that they can do everything and they understand that a man is just an additional baggage then i see no reason why they should get married in the first place. And you should understand that what suits Family A does not suit Family B, the models of each family is different. And you should stop painting a picture of women are labourers because they are not. In a family, everyman has is role and if the man is not playing the role he should play then something is either wrong morally, spiritually or financially and if the woman can fill the void pending the time the man resumes his duty, so be it and if the woman cannot withstand the heat she should get out of the kitchen.

No. It does not depict a woman as being everything. It speaks of the woman's responsibility in catering for the family's needs. The man should support her. Rather, he expects care like a child.

The other parts of your write up are disjointed. I donno what ur rant is about

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Ewuro4: 1:39pm On Mar 18, 2015
Yadoctora:


In The typical Nigerian setting, the wife is not accorded same. Learn to relate in context.

Your blanket assertion is ridiculous otherwise You sound like the wife in question.

How's my post out of context? We are discussing typical Naija marriage and my response was in line with it. Any chance to throw cheap jabs eh? grin I no vex sha. 'Too blessed to be stressed' cool Good morning.

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by TreQuartista: 2:07pm On Mar 18, 2015




Any similarities? Na like this e dey start ke. undecided

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by TreQuartista: 2:07pm On Mar 18, 2015
If we ask this OP now if she saw/experienced this growing up at home, she'd say no. What about your brothers and uncles, do they lead similar lives? Absolutely not! But somehow, she confidently makes sweeping assertions about every other Nigerian house-hold except those associated with her.

True to type!

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Re: The Good Wife By Nigeria Standards (pic) by Nobody: 2:14pm On Mar 18, 2015
Ewuro4:


Your blanket assertion is ridiculous otherwise You sound like the wife in question.

How's my post out of context? We are discussing typical Naija marriage and my response was in line with it. Any chance to throw cheap jabs eh? grin I no vex sha. 'Too blessed to be stressed' cool Good morning.

where is the jab?
If u have to tell me u ar blessed, then U av a problem.
babyosisi come and carry ur ewure o. I no get her time.

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