Good evening fellow nairalanders, I really need ur advice on dis issue. there is Dis girl DAT I av been disturbing for over one month. BT she said she cn't date me. nw she called me did evening and requested four thousand naira from me. can u imagine? shul I gv her d money or I shul nt? .. please advice me. am sorry 4 d typographical errors

it depends. Are you only willing to help her if she is having sex with you or are you someone who will help a person regardless of your relationship.

No shame in either answer.

You should take your N4,000 and do something nice for yourself. She is using you. If she doesn't want to be with you, then she doesn't deserve anything from you, to include your time. Let's look at it from a different perspective. Would she get paid if she didn't go to work? Probably not.

morethanadoll:
You should take your N4,000 and do something nice for yourself. She is using you. If she doesn't want to be with you, then she doesn't deserve anything from you, to include your time. Let's look at it from a different perspective. Would she get paid if she didn't go to work? Probably not.

I comment my reserve

Shud I send u my acct number?
Girl no gree for u, she com stil dey tax u and u stil dey ask wether to dash her money! Cos na dash ooo... Dnt expect her to pay back

Lol. You love her and she is hoping to use that to milk you dry. Don't give her a kobo.

There is no shame in refusing to give her the money. You should even stop giving any gift. No recharge cards no subscription or whatever. Love is not for sale.

It doesn't make you any less a man.

Mathewa:
Good evening fellow nairalanders, I really need ur advice on dis issue. there is Dis girl DAT I av been disturbing for over one month. BT she said she cn't date me. nw she called me did evening and requested four thousand naira from me. can u imagine? shul I gv her d money or I shul nt? .. please advice me. am sorry 4 d typographical errors

Yes...infact increase it to #50,000

You said you've been disturbing her for over one month.
In fact, make the money up to N5000 and don't disturb her again.

De girl na scam ooo. Run 4 ur life. Jst thank ur stars dat she had shown her true color be4 she says yes cos dat 1 wud be a sori case 4 u. U wud jst spend thinkin she loves u. God loves u dats y her true self is already known 2 u

Thank you all, am very greatful

What a question! Where is @blackett? Please ya attentions is needed here.

Lmfao

Yes, give it to her

Empty your entire account on her behalf, if possible.

Tch, what a question.

dude since you wannabe a cheerful giver let me send you ma accountnumber

She isn't in anyway your responsibility.

Don't yield to the power of the boobs and punanny.

Use your head.

You will turn yourself to a maga the moment you give to her because she won't still date you.

I would advice not to give her any money, even if that will make her date you, because you would likely be setting up a relationship that will end up being one sided.

I think girls do this intentionally to either scare us away or. piss us off.

my advice tell her you'll think about it don't contact her for abt a week. then you can decide to give her or not. if you do give her don give her complete then see hw she reacts..