Nigerian guys, exactly what do you want
Nigerain wives, your experiences please,

Don't take him back.

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Oya u guys better start spilling it out what do u really want??

Noooooooooo
Dont take him back, Dnt be fooled by his mum's gospel

Nigeria men know Nigerian women won't take shit from them abroad, that's mostly why they marry all this oyinbos, treating that like used tissue.

Poster, don't listen to the woman o. I'm suspecting that she doesn't think her son did anything "wrong".
Our mothers and their son, chei!

As a man i would also would tell you not to take him back you have listed a lot of things that a man would not take from you if you did it and you should not have to take that.This behavior is not only limited ti Nigerian men it a genral man problem. Some of use choose to work on it and some of us dont. The only thing i would blame you for is that you are actually considering taking him back

No dont take him back.Have a restrain order placed, so he cant get close to you or r kids.

Nigerian mothers can do eye service o. Do not take what she says literally. When the shit hits the fan, her son is her son. As for your husband, you need to understand that the average Nigerian man is used to cheating on his wife and having her turn a blind eye (and in some circumstances, she would even beg hinm to stay into the bargain). Kick the S.O.B. to the kerb. I do not know him personally, but I will wager that he is unlikely to become a model hubby.

Sapphic:

Nigerian mothers can do eye service o. Do not take what she says literally. When the shit hits the fan, her son is her son. As for your husband. You need to understand that the average Nigerian man is used to cheating on his wife and having her turn a blind eye (and in some circumstances, she would even beg hinm to stay into the bargain). Kick the S.O.B. to the kerb. I do not know him personally, but I will wager that he is unlikely to become a model hubby.

true sista

Yoruba adage says agbejo enikan da, agba osika ni-he who listened n pass judgment on one-sided stories, is a wicked man
U see, many ladies in UK/ other side of the globe r not submissive n loyal to their husbands yet they eventually go out dere claiming their husbands cheat on them.(dat na y baby mother plenty 4 UK be dat oooo )
NOTE: M NOT IN ANY WAY TRYING TO REPROACH THE POSTER BUT I M JUST REALLY CONCERNED ABOUT WATS HAPPENING AROUND US

do for any reasomn take his sorry ass back
smoking pot in the presence of 4 teenage children?
if he was a saint, that is enough to move urself and ur kids away from harm's way meaning him

many Nigerian mothers have this almost occultic belief that their sons are always right irrespective of whatever shit it is they do
dont be rude to her but tell her politely and firmly that ur done with him

least i forget changing the locks and getting a restraining order would be a wise decision

@ poster

wat has his being a nigerian got 2do wt d way he turned out?

go ask him wat he wants and leave 'nigeria' out.ta it, k? or we r all d same, huh?

goodass:

@ poster

go ask him wat he wants and leave 'nigeria' out.ta it, k? or we r all d same, huh?

Yup! He is just one of "those men" . Maybe no different from the other non-Nigerian man that left you with 4 kids at the age of 37. Did you go on their website to crucify them too?

goodass:

@ poster

wat has his being a nigerian got 2do wt d way he turned out?

go ask him wat he wants and leave 'nigeria' out.ta it, k? or we r all d same, huh?

like seriously

i hate it when dis pple generalize

@poster

u see,u should blame urself for marrying a jerk and immatured goat,so stop generalizing

[color=#000099][/color]Lets be condid her bridget007.
I'm a nigerian man not married though,but a full adult,ur 37 2 time divorcee,married a potsmoking,emotional abusing then physical abusing man.
Don't u thik this is 2 coincidental u must have some blame in this did'nt he show any traits of this while u guys dated?
Agreed some nigerian men r assholes but i would not treat the one i love by emotionally and physically abusing the person.
To post this under this topic is wrong like i said u must have some blame in ur problem(potsmoking?)ha ha.
U just got wat u desrve face it.
Looking forward 2 hearing from u.