Hi guys, i need your advice. There's this girl i met when i was serving, we started going out almost immediately after we met,everyone talked about us cos we we're always seen together. I passed out before her and it was like the world would end she cried her heart out, i felt same too but i could do little to save the situation. She passed out with the next batch and since then we've been in touch. I stay in Lagos while she stays up north. We talked almost everyday and it became a routine. I got a job with a telecom coy and it made it a lot easier. After some time, i noticed some changes in her behaviour over the phone, i enquired to know what was wrong, she wouldn't say. It became very obvious that something was wrong, i wanted to know but she would't let me in into it. I burst open one day over the phone i 'ACCUSED' her of hiding something from me, she reacted by saying she was 'FED' up with the relationship and all that. We parted ways with that. Last year she came to lagos and since then we've been in touch, I tried to make her see reason why we should solve our differences since we were closer, she's still mute about it. Infact one day when we were talking i told her to tell me emphatically that she didn't love me again, she said i shouldn't go there that she can't say anything like that. I still love her and i feel she still loves me, if she doesn't i just want to hear her say it. What do u guys think?

My thoughts. . .

She loves u, but there is someone else. . . Who probably is more established than u. She feels her personal terms will be better met by this guy, but doesnt want to hurt u by telling u she doesnt love u.

My Advice. . .

Move on, there will always be someone else. It is quite likely that she can come back when the bubble bursts but u must stand your ground. If she did it before, she will do it again.

OMG, i feel for you, i know wat you mean, you tinks she loves you but the chyke is just trying to play her cards rite, Rem no be love she go chop but might be wit someone who is financially ok but you might be her Assistant boifrend.
Now that said either remain friends or go find the love of ur life. Easier said than done but a stitch in time save nine, its hard but u ve to let go gradually, l
Best wishes

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