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How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by agigoodman: 2:43pm On Jan 18, 2009
HOW CAN SOMEONE OVERCOME HEARTBREAK?

Please someone tell me what to do, I’m currently going through so much pain…. My girlfriend and quarrel over every little thing……. And its over, but I can’t get her of my mind… I’ve tried all I can do forget about her, but its not working…. And I think she’s going through same thing, the last time I saw her she wasn’t looking good. I confronted her and told her if she can’t bear it, we should come back together and amend our mistakes, but she insisted that she was fine…. So I’m going to find a way to cure myself from this lost of love…. Is anyone there? Please tell me what to do.

agigoodman@yahoo.com
Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by sistajay(f): 3:55pm On Jan 18, 2009
Sorry oo my brotha, no instant cure for heartbreak, na only time fit heal your brokenheart.
Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by Omolola1(f): 4:52pm On Jan 18, 2009
that's very true
Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by annmarien(f): 5:10pm On Jan 18, 2009
pray a lot. then indulge yourself in things that don't remind you of your relationship-work and all else,
whatever the case, only God can see you through
Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by pcguru1(m): 5:45pm On Jan 18, 2009
Tips on overcoming Heartbreaks
1.engage yourself in an activity that is fun like drinking,partying).
2.Avoid emotional songs e.g roxette,billy ocean and listen to rock songs.
3.date random girls per night.
4.engage urself to ur hobby
5.if u still feel heart broken repeat rule 1 plenty times.

Remember to get psyched.tips from a guru. Lol grin
Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by iice(f): 6:12pm On Jan 18, 2009
Time and love heals.
Eventually it will the pain will lessen, but in the meantime, do something that gives you joy.
Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by jibbygirl(f): 6:46pm On Jan 18, 2009
time and finding someone caring to share ur time with heals a lot. cool
Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by eminemkayc: 7:22pm On Jan 18, 2009
Start taking igbo,a.k.a indian hemp at night(as soon as her thoughts comes in2 ur brains)! 2ndly,stop listening 2 luv songs nd pick up an eminem c.d or mayb obietrice or D12! That'll help!!

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Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by pcguru1(m): 7:47pm On Jan 18, 2009
@eminem thanks i forgot to add weed. Slim shady tracks are a must heal song esp drug ballad and say goodbye to hollywood.plus don't forget to get psyched.
Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by agigoodman: 8:15pm On Jan 18, 2009
Thanks everybody for your contribution, but really I am not the drinking or smoking, womanizing type of guy, that’s the problem I’m having now. I don’t know how to go about it…. Isn’t there other way out of this?
Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by eminemkayc: 8:56pm On Jan 18, 2009
@pc guru, am tellng u,shady's songs is just d sure remedy! Infct am listening 2 'say gudbye hollywood' as i type ths!!
Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by Uche2nna(m): 9:00pm On Jan 18, 2009
Well, Slim still got issues with Kim, If his own songs did not help him, how do U think it is gonna help this dude undecided
Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by eyonigger(m): 4:01am On Jan 19, 2009
@ poster, have gone thru this b4, tried so many techniques, wont work out, just give it time, u will heal, i swear at the end of the day, you'll feel better assive u were not even heartbroken, but most especially, do not listen to love songs, u will never stop thinking about her, but as time goes on, the thought of her will vamoose off ur head.
Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by TOYOSI20(f): 4:22am On Jan 19, 2009
pc guru:

Tips on overcoming Heartbreaks
1.engage yourself in an activity that is fun like drinking,partying).
2.Avoid emotional songs e.g roxette,billy ocean and listen to rock songs.
3.date random girls per night.
4.engage urself to ur hobby
5.if u still feel heart broken repeat rule 1 plenty times.

Remember to get psyched.tips from a guru. Lol grin

Yeah what he said oo!! smiley
Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by cdoma: 11:59am On Jan 19, 2009
time bro,
Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by Taken(m): 1:22pm On Jan 19, 2009
Unfortunately, if you do some of those things described, the pain will temporary go away but will return when you are sober.

Heart injury is inside:  it feeds on your emotions, it lingers b/c of your thought process, and self denial helps it to grow.

Solution (personal experiences):
Take inventory of what happened
Know where you are at fault, and deal with it sincerely
Other person's fault - forget it cus it is theirs to resolve
Feed your mind with positive thoughts via auto suggestions
Take conscious charge of your thoughts - force it to think positively only (do it constantly and as long as it takes)
As soon as your conscious mind is solidly fed with the right thoughts, your subconscious mind will start reacting automatically.

Alternate solution - rewrite the portion of your heart that hurt with new information = when you remember the issue that hurt you, replaced it with funny pictures, story, laughable events.  Do these consciously, steadily, & deliberately till the sector of your heart has new info.

If these do not work for you, hug your sleeping pillows at night, kiss them, and say sweet words to them - abi wetin go man do if the heart dey beg for penicillin?   grin cheesy wink

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Re: How Can Someone Overcome Heartbreak? by eminemkayc: 7:37pm On Jan 19, 2009
Eminem show is d panacea!! Iv said my own.

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