Hello y'all, there's this gal (my best friend) whom I fell in love with a while ago but didn't approach tell her cos she was dating someone else then and I wouldn't like to come between them. She later broke up with the guy when he started pestering her for sex (she's still a small girl and doesn't want to lose her virginity yet) after which I declared my feelings for her but she acted as if she didn't hear what I said. We continued on our relationship as best friends and she later met anoda guy who is far more matured than she is. The problem now is that, I don't feel comfortable about the guy, he seems like the "player" type of guy tho he claims to have undying love for her. I recently told her about this and she actually thinks am jealous or something like that and so doesn't take me seriously. Am pretty sure that if she continues with the relationship, she's gonna end up with regrets.
Should I break my friendship with her cos since she don't take me seriously no more the friendship is already in the abyss already
Am pretty confused

continue letting her realize ur feelings towards her

Friend zoned for life!

Dnt give up! Its not over ...

But still dnt cause trouble in her relationship.... Just peaceful 'like joke' state ur feelings once in a while. . and even ur fears abt d new guy

In fact just advice her to be careful abt d guy

If u r meant to be; it will surely be

I feel your pain bro. Been there too.

Best thing for both of you is to let her be. It seems you have been pestering the poor girl and that might make her hate you as she no longer takes you seriously.

Have you thought even for once that your perception about the guy might be wrong or out of sheer jealousy?

nikkiehan:
continue letting her realize ur feelings towards her

She thinks am jealous of her “perfect" relationship

DuchessLily:
Dnt give up! Its not over ...
But still dnt cause trouble in her relationship.... Just peaceful 'like joke' state ur feelings once in a while. . and even ur fears abt d new guy
In fact just advice her to be careful abt d guy
If u r meant to be; it will surely be

Thanks

EddyBlingzz:
I feel your pain bro. Been there too.

Best thing for both of you is to let her be. It seems you have been pestering the poor girl and that might make her hate you as she no longer takes you seriously.

Have you thought even for once that your perception about the guy might be wrong or out of sheer jealousy?

I never did pester her, thanks tho

Jst give her space a little. She wud latter see wot she is missing. Jst be there 4 her whenever she needs u. Once she sees her mistake she wud come back a u. Chill bro

she friendzoned your azz, and you are talking nonsense. small girl toying with ur brain. just stop giving her attention, you see her run to you like nkita.

Just give her little space,I'm sure she will fell guilty of her self and want to ask u what's wrong.By then,u will have like 60% chance of having her.

SkinnyDude:
she friendzoned your azz, and you are talking nonsense. small girl toying with ur brain. just stop giving her attention, you see her run to you like nkita.

Jack!

My number one rule: Never keep a close-friendship with a girl. Never!

Sorry bruv... That's what we call "The Dreaded Friendzone".

dmcdad:

Jack!

jimmy.
i will name my nkita Chelsea.

SkinnyDude:
jimmy.
i will name my nkita Chelsea.

Haba! Na so you hate Chelsît reach?

nikkiehan:
continue letting her realize ur feelings towards her

haba
that just like telling the Devil he is Satan...

2dice:

haba
that just like telling the Devil he is Satan...

if u z so but dats d best way I think though

Oh poor dude.......friend zoned for caring too much.

Let her be......someday she will realize your worth, but you'll be happily married to the woman of your dreams

nikkiehan:
if u z so but dats d best way I think though

the more he tries the more he looks desperate..and jealous
Most Girls dont think otherwise

olabodejinad:
Hello y'all, there's this gal (my best friend) whom I fell in love with a while ago but didn't approach tell her cos she was dating someone else then and I wouldn't like to come between them. She later broke up with the guy when he started pestering her for sex (she's still a small girl and doesn't want to lose her virginity yet) after which I declared my feelings for her but she acted as if she didn't hear what I said. We continued on our relationship as best friends and she later met anoda guy who is far more matured than she is. The problem now is that, I don't feel comfortable about the guy, he seems like the "player" type of guy tho he claims to have undying love for her. I recently told her about this and she actually thinks am jealous or something like that and so doesn't take me seriously. Am pretty sure that if she continues with the relationship, she's gonna end up with regrets.
Should I break my friendship with her cos since she don't take me seriously no more the friendship is already in the abyss already
Am pretty confused

DUDE, LET HER END UP WITH REGRET, THEN IF YOU HAVE A CHANCE, 'CHOP AND CLEAN MOUTH'... MOST GIRLS ARE EQUIPPED WITH FISH BRAINS WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS... THEY BELIEVE ANYTHING A BF TELLS THEM. JUST WAIT ON THE SIDELINE AND WATCH HOW EVENTS WILL UNFOLD.

Op how de fvck is dat ur biznes? Mtwwwwww go look for a girlfriend and get busy

from one of your replies it seems she is already in a relationship with this other guy and thinks you are out to spoil the perfect relationship. Guy there is no other way of sugarcoating it; you have been friendzoned. Pestering her will only make you look pathetic and needy. There are many girls around. Give her space and look for other girls. If d guy is indeed a player she will realize it later.