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| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by InZA: 10:41am On Mar 26, 2015 |
oakson: Are you minding all those Karma loyalists?....They don't know shiii to be honest I just don't have ample time on my hands right now to correct some of their erroneous misconceptions about karma especially the one the OP made and ridiculously used Christ's crucifixion to buttress her error, not knowing that it is Christ's crucifixion that makes the concept of karma useless! Nobody is saying actions don't have consequences but you have to put it in context and not chalk up every or most unfortunate circumstances plaguing someone as a function of karma. If that is the case then why do bad things happen to "good" people. 3 Likes |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by MizMyColi(f): 10:52am On Mar 26, 2015 |
InZA: Permission to put this on FP?  I saw you were the last poster, so I had to come in to see what you wrote. Me, I don't do religious arguments anymore, especially with people who are so so so fixated on their parochial perspective of a God whose being transcends what we could ever fathom, yet has his image embedded in us, humans. 1 Like |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by Brugo(m): 10:53am On Mar 26, 2015 |
That definition of a boy very simplistic. So all men who are not ready for marriage are just boys? Wow. What a mentality. So all those men who work their butts off to afford your bride price are boys until they can pay. No sense. 6 Likes |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by InZA: 10:55am On Mar 26, 2015 |
DONBROTHER1: Bro, You've missed it by miles....Peter was persecuted, John was persecuted, James was persecuted and the same goes for all other disciples of Christ, persecution has nothing to do with karma, it rather falls along the lines of one of Jesus' teachings about being "ready to take your cross" to follow him. Even as Christians in this contemporary setting, we still get persecuted because we are living in a world that for the most part is dark and seething with evil. Being persecuted as a Christian is more or less a "standard" for true Christians, because persecution is the world's lame attempt to break us and ridicule our testimony.So paul's persecution has absolutely nothing to do with what he did in the past....Nothing at all. 2 Likes |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by GodMode: 10:56am On Mar 26, 2015 |
Rubbish |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by InZA: 11:02am On Mar 26, 2015 |
MizMyColi: Permission granted, even though you already took it from me  Honestly I wasn't going to reply to any comments, I was just going to read and move on, as I've been doing recently, but ahh Nne, I kept getting stomach ache from reading some of this misconceptions. People really need to know what the New covenant is about 3 Likes |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by Votukpa(m): 11:05am On Mar 26, 2015 |
Woged2005: These are all social conventions put out by a fem centric imperative. In other words u women are trying to control social dynamics between men and women. THE ONLY CORRECT THING IN UR POST IS THE SUGAR DADDY PHENOMENON. Unmarried women should take FULL responsibility for their martial status without being solipsisitc and blaming men for not conforming to their unrealistic expectations of what they think a husband should be. She who wants to be married should marry or quietly remain in her daddy's house |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by ojnnaco(m): 11:05am On Mar 26, 2015 |
iPopAlomo: |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by stanisbaratheon: 11:10am On Mar 26, 2015 |
iPopAlomo:hehehehehe preach on brother 1 Like |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by charles316: 11:25am On Mar 26, 2015 |
zeb04: THERE IS KARMA FOR RUNS GIRLS. iTS EITHER THEIR HUSBANDS CHEAT OR THEY KEEP ON RUNNING FROM CHURCH TO CHURCH LOOKING FOR MEN. 3 Likes |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by vega84(m): 11:28am On Mar 26, 2015 |
iPopAlomo:correct talk my brother #vegatalks 1 Like |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by lwinprince: 11:29am On Mar 26, 2015 |
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| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by kumbalo2014: 11:30am On Mar 26, 2015 |
repogirl: Run after as many guys as you could and lose all abi? The reason I broke up with my fiance even after I have practically met her mum. Have you thought about the health implication. please give this advice to your daughters. Karma is still sprinting! 4 Likes |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by oakson: 11:54am On Mar 26, 2015 |
Setaje:My dear setaje, how u dey? Don't tell me u also believe in this puuu. Which church do u attend? Well let me help u out a bit. Do u know where this idea of kamar came from! Is it any where from the mouth of God? Do u know why Christ died and the freebies in His death and ressurection? No one is advocating violent or reckless living here, just expounding the work of Grace. My dear u need to change ur church, as its evident that u lack the fundamental knowledge of the tenets of Christianity(no insult dear)! Kamar is darkness, it has no biblical root whatsoever; it only found its way into the axiom of our society because people like u were fond of reiterating it(I once did too). U can as well wait for the dividends of ur bad deals in life if u so believe (be it unto u according to ur faith). I will avoid any further lingering on this topic. Enjoy 3 Likes |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by repogirl(f): 11:56am On Mar 26, 2015 |
kumbalo2014:Did I say they should sleep with them ? Wisdom ladies! Hang on to the ones with marriage potential and let other dingbats fall by the way side..... and dnt run after anyone, let them do the running after.....dnt run too far sha, so they will not loss while trying to find you. Let me rephrase my earlier statement for some who might be slow to reason, except you have entered a serious relationship that seems to be going in the direction of the altar (confirm first o dnt assume), dnt keep all eggs in one dingbat's basket! 2 Likes |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by oakson: 12:01pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
InZA:Its really nauseating how people go about this demonic idea from one man that has no union with Christ. I won't mind any of them again! Little do they know that they are demeaning the finished and perfected work of Christ, Its irksome 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by Nobody: 12:23pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
oakson:sai baba |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by oakson: 12:24pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
SAVEDBABA:Sai Buhari 1 Like |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by Nobody: 12:29pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
There are no hard and fast rules to issues like this. People fail to understand that this world is veeeeerrrrrry unfair. Ladies will take the steps given by Op yet they could end up with good for nothing men or remain single for a while whereas the ladies who broke all the rules of life end up with good husbands, even get married faster!! I know runz babes who are now married and decent ladies who are still single. So Op, dnt keep all single ladies in a box. Situations vary from one person to another. You peeps continue to concentrate on ladies only as if ladies are the only ones existing. How about men who are soooo old yet still single? Have you peeps ever addressed that? have you addressed why there are men who have good jobs yet are still single slting their d1cks from one lady to another? Ask them why they are single, you will hear "Ive not found my missing rib". what do you have to say? Some men dnt deserve marriage and cannot care for a woman. Please ladies will nt marry themselves o. Its the men that will come for them so lets stop driving unnecessary epistles down their throats!! Allow these ladies to breathe biko!! By the way, for those guys in this thread that are narrating one sob story or the other, have you ever sat down to think of why a lady would be brave to remain single than end up married to you? Its possible your attitude stinks. Its possible you are violent. Its possible you are community man who never fails to slot his d1ck into any hole you meet. Perhaps your gf had to treat all sorts of stds gotten from you. But of course, every guy here will pose and portray himself as a saint. Some of you have abusive tendencies and for ladies to pick race and stay single, you must make sure you do some self evaluation and change your attitude. Glory be to God you are married now and she is single. Thats whats giving you joy. But If we dig deep into what your wife faces at home with you, that yur Ex needs to do serious thanksgiving to God for saving her from the clutches of a miserable marriage. NO WONDER THE SOB STORIES FROM MARRIED WOMEN ARE TOO MUCH!! So its not by who gets married first. Its about what kind of marriage you have or intend to have. As for ladies who date married men, i have no words for them. This karma we talk about is unfair. So i wont say anything on that. I am speaking for ladies who had genuine reasons to leave men and stay single. 3 Likes |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by emmabest2000(m): 12:35pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Woged2005:Since you're a good bible reader , where in the bible did karma visited soul/Paul ? After his repentance ? The issue is that there are lucky and unlucky people in this world , that someone is or was unlucky doesn't mean that it's Karma , I have witness a case where the girl was a run girl with so many sugarDaddies but was lucky and got married to a handsome tall rich abroad dude , within the speace of five years they came back to 9jar with kids two boys two girls , and they still living happily till date ! 3 Likes |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by Nobody: 12:36pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
STRONG QUESTION FOR AN ANSWER. WHY DO GOOD HAPPEN TO THE BAD, AND BAD HAPPEN TO THE GOOD? Though i believe you must reap what you sow, even tho Jesus Christ died on the cross for our sins. you kill, backbite,destroy other peoples life and do a whole lot of terrible things and then run to Christ hoping you will not reap what you sow. nah...nah..nah it doesn't work like that, or lemme say it must not work like that. you get exactly what you deserve......what you throw into life you get same....one finger to a person,the remaining four to you. i believe in justice...............which is why my question above keeps bothering me. if you are really good why will bad befall you?  and if you are bad, why will good befall you? 1 Like |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by Kenfil(f): 12:45pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
repogirl: Thank u for this statement... This is what my mum always said to me.. Do not put all ur eggs in one basket... Just keep all of em as platonic friends my dear, u will surely know d right and ready one and dats what I did till I married my husband. |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by anwo247: 1:08pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
MizMyColi: Why do bad things happen to good people? Answer: There are no good people per se. We only have degree of desirability in any metrics. Why do good things happen to bad people? Yes, just by the Grace of God. Essentially we are all bad and live by His grace. Does this remove punishment? No, we go through punishment to make us learn lessons. .... some may say karma. Let's now call it karma. Karma/fruit of the seed sown is most responsible/the reason for things happening to these girls. At the end they learn lesson. How many people in the bible went to church to pray for God to give them husband? Most girls have hurt their true husband in the past; some of the men left in pains and dropped spells. The reason why girls remain unmarried at a ripe age is neither due to immature boyfriend nor sugar daddy. It is simply due to their attitude. Now they are looking for a God fearing man but at tender age they were interested in a happening man or boy. Whose fault? You get what you pay for. A woman with a wife virtues will naturally attract a husband. When you stay with these over age ladies for one week, you will see why they are not married. Try it now, learn from the experience and thank me later. 1 Like |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by Nobody: 1:45pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Kenfil:marriage na ur apex? |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by Nobody: 1:56pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
[quote author=Sophyrocks post=32021457]There are no hard and fast rules to issues like this. People fail to understand that this world is veeeeerrrrrry unfair. Ladies will take the steps given by Op yet they could end up with good for nothing men or remain single for a while whereas the ladies who broke all the rules of life end up with good husbands, even get married faster!! I know runz babes who are now married and decent ladies who are still single. So Op, dnt keep all single ladies in a box. Situations vary from one person to another. You peeps continue to concentrate on ladies only as if ladies are the only ones existing. How about men who are soooo old yet still single? Have you peeps ever addressed that? have you addressed why there are men who have good jobs yet are still single slting their d1cks from one lady to another? Ask them why they are single, you will hear "Ive not found my missing rib". what do you have to say? Some men dnt deserve marriage and cannot care for a woman. Please ladies will nt marry themselves o. Its the men that will come for them so lets stop driving unnecessary epistles down their throats!! Allow these ladies to breathe biko!! By the way, for those guys in this thread that are narrating one sob story or the other, have you ever sat down to think of why a lady would be brave to remain single than end up married to you? Its possible your attitude stinks. Its possible you are violent. Its possible you are community man who never fails to slot his d1ck into any hole you meet. Perhaps your gf had to treat all sorts of stds gotten from you. But of course, every guy here will pose and portray himself as a saint. Some of you have abusive tendencies and for ladies to pick race and stay single, you must make sure you do some self evaluation and change your attitude. Glory be to God you are married now and she is single. Thats whats giving you joy. But If we dig deep into what your wife faces at home with you, that yur Ex needs to do serious thanksgiving to God for saving her from the clutches of a miserable marriage. NO WONDER THE SOB STORIES FROM MARRIED WOMEN ARE TOO MUCH!! So its not by who gets married first. Its about what kind of marriage you have or intend to have. As for ladies who date married men, i have no words for them. This karma we talk about is unfair. So i wont say anything on that. I am speaking for ladies who had genuine reasons to leave men and stay single. [/quote].........Haaaahh.....My frnd go n get married jorhhh! |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by Nobody: 1:58pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
code6: Are you feeling guilty? I want to know what your wife thinks of you if you are married. what kind of marriage do you have? 1 Like |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by jpphilips(m): 2:08pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
MizMyColi: what has she done lately? |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by Nobody: 2:19pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
[quote author=Sophyrocks post=32024320] Are you feeling guilty? I want to know what your wife thinks of you if you are married. what kind of marriage do you have?[/quote]......hmmmm!!!.....Am not yet married but hoping 2 settle down soon.........i can seriously percieve ur gud hrt....ur husband must b lucky......Am nt guilty Ooo |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by Nobody: 2:20pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
[quote author=Sophyrocks post=32024320] Are you feeling guilty? I want to know what your wife thinks of you if you are married. what kind of marriage do you have?[/quote]......hmmmm!!!.....Am not yet married but hoping 2 settle down soon.........i can seriously percieve ur gud hrt....ur husband must b lucky......am nt feelin guilty |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by Nobody: 2:25pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
code6: So you are not married and you said i should go and marry. why are you single? |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by wazobiaforu(m): 2:29pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
I just want to comment to keep this thread for references |
| Re: 2 Relationship Pitfalls Older Unamrried Ladies May Not Tell Younger Ones by Defcon1(m): 2:50pm On Mar 26, 2015 |
Funny how some so called MEN,with all these qualities, turn out to be unrepentant cheaters, wife beaters, control freaks, alcoholics,terrible husbands and fathers 1 Like |
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