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7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:27am On Mar 31, 2015
Though it could just be anxiety or worries you
should push aside, when you get a hunch that
your girlfriend is straying , it’s hard to shake it.
Regardless of how long you’ve been together or
how often she swears up and down that nothing
is going on, there may be hidden signs to clue
you in to her real intentions.
These aren’t scientifically proven, but experts
agree on these indicators that you should heed
when in doubt about your lady’s love:

She Keeps To Herself

She could be busy with juggling work schedules,
making it to yoga class and seeing her
girlfriends - but if she’s not telling you about
her day, there’s a chance she’s telling someone
else. Laurel House, dating coach and author
says if she isn’t discussing her frustrations,
highs and lows, you have reason to fret. “Do you
feel like you’re just getting the ‘need to know’
information without getting into how something
made her feel?” House asks. If so, she might be
leaning on another guy.

She's Not As Open

Let’s be real: women are typically more open
about their feelings than men are. It’s when
you’re able to open up to a special girl that you
feel connected to her, and when she opens up in
return, your relationship really starts to grow.
However, if she’s quiet and hardly ever upset,
she might be emotionally cheating with
someone else. Why? Because unlike men,
women cheat emotionally before they take it to
the physical level, experts say. “An emotional
affair can actually be more dangerous than the
typical male affair,” House says.

She's Hiding Her
Phone


When she’s doing something she knows she
shouldn’t, it’s likely she’ll feel guilty about it.
You might notice that instead of spending time
scrolling through Instagram on the couch with
you, she put her phone in the other room. She
probably doesn’t want to risk you looking over
and catching her in the act. “Women may hide
text messages , email exchanges, and phone
calls with a ‘good friend,’” House says. “He
could start off as just a friend, but it could also
be progressing into more.”

She's Light On Details

She’s always had that monthly wine and supper
club with her girls, and a few times a month
when they hit the town, but now there’s a book
club? And they’re taking yoga, too? She could
be needing more friendship time in her life, or
she’s seeing someone on the side. The key here,
House says, is to pay attention to what she
says when she sees you after those nights.
“Instead of coming home and filling you in on all
the details and gossip she learned while out
with the girls, she is cagey and not forthcoming
about what they did or talked about.”

She's Never In The
Mood


Even if you’ve always been the initiator of sex in
your relationship, if you can’t remember the last
time you had sex - and she doesn’t seem too
concerned to change it - than you might have
validation to be suspect. Sex expert and author,
Dr. Kat Van Kirk says that when your partner
wants significantly less sex or physical contact,
it’s a sign their interests lie elsewhere.

She's Had A Drastic
Makeover


Though everyone switches up their wardrobe or
gets a new haircut from time-to-time, if your
lady has lost a lot of weight, is overly concerned
with her looks or has completely changed her
style, she could be preparing for a new
relationship. Van Kirk says women often
reinvent themselves outwardly when they’re
feeling the need for change inwardly, so if she’s
being antsy, you might have reason to be, too.

She Thinks You're
Insecure


Though it was her choice to stray if she did,
women sometimes cheat when they feel like
they’re partner is being too clingy or accusing
them of being interested in someone else. It’s
almost like a self-fulfilling prophecy, House
says. “Unless you truly do want her to see you
through your tainted glasses, don’t point out
your insecurities and physical flaws,” she
suggests. “If you constantly question if you are
good enough for her, she might start to wonder
the same thing… and look for something better.”


www.askmen.com/top_10/dating_top_ten/28b_dating_list.html

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Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:30am On Mar 31, 2015
Number 1 and 6 though!
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:34am On Mar 31, 2015
EggovinMma:
Number 1 and 6 though!
Are those the one you're guilty of?
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by tosyne2much(m): 7:37am On Mar 31, 2015
Korrect cheesy
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:40am On Mar 31, 2015
You can never know a cheating girlfriend who is "Smart"

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Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by dharay99: 7:42am On Mar 31, 2015
#yaaaawns,

Hmm, I will take note. .
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:42am On Mar 31, 2015
naturally "hoe" ain't loyal undecided

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Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by jetsetgo: 7:42am On Mar 31, 2015
missclasssy:
You can never know a cheating girlfriend who is "Smart"

There's nothing like a smart cheating girlfriend. The fact that she is cheating makes her not smart, she is just criminally oriented/gifted.

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Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by emperorchedda(m): 7:44am On Mar 31, 2015
When will I start observing changes in girls? Maybe when I start to care if they are cheating on me or not
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by noskeybaba: 7:44am On Mar 31, 2015
missclasssy:
You can never know a cheating girlfriend who is "Smart"

You underestimate me to your own detriment. I do better investigation than the FBI.
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:47am On Mar 31, 2015
D1ck:
Are those the one you're guilty of?

Yep.
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by cutieberie1(f): 7:47am On Mar 31, 2015
she z not as open and she hardly gets upset...those 2 sha.....

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Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:50am On Mar 31, 2015
noskeybaba:


You underestimate me to your own detriment. I do better investigation than the FBI.

When you have been cocooned in euphoria of your supposed love for her, I doubt if your so called "FBI Investigational skills" would be potent enough.....
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:51am On Mar 31, 2015
missclasssy:
You can never know a cheating girlfriend who is "Smart"
Says who?
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:52am On Mar 31, 2015
D1ck:
Says who?

Says me undecided
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:05am On Mar 31, 2015
missclasssy:


Says me undecided
Women are not so good in faking love as men, and the fact that they are emotional rather than logical is gonna tell on 'em...... Most ladies are ignoramus as they fails to exhibit the necessary precautions...
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Enegod(m): 8:08am On Mar 31, 2015
* She has new things she tries in the bed room and then tells you you are not doing them right undecided

* when she becomes jealous of you, she's
cheating. The perpetrator often blames their own victims for what they do. undecided
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:14am On Mar 31, 2015
~ She gets easily disinterested in your conversations and she tries everything possible to avoid body contact.. I mean smooches etc
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:15am On Mar 31, 2015
D1ck:
Women are not so good in faking love as men, and the fact that they are emotional rather than logical is gonna tell on 'em...... Most ladies are ignoramus as they fails to exhibit the necessary precautions...

Well, I am an exception to that assumption.
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by naijaboiy: 8:23am On Mar 31, 2015
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:28am On Mar 31, 2015
missclasssy:


Well, I am an exception to that assumption.
I usually regard you as different vis-à-vis psychalgia and characterism
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:29am On Mar 31, 2015
When she starts being unnecessarily nice.

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Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:30am On Mar 31, 2015
cutieberie1:
she z not as open and she hardly gets upset...those 2 sha.....
Does that in anyway qualifies you?
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by VJSMILESS: 8:30am On Mar 31, 2015
when her 8cm centimetre pussy has expanded past it maximum length to 10cm.. angry
use your measuring tape..... angry

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Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:31am On Mar 31, 2015
Enegod:
* She has new things she tries in the bed room and then tells you you are not doing them right undecided

* when she becomes jealous of you, she's
cheating. The perpetrator often blames their own victims for what they do. undecided
Correct

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Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:32am On Mar 31, 2015
Darkrebel666:
~ She gets easily disinterested in your conversations and she tries everything possible to avoid body contact.. I mean smooches etc
Right on track..... She may even have an excuse not to enter your room at all
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:34am On Mar 31, 2015
VJSMILESS:
when her 8cm centimetre pussy has expanded past it maximum length to 10cm.. angry
use your measuring tape..... angry
This is a complicated aspect cos your dick can also make the pussy expand
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by VJSMILESS: 8:40am On Mar 31, 2015
D1ck:
This is a complicated aspect cos your dick can also make the pussy expand
your manhood is 8inches,her pineapple can never expand past 8inches except she is having outdoor sex with boys with bigger pencils....
a woman hood is supported with millions of elastic muscles which contract and relax...
_my point_
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:48am On Mar 31, 2015
VJSMILESS:

your manhood is 8inches,her pineapple can never expand past 8inches except she is having outdoor sex with boys with bigger pencils....
a woman hood is supported with millions of elastic muscles which contract and relax...
_my point_
Gotcha
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Slimzjoe(m): 8:52am On Mar 31, 2015
She's not cheating till she's caught
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Headlesschicken(m): 8:54am On Mar 31, 2015
grin undecided dey r women tho y bother much,jst kip mkin d money n dey wld kip cmin in quantums...so u dnt v 2date1
Re: 7 Ways To Know A Cheating Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:55am On Mar 31, 2015
* suddenly becomes busy
* ignores certain calls and messages..
* puts pin on phone
* starts finding u less attractive ...
* doesnt rlly care about certain thing ...

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