Just got me thinking. Is it right to watch porn with your spouse or rather erotic softcore movies? Candid ând matured opinions please.

Here to read comments.

Am not married! when I do, I'l come back and comment

There's nothing wrong. f*ck em all that will see this to be wrong.

Is it right to watch porn at all, whether alone or not?

Oga, whatever you do in your marriage is non of my business.

Its your marriage and you have every right to catch fun however you like it

crazysaint:
There's nothing wrong. f*ck em all that will see this to be wrong.

..was gonna say sumtin,,buh after ur comment,,I'll jas shut up..

Watching porn on its own is bad! You might end up pushing ur wife to other guys at the end.

OP it's just like u asking; 'is it right to have fun with ur spouse?' who cares

izyrach:
..was gonna say sumtin,,buh after ur comment,,I'll jas shut up..

Lol...bae say your mind out, dont be overwhelm with what i said.

missclasssy:
There is nothing wrong with watching porn with your spouse, it just depends on the reason behind it.

A couple could watch Porn to help improve their sexual life, other could watch it to arouse themselves, it all depends.....

Hmmmmmm.

I think there is something wrong with watching it.

As a Christian, I would say that Porn is satanic. I don't know if you or the op is a Christian so I want you people to know that I speaking from a Christian perspective.

First, isn't watching porn a way of promoting our daughters who are in the trade? Would you want your own daughter to act porn? If No is your answer then why? Because it is bad I guess.

Secondly, The film is edited, so none of the stuff that gets in the way in real life sex gets shown, you can't do those positions and derive pleasure, no guy can give that many orgasms in few minutes, no guy is getting all that good sex.

Porn stars are trained, and even have to shoot 100 times in order to get the position the director of the pornagraphy orders. All the orgasms, porn stars use the majority of the time are fake. A husband or wife after watching and getting a disappointing performance from his/her spouse might resort to cheating just to experience what they watched in porn movies.

A lot of people will talk about motive and moderation but is there really a good way to do bad things?

It is not uncommon for frequent porn watchers to actually have trouble enjoying their spouse, and actually require the extra excitement of porn to be satisfied when the spouse fails to satisfy them. Some engage in self-service.

If your sex life is boring, sit down with your spouse and talk about it. You may find that they feel the same way you do and the two of you can work together to create a more interesting sex life.

Your relationship is doomed and your sexlife bleeped when you rely on porn to get aroused.

Religiously dats bad bt if u av 2 consider oda factors, it's greater Dan d gr8test . Omo na experimenting d practical as it dey happen na him sweet pass sef

IF YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE LIKE TO WATCH PORN AND WATCH IT TOGETHER,

THEN ITS TOTALLY RIGHT TO WATCH IT TOGETHER!

It depends on why u are watching it.

Yes, u can

The first question, i think, should be ''is porn right?'' how we answer that will serve as an index for the former.

For me, Porn is inherently wrong 'abi nitio'(a latin word meaning from the very beginning). It objectifies 'the partner' as a sort of sex doll, makes flimflam of the sacred symbol that is sex and leads to an insatiable craving for an illusory sexual satisfaction/gratification that never will be derived, that never has been there. Dissatisfaction with one's partner to play catch up with the nifty sexual abilities of those professionally paid porn-stars has a far reaching consequence. Ranging from looking elsewhere to satisfy oneself, sexual selfishness, feeling of acrimonious resentment towards what one now see as 'bed-boring partner' and more often, a break up culminates in the last resort. Porn is a no, no.
If porn is wrong in itself, it is pretty safe to conclude watching porn with one's spouse is Wrong(emphasis mine). And that i think is the true position.

Why should we watch porn when we can make porn??

There is noting wrong with it.....

Tallesty1:
Hmmmmmm.

I think there is something wrong with watching it.

As a Christian, I would say that Porn is satanic. I don't know if you or the op is a Christian so I want you people to know that I speaking from a Christian perspective.

First, isn't watching porn a way of promoting our daughters who are in the trade? Would you want your own daughter to act porn? If No is your answer then why? Because it is bad I guess.

Secondly, The film is edited, so none of the stuff that gets in the way in real life sex gets shown, you can't do those positions and derive pleasure, no guy can give that many orgasms in few minutes, no guy is getting all that good sex.

Porn stars are trained, and even have to shoot 100 times in order to get the position the director of the pornagraphy orders. All the orgasms, porn stars use the majority of the time are fake. A husband or wife after watching and getting a disappointing performance from his/her spouse might resort to cheating just to experience what they watched in porn movies.

A lot of people will talk about motive and moderation but is there really a good way to do bad things?

It is not uncommon for frequent porn watchers to actually have trouble enjoying their spouse, and actually require the extra excitement of porn to be satisfied when the spouse fails to satisfy them. Some engage in self-service.

If your sex life is boring, sit down with your spouse and talk about it. You may find that they feel the same way you do and the two of you can work together to create a more interesting sex life.

Your relationship is doomed and your sexlife bleeped when you rely on porn to get aroused.

nice comment bro. U spoke of being a Christian, but premit me to say that you too use condom. Is condom usage "christiantious"?

Johnbosco77:
nice comment bro. U spoke of being a Christian, but premit me to say that you too use condom. Is condom usage "christiantious"?

What is wrong is wrong even if the whole world is doing it.

Tallesty1:
What is wrong is wrong even if the whole world is doing it.

so you do use condoms, right??

missclasssy:
There is nothing wrong with watching porn with your spouse, it just depends on the reason behind it.

A couple could watch Porn to help improve their sexual life, other could watch it to arouse themselves, it all depends.....

just wondering if you don't have better things to do in life than wander about nairaland,you registered march 15th and you've manage 2 accumulate 13days online...some of us have been here 4years and counting and we just got past the 13day mark. Missy get yourself busy!!!
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