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Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by Nobody: 7:28pm On Apr 09, 2015
You see, a lot of men believe that to meet, approach, woo and sleep with hot women, you need to be as handsome as Richard Mofe Damijo or you need to have a lot of money or you need to drive a Range Rover Jeep. While I agree that those things can help sometimes, it will not determine how successful you will be with women. In fact, sometimes, those things can count against you.Let me ask you:have you seen or heard about some rich guys that have girlfriends but the girls still go out to date other guys that are not as rich? I bet you have seen or at least heard of such. Sometimes, such girls even collect money from their rich boyfriends to spend on such riff raffs. That means wooing hot girls is not about money, cars, looks and height. Wooing hot girls is all about doing the right things. It's about doing what women want to see. It's about not making the mistakes most men make.Here are the mistakes most Nigerian men make with women. Avoid these mistakes and you will be "doing" more girls than you can handle.

Mistake 1: Respecting a woman too muchAll our lives, we were taught to respect women and to shower praises on beautiful women. Do you know that in reality, this is not a good thing? Pretty girls don't like it when you respect them too much or when you over compliment them.You know why? They have heard such compliments over and over again even before you met them and they are going to hear it again. When you meet a hot girl and you stare at her, compliment her and cower at her feet, you would have joined the list of"weak"men she meets everyday. Hot girls do not like weak guys. Don't be weak.

Mistake 2: Always trying to please a womanWhen most men meet and start talking (and maybe dating) a hot girl, they begin to look for all ways to please her. They don't want her to get upset and angry for fear of losing her. They are never late for a date, they call her every hour and so on. That is a very wrong move. What it means is that you don't feel secured. You believe that you don't deserve her and that there are better guys out there that will snatch her from you if you don't treat her well. Getting a girl angry and upset is not a bad thing. As long her you're not physically harming her or mentally abusing her, it's okay to upset her sometimes. Women are strangely attracted to this.

Mistake 3: Allowing a potential romance turn to ordinary friendship Has this ever happened to you? You meet a girl, like her and you begin to get along well. Along the line, you found out that you are becoming more of friends than lovers. Now, you don't even know how to woo her because you have become very close. This happens to a lot of guys all the time.They do not know how to draw the line with women. They do not know when to turn friendship into romance and how to stop a woman from turning you into ordinary friends.

Mistake 4: Not knowing how to approach girls I remember a long time ago when I was new to wooing girls. Whenever I saw a hot girl I fancied, I will want to approach her and talk to her and all of a sudden, I'll freeze. Even if I walked towards her, I'll just walk past due to fear. Not anymore. Most guys however still have this problem of approaching women. Let me tell you this. If you do not meet and approach women, you will not be able to get hot girls to date. It's as simple as that.

Mistake 5: Trying to see a girl all the time Lots of guys think that when they start dating a girl, it's important to see her regularly to keep the love growing. This is a wrong assumption. Women do not like such guys. They view such guys as people without a life of their own. Women are not attracted to men without a life of their own. Regular meetings do not encourage attraction. This is the opposite of what guys think. In reality, giving a woman space, time, leaving her to miss you will increase attraction. If you see a girl everyday at the beginning trying to show how much you like her, your chances of winning her over will be greatly diminished.

Mistake 6: Always asking her for approval to do things (like taking her out) This is one of the traits that irritate women a lot. Women do not want men to look up to them all the time before they make decisions. They want to be"carried along" but they want to look up to their men and not the other way round. If you try to please a beautiful woman all the time, she will not be attracted to you. They want a bit of pride and arrogance from you. Don't appear to be a weakling.

Mistake 7: Not knowing what women want Now listen up to hear the truth. There are certain things women (especially the hot ones) want in men. Once you cannot provide these things, they will not be attracted to you no matter how rich you are or how handsome you are.

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Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by amsoslim(m): 7:29pm On Apr 09, 2015
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Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by Nobody: 7:38pm On Apr 09, 2015
na so Una go dey talk talk, buh at the end, the woman no go look ur side, some go even chop ya money, dump u join.
all na wash.

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Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by falconey(m): 7:40pm On Apr 09, 2015
hmmmm like say na woman I come life come pursue.
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by ilovecritics(m): 7:41pm On Apr 09, 2015
EroticAngelina:
na so Una go dey talk talk, buh at the end, the woman no go look ur side, some go even chop ya money, dump u join.
all na wash.

What if your BF doesn't really love u?

#OffTopicQuestion
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by Nobody: 7:42pm On Apr 09, 2015
ilovecritics:


What if your BF doesn't really love u?

#OffTopicQuestion
u don come again o. my bobo loves me
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by tohpahz(f): 7:44pm On Apr 09, 2015
Hmmmm.
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by tohpahz(f): 7:45pm On Apr 09, 2015
falconey:
hmmmm like say na woman I come life come pursue.

Buh u go still pursue them once in a while
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by ilovecritics(m): 7:55pm On Apr 09, 2015
EroticAngelina:
u don come again o. my bobo loves me

For some split seconds you thought about it grin

How u doing, shug?
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by Nobody: 8:01pm On Apr 09, 2015
ilovecritics:


For some split seconds you thought about it grin

How u doing, shug?
I'm fine, u?
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by aniagoluaustin(m): 8:04pm On Apr 09, 2015
EroticAngelina:
na so Una go dey talk talk, buh at the end, the woman no go look ur side, some go even chop ya money, dump u join.
all na wash.
no mind dem..d best answer to all ds is..JUST BE YOUR SELF..WORKS FOR ME
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by ilovecritics(m): 8:43pm On Apr 09, 2015
EroticAngelina:
I'm fine, u?

I'm alright smiley
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by kessco(m): 9:30pm On Apr 09, 2015
EroticAngelina:
na so Una go dey talk talk, buh at the end, the woman no go look ur side, some go even chop ya money, dump u join.
all na wash.

Are you a NL mod...everywhere you go like MTN. No offence o
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by chocmanne(m): 10:14pm On Apr 09, 2015
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Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by Psalmwise(m): 10:15pm On Apr 09, 2015
<<<Acquired>>>
Miltary Zone Keep off
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by chocmanne(m): 10:16pm On Apr 09, 2015
all this cos of a girl?... mtcheeew

abeg if she no gree, Make she swerve go dive for lagoon. undecided
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by Nobody: 10:17pm On Apr 09, 2015
am tired of all this list
i just think is kinda childish opening the same thread with different topics

my 1cent tho
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by Dahyormine(m): 10:49pm On Apr 09, 2015
grin@OP, more alomo to ur elbow jare!
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by YUNGLURD(m): 11:04pm On Apr 09, 2015
Shay aye obinrin ni mowa ni?must every lady love me
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by SkinnyDude(m): 5:40am On Apr 10, 2015
EroticAngelina:
u don come again o. my bobo loves me
how you take know?
because em tell you. maybe the dude dey wash your head sef
Re: Avoid These Mistakes To Woo Any Girl Easily. by yemstok(m): 6:09am On Apr 10, 2015
I was here

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