Mrbigman1:


Nice. Ke side owu isi? Abum onye Uga.

Lol!! From ...
Why asking though??

Luckygurl:


Lol!! From Oraukwu...
Why asking though??

Just wanna know. Maybe get my first Nairaland friend.

Mrbigman1:


Just wanna know. Maybe get my first Nairaland friend.

Hmmm!! I see

Luckygurl:


Nope!! I see nothing bad in such discussions, exchanging ideas with people of like minds.
Is it that he's too young for it or what??
Personally, I did such and I believe it was of help to me. Moving along with the right set of people having the same intention of developing themselves mentally ain't a bad idea at all.

when you were 16, obviously you wer nt in a rlationshp neither in his situation
pls he still has a young sense of maturity towards life ahead of him, my advice for him to restrict unnecessary talks with ladies will pave him way to avoid that closeness with ladies who will initiate that mutual relationship with him, mind you he has male friends he will dscuss political, fashion, entertainment gists with.

Luckygurl:

Hmmm!! I see

Can I send u a mail?

@mribehval2012@yahoo.com

Waiting

Mrbigman1:



Can I send u a mail?

@mribehval2012@yahoo.com

Waiting

Just seeing this, will send you a mail asap

If you are 17 then she is definitely 15. Hmm, sounds familiar

unpredictedone:

when you were 16, obviously you wer nt in a rlationshp neither in his situation
pls he still has a young sense of maturity towards life ahead of him, my advice for him to restrict unnecessary talks with ladies will pave him way to avoid that closeness with ladies who will initiate that mutual relationship with him, mind you he has male friends he will dscuss political, fashion, entertainment gists with.

Lol!! Are we still on this??
If he's got a free and innocent mind in relating with females, he should be able to keep things at bay with them. Mind you, he should have them as casual friends with no intention of getting into a romantic relationship with them for the mean time.
I get where you're heading to, to me that's not the best way to handle this issue. Those talks you term unneccessary are exciting topics which they can discuss and debate on, thus widening his knowledge on how people think and how their minds work. This doesn't have to be with females alone, the males partake in such conversations.
He shouldn't totally keep away from girls of his age just because he wants to avoid uneccessary closeness with them. What happened to him selectively picking out friends with same mindset and also setting boundaries if it becomes necessary.
As time goes on, he matures. By then he won't have much difficulty relating to the person he finally agrees to enter a romantic relationship, and ofcourse when it is ripe for him to engage in one.
My2cents!!!

Luckygurl:
Young man!!
You're still too young for all this. Right now you should be having females as casual friends. That way, you tend to understand us and know more of how our mind works.
You don't have to limit yourself to one particular girl who's out to suck you dry.

With time things will fall in place and you'd be glad you stayed off intimate relationships.
Face your studies or whatever it is you're doing and let go of all these side attractions, they won't help you at all..

Wow!! This is an exception. Any other nigerian babe will advice differently. Good girl!

Mrbigman1:


Nice. Ke side owu isi? Abum onye Uga.

Igbo kwenu! See the stylish chyking things going on here clandestine style...speaking in igbo so we dont know whats going on.

PaulCI:

Igbo kwenu! See the stylish chyking things going on here clandestine style...speaking in igbo so we dont know whats going on.

Is concerns u??

japhmanuel:
Aren't u supposed to be focusing on ur books

Children of this days though..

if hear am..

Luckygurl:


He can't completely stay away from girls nah..
He can probably rub minds together with them on several issues aside relationships. At his age, I already was an undergraduate and I had a clique, we discussed issues ranging from politics, economy and it's like. It doesn't have to be all about intimacy... This way, he's gathering experiences that would shape his future.....

Based on his own side of the story, he made it look as if the girl in question is the one initiating sex. Now if this is totally true, what does he stand to gain from her aside that initial thrill of having sex. What value would she add to his life? He'd be loosing quite alot and gain nothing in return. His time, resources, strength,etc.
So boy!! Run as fast as your legs can carry you....

thanks man.

UnknownT:
How old is the girl, lets start from there.

16 yrz..

Osirimononaye:
Pls i need advice if i shld indulge or dump her...

don't ask us stupid questions. No one asks if he should HV sex or not stop acting saint. U know way to do. Opportunity lost can not be ...... you know

Osirimononaye:

thanks man.

Point of correction, I'm ain't a man.
I hope you do make the right choice

Luckygurl:


Point of correction, I'm ain't a man.
I hope you do make the right choice

U talk different among all other Nigeria Girls, Kudos.
Heared ur advice.

thronekid:

Mrs., Your English dey blow head. See person wey dey criticize.

OP, Let no man shape your life, I think U should go with whatever U feel....... Most of those criticizing U started having theirs at Fourteen, fifteen.

Not me.

MrsChima:


Not me.

Sorry Oh!

seems you are yet to be convinced, that am advicing the young man from a profound, psychological depth of view; comprehending his level of intelligence towards life, it's so obvious he got himself into the inconsequential relationship, as a result of the so-called dialogues with casual female friends.
furthermore: advicing him to desist from those unimportant, trivial, negligible and trifling gist will enhance his reasoning why he shouldn't have a girlfriend fornow, mindfully inculcating his to his decision.
in summary,he should desist trivial gists with ladies,and work getting his mind mature emotionally and academically. bring to a pause anything friendshp afterall he still too young.
luckygal hw r u today?

Luckygurl:

Lol!! Are we still on this??
If he's got a free and innocent mind in relating with females, he should be able to keep things at bay with them. Mind you, he should have them as casual friends with no intention of getting into a romantic relationship with them for the mean time.
I get where you're heading to, to me that's not the best way to handle this issue. Those talks you term unneccessary are exciting topics which they can discuss and debate on, thus widening his knowledge on how people think and how their minds work. This doesn't have to be with females alone, the males partake in such conversations.
He shouldn't totally keep away from girls of his age just because he wants to avoid uneccessary closeness with them. What happened to him selectively picking out friends with same mindset and also setting boundaries if it becomes necessary.
As time goes on, he matures. By then he won't have much difficulty relating to the person he finally agrees to enter a romantic relationship, and ofcourse when it is ripe for him to engage in one.
My2cents!!!

seems you are yet to be convinced, that am advicing the young man from a profound, psychological depth of view; comprehending his level of intelligence towards life, it's so obvious he got himself into the inconsequential relationship, as a result of the so-called dialogues with casual female friends.
furthermore: advicing him to desist from those unimportant, trivial, negligible and trifling gist will enhance his reasoning why he shouldn't have a girlfriend fornow, mindfully inculcating his to his decision.
in summary,he should desist trivial gists with ladies,and work getting his mind mature emotionally and academically. bring to a pause anything friendshp afterall he still too young.
luckygal hw r u today?

unpredictedone:
seems you are yet to be convinced, that am advicing the young man from a profound, psychological depth of view; comprehending his level of intelligence towards life, it's so obvious he got himself into the inconsequential relationship, as a result of the so-called dialogues with casual female friends.
furthermore: advicing him to desist from those unimportant, trivial, negligible and trifling gist will enhance his reasoning why he shouldn't have a girlfriend fornow, mindfully inculcating his to his decision.
in summary,he should desist trivial gists with ladies,and work getting his mind mature emotionally and academically. bring to a pause anything friendshp afterall he still too young.
luckygal hw r u today?

I think I've made my point well enough. no need arguing on this back and forth

I'm fine and you??

Luckygurl:


I think I've made my point well enough. no need arguing on this back and forth

I'm fine and you??

Hope mine was vivid enough
my day was just hectic, beyond all, thank's to God