SeverusSnape:

It was "thorough" indeed, The widest margin in this year's gubernatorial election. I love what Rivers people did, Ameachi will now become a nonentity in his own state,and as time goes on; at the Federal level too because charity begins at home, Mehn!.....I want to be a Rivers indigene right now.
... And I implore the lexicographers at Oxford to add a new word to the dictionary, That word should be WIKE , Meaning a fierce hurricane.

dearpreye:


I'm so happy I added a nail to Amaechi's political coffin at Rivers state. ..

We have no business whatsoever with him plying his trade from Aso Rock!

SeverusSnape:

Nice one sir, CONGRATULATIONS ONCE MORE.

Takim107:
hmm, go sleep.

Moana:

quivah:

lol no na.. I only get angry at posts that are angry..
yes you are right about the wifely duties and my first post on this thread condemned that.. I totally hate it.. cohabitation too is bad, but it doesn't change the fact that people engage in se.x more often than not even as singles .
if we want to regain our level of morality back, then premarital se.x should be the topic as a whole..where we condemn the act by both se.xes. if that is condemned, the degree to which cohabitation is at, will drop.. cause obviously guys cohabit basically for se.x while girls for the monetary benefits.

pretty050:
the act itself is what I am referring to. If I decide to live with a guy we are both defrauding each other.

tomhank:




1.

Um do yhu remember losing ya virginity? Do yhu still remembere how it felt when you realized yhu just lost ya pride ... Have yhu ever asked yourself why you ain't with the guy that disvirgined yhu! Why do yhu think 75 % of married men still look for smaller chicks!
2.
Cause the fact still remains that guys don't give a fck bout their virginity... My gf ain't perfect either buh I'll choose here a million times over yhu...
Cause yhu don't cohabit with ya bf u think you're Berra smh....

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Rapmoney:
I often wonder where Nigerian youths copied this nonsense from because even students in universities in America, Asia and Europe do not engage in this trashy act as we do over here!!! Yet, we still call them agents of immorality?

I just feel, deep within my heart, that girls who cohabit or cohabited in the university do not desrve any dime as bride price paid on them! They should just follow their would-be husband to his house, free of charge and continue where they stopped in school!

A girl cohabits with a guy for 4 to 5 years in school; this means the dude would bleep her through out those years (free of charge o!), she would perform wifely duties for him...cooking, cleaning, washing, providing emotional wifely support, etc (free of charge too o!). Now, what's still left in such a body? If she can bleep a dude for years without any dime paid on her, coupled with the numerous wifely duties, then what's the need of paying a dime on her as diary or bride price? If that bloke that bleeped her for years didn't pay a dime on her where families would meet, eat and drink and pray, why should I pay a dime on her head? Worse of it is that this dude enjoyed all what he enjoyed free of charge! Now, why should I be requested to pay for same? Common, that's not fair! What's sauce for the goose is also sauce for the gander!!!

From Delsu to Lasu, from Uniben to OOU, from Uniport to Unical, from UniAbuja to Esut...it is the same story! Any girl who cohabits with a dude in school who has never paid a dime on her has lost her feminine value! She doesn't deserve anything paid on her!!!

quivah:

1. I don't have an experience, sorry!
and obviously you are among the guys who measure a woman's worth by her pucci.. that's some piece of crap!! the emboldened is utterly stupid dear. why are you with a girl who has lost her pride to some one other than you are you dating a valueless girl? that's judging by your definition of a girl's 'pride'..you are birds of a feather no wonder..what pride have you got sleeping around I'm not insulting, just using your word against u.
2. I'm not here fighting with your gf over you..you? lmao.. just pointing it out I'm no average naija girl.. and I don't cohabit, neither am i saying I'm better..you seem to read upside down! now enough about me and your gf, let's face the topic
my point: cohabitation is bad,pre marital s.ex is bad .. don't condemn one and embrace the other in the same hand..
75% of married men look for smaller chicks(who obviously are as worse as w.hore, what's the point?) cause they are cheating dogs..

tomhank:



Na wa for this quivah girl o... Aii look at it from this angle..... Just puzzle over this little question... Why do yhu think a guy pays 500 to bang a LovePeddler and pays up to #500 thousand for a girls bride price...
Why didn't it go the other way round.....
Forget bout character and the rest..... Pucci also gat value!

quivah:

wait o.. that's like saying, why should I pay n200 to board a cab and 2milN to buy a car.

no, no one should forget xter n d rest..every girl out there has a pucci, not all of them get good xter. if you are all about the pucci, why can't you get married to that wh.ore?

it can't go the other way cause those two girls(wh.ore and wife) serve different purposes.. the former is just for s.ex hence cheap, the latter goes beyond s.ex. the former is for few mins, the latter is for a life time.
mind you, those wh.ores who get banged for 500N get men who pays thousands for their bride price too.. so, what's the fuss?
let's let it rest here, we will only keep going forth n back.

swaggzo:



PLEASE DO NOT QUOTE ME A NEXT TIME.

swaggzo:



PLEASE DO NOT QUOTE ME A NEXT TIME.

kobonaire:

Your signature is self descriptive of your low intellect and character.
I suggest you and the dunce of an OP get together because only then will there really be 1 complete brain in the room

bukatyne:


You mind them?

On one hand, they say women feel they are doing men a favor: sex is mutually enjoyed.

On the other hand, a woman depreciates when she has sex... a man does not

It is well

RottenTomato:
Shut the fvck up! Crase like u! Mumu!!!

quivah:

wait o.. that's like saying, why should I pay n200 to board a cab and 2milN to buy a car.

no, no one should forget xter n d rest..every girl out there has a pucci, not all of them get good xter. if you are all about the pucci, why can't you get married to that wh.ore?

it can't go the other way cause those two girls(wh.ore and wife) serve different purposes.. the former is just for s.ex hence cheap, the latter goes beyond s.ex. the former is for few mins, the latter is for a life time.
mind you, those wh.ores who get banged for 500N get men who pays thousands for their bride price too.. so, what's the fuss?
let's let it rest here, we will only keep going forth n back.

babyosisi:


The funny twist is the number of deluded nigerian men who rush home to marry these " innocent girls" because they say the ones in America have "opened eye"
And they wonder why the rate of divorce here is skyrocketing
A girl wey don do campus wife for 4-6 years is innocent
Some are training their younger ones plus paying rent for her parents while in school full time
I tell those I know not to bother going home to search
The devil you know is better than the one you don't

aflyingbird:
Naah. I still live with my parents. Never cohabitated, not interested in doing such.

frosbel:
I am definitely for one man one wife and waiting till marriage but unfortunately we live in an imperfect world.

The attitude of Jesus to the woman who had more than 6 husbands was not judgment and condemnation but love and compassion while obviously discouraging further sin.

My observation with these sorts of threads is that Nigerian men are one of the biggest hypocrites living on the face of this planet. They set high standards for women that they themselves cannot and will never attain to. They sleep around while condemning women who sleep around, they constantly harbour lust in their hearts and some even descend to masturbation , forgetting that Jesus said whoever looks at a woman with sexual thoughts has already committed the evil act.

Take a look at yourselves you Pharisees, judge yourselves so that God does not judge you on the last day. Do not think that you will be held guiltless because you are man.

The warning is for both men and women, so stop being a minsogynst . Offer sound advice and leave it at that.

Remember God's forgiveness is sufficient for the restoration of any soul and any soul that has been forgiven is 1 million times worthy of marriage and a bride price. If you don't think so, go and look for somebody else assuming you are a saint.

frosbel:


Many men have also risked their lives and are now dead , 6 feet below the ground because of HIV.

In the UK many men are suffering or even committed suicide because they are rightly made to pay for any babies that are the result of pre-marital sex and trust me it is normally a substantial amount. And we have not even talked about hepatitis C , gonorrhoea or syphilis etc. Why should any sane women who has kept herself pure want to marry such a wreck ??

My point is that the OP's conclusion is not exclusive to women , it is also applicable to men, period.

frosbel:


Looks like we agree on most points. My argument is specifically on the conclusion you reached and it's bias against women.

If a guy has kept Himself clean he has every right to refuse a girl as wife who has not kept herself clean.

Conversely , if a guy has not kept himself clean but insists on finding a girl who has kept herself pure, he is a hypocrite par excellence and deserves what he gets.

sammied:
As I read some people's comment here....especially ladies... I just weep for my generation....gone are the days wen people value their body....no wonder marriages this days are in plenty shambles compared to the years back.

How many undergraduate ladies/guys will be proud to tell or show their parents that cohabiting is the kind of life they live?....

if as a single lady/guy you spend years living with different guys/ladies with high percentage of no marriage....why should the guy/lady you eventually marry respect you? is trust which is the bedrock of marriage magical? is this not one of the major reason for cheats in marriage? after all the years of constant practice with different guys/ladies.....you think one person will automatically satisfy you? won't you be consciously/unconsciously be comparing the present with the past in bed?

Well...as long as the earth remains.....Seed time n harvest will never ceased. you reap wot you sow!

As a side note: nobody should refers to my sisters oooo.....the ones I have never cohabited. Train up a child in the way he should go.....wen he's grown....he will never depart. Nothing beats good home training and personal moral values.

to the ladies: LADIES RESPECT YOUR BODY! ABEG , THINK OF THE MAN YOU WILL EVENTUALLY MARRY! PITY HIM biko.....

Teespice:


I am not sure you answered frosbel's question.

don't make your thread a gender bashing one

cohabiting is very bad in fact, it is more like see finish.

but to heap the blame on the female is so wrong. what of the male. can't he resist efforts not to allow his gf cohabit with him because more often than not, things will happen which one party might regret.

your thread reeks of serious bias and hypocrisy, no offense. going through it would be a total waste of time.

ps- despite all this bashing, many women still get married every other day. who marries them, men abi ghosts.

I am out. no time for toxic comments.

Teespice:


but a man who has slept with over 5 women deserves a virgin for a wife.

ladies, una don see am.