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Ways To Make Your Marriage Stronger! My Marriage Lack All These pls HELP! by ojuoluwani(m): 6:52am On Apr 16, 2015
10 simple ways to make your marriage stronger! I copy these from a facebook friend page, I look at it from beginning to the end my marriage lack all of them No peace no progress no children we both living together as if we were force to be together even we don't go to the same church please need ur advice.


1. When you wake up...no matter how short or
long the marriage is, kiss her good morning DONT
GREET HER!
2. When he comes home...DONT SIT
DOWN, wake up and meet him at the door, a hug
and/or kiss and ask how his day was....he spent
most of it trying to make sure you guys have food
in the house.
3. Before you sleep, PRAY TOGETHER AS A
FAMILY, and in your prayers, always thank God
for your spouse and for his/her love and
dedication to the family.
4. Daily no matter how tired you are, spend a few
minutes to discuss how the day was what
challenges you both met and how you handled the
situation.
5. Find a moment to encourage each other from
scriptures. If you
can get a devotional guide, let each person handle
a day of the week including kids (if they can).
6. Just because you married her, life does not
stop. At least once a month, take her out to
dinner,
spend the evening just the two of you outside the
house eating and talking-just the same way you
tried convincing her to marry you.
7. Be proud of your husband/wife. Walk together
holding hands, text during the day...your wife/
husband should be your best friend, so those stuff
you talk to your friends, include your spouse, ask
silly questions like what are you having for lunch?
What would
you like for supper? Can i get you anything? Did
you get to work? Oh i just called to say i miss
you....Have you left work? etc...
8. People get scared to talk about this but sex
does destroy
marriages. SATISFY your husband/ wife
sexually..it is a gift that can be perfectly enjoyed
in holy
matrimony...itsnot a sin when you are married.
So stop feeling guilty and make sure your sex life
is completely satisfied and enjoyed by the two of
you. Do not give room for your spouse to be
tempted sexually outside of marriage because in it
you cannot give in.
9. Everyday never forget to say
you love your husband/ wife at least 5 times.
Saying i love you, never gets boring, it never gets
rhetorical it never hurts for someone to hear. "Its
a delicious meal, I love you" "Wow, you came
early....i love you sweety" "Will you please get
some bread as you come? I love you" "Good night
my love" "Wakey wakey sweety time for breakfast
love"
10. Never go to bed angry, solve those arguments
with love. Fight all you can but at the end,
remember to pray together, pray for your love and
marriage and the goodnight has to have "I love
you".
Always remember a family that prays together
stays together.

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Re: Ways To Make Your Marriage Stronger! My Marriage Lack All These pls HELP! by vjsmiles: 6:53am On Apr 16, 2015
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Re: Ways To Make Your Marriage Stronger! My Marriage Lack All These pls HELP! by falconey(m): 6:54am On Apr 16, 2015
hmmmm marriage is a great institution, if you don't cheat you will may get carry over.
Re: Ways To Make Your Marriage Stronger! My Marriage Lack All These pls HELP! by Cadamlk: 7:06am On Apr 16, 2015
Nice one!! Good recommendation
Re: Ways To Make Your Marriage Stronger! My Marriage Lack All These pls HELP! by jhydebaba(m): 7:11am On Apr 16, 2015
OP: my advice for you is that you alone can make it work again. Try some of the points here. Never get tired of counselling her. Make her understand the union is for life and both of you can live happy once again. Also, communication is key.
God is going to bless you with good kids, don't relent.


Nb: OP: never regret what once made you happy.

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