Its now becoming an ever increasing trend amongst couples being clueless about what love in its real sense entails. I am a member of quite a few relationship pages and i have read so many relationship ordeals about 1 of the couples in a supposed relationship still being confused as to whether there love is being reciprocated by there partner, and this keeps me wondering why most couples totally ignore the everyday signs in there relationships by kicking there thinking faculties out to the dungeons and just totally going with there hearts which is one of the reason most couples cant seem to make the easiest of decisions in a relationship. I have discovered that over the years a person in love shuns all forms of logical reasoning of ''what is'' and prefers to go with idealistic fantasies of ''what should be'',i discovered also that whichever party seems to love more would refuse to take heed of the ill treatments,the emotional,physical and psychological trauma or abuse he or she goes through everyday in such a relationship, and the most painful of all is they find it hard to take the most logical and easiest decision at times like this,which is to honourably quit such a relationship when the alarm is at its peak.... Whoever thought of the quote ''love is blind'' truely saw deep into the love phenomenon. Now to the main reason behind my article ''knowing true love'',unlike how most people see it.
Knowing true love isnt rocket science at all and would never be a problem once couples invest an equal amount of there brain (thinking faculty) and heart (emotions) in whichever relationship they find themselves in,what am saying therefore is loving with your heart and thinking with your brain should be 50/50, none of the two factors should take more priorty than the other. Now how does any one know if there partners love them truely,its simple all u need do is take note of there actions to the tiniest detail.
The saying ''action speaks way louder than any voice muterred'' is the only way you would really know if truelly your spouse loves you like they claim to. Any tunde,diezianni and hakeem can claim to love you and end up assassinating you in the twinkle of an eye,but actions would always give you the needed clues to ascertain such a fact.
There is no doubting the fact that when a man is truelly in love with a lady he acts like a baby in the presence of his woman,while when a lady his truelly in love with her man she acts in a motherly manner towards the guy in question.
A good example of this is a female friend of mine on my bbm,this lady in question would use her guys pictures on her dp at every chance she gets,i wont be wrong if i said she used her boyfriends dp 80% of the time on all her social networks,she doesnt take time showing him off to those who care to see and she is always quick to tell any guy wanting to be more than just friends about her guy and relationship status,whether the dude in question reciprocates this love gestures of hers is what still beats my imagination,but if nothing at all i can tell you all is this lady is really and truelly deeply in love.
A guy in love would express it more in actions than in words,once your guy tells you the ''i love you'' word more than he shows it then you should be suspicious,this traits are peculiar to players who see saying ''i love you'' to any lady that gets entangled in there web of hypnosis as simple as breathing free air.
With all said and done true love in its real sense is truelly and really exhibited with more action than its said using mere words. So when next your spouse says ''i love you'',try and observe this in every sense that he or she conmesurates such words with actions no matter how small or trivial the act might be.
Caveat; when i say knowing some one loves you is determined by there actions, for guys this actions may include and not necessarily limited to sex or making love to the lady,while for the ladies this actions may include and not necessarily limited to just financial favours and materialistic provisions from the guy.

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It actually took the grace of God for me to know that whenever the OP wrote there, he meant their. Amazing.