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Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by An2elect2(f): 7:54am On Apr 29, 2015 |
abbey621: Wow i agree wholeheartedly with this. Best comment I've seen here. |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Chibest2000(m): 7:58am On Apr 29, 2015 |
For me, I fearless of a successful woman in her own career than that of a rich man's Daughter (women from a rich family), not that they aren't obedience to their husbands, but the rate of influence and control in the side of the parents, Speaking from experience. |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Nobody: 8:00am On Apr 29, 2015 |
This is cool... *following* |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by moHot(f): 8:04am On Apr 29, 2015 |
it's frustrating when a successful woman is married to or dating a man who is not as successful as she is, because the things she do with the purest intentions will be misinterpreted and that's because of the notion most men hold about rich women. It's not easy and what makes it more difficult is the inferiority complex of some of the men. HOW TO EXCEL IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP AS A SUCCESSFUL WOMAN 1)Your 'submissiveness' has to be way more than the woman who is not as successful as her man 2)you have to let and make him be in charge ....make him feel he is in control. (even if he is not) Trust me it works, he has to have a feeling that he can still be head even with all ur wealth 3) you have to know you can't talk to your man the way an average woman would, you can't even say somethings when you are angry; any other woman can be rude to her man and get away with it but a rich woman have to be careful because your fat bank account will be blamed to be responsible for your rudeness . Even the man who can't control or earn the respect of a woman he feeds will want the woman who can feed herself respect him and surrender herself to be controlled .? Most times its not about the rich / poor woman respecting you, it's about you earning that respect by being THE MAN. 1 Like |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by popiong(m): 8:06am On Apr 29, 2015 |
theplanmaker: I would prefer you do not use the word control for it may seem manipulating. Rather say "a man may not want to marry a woman that is never ready to reason with her spouse and come to a mutual agreement theplanmaker: I would prefer you do not use the word control for it may seem manipulating. Rather say "a man may not want to marry a woman that is never ready to reason with her spouse and come to a mutual agreement 1 Like |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Nobody: 8:06am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Rapmoney: A Successful woman does not necessary mean does who have made it to the peak in their career. There are other facet of success a woman can attain, like a successful wife, mother etc. |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by silvercute(m): 8:09am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Owliver: Thanks so much for your contributions. I guess OP is an idealist and opens this thread to fan the ego of feminists littered everywhere in the name of ' successful' woman. Women don't possess the mental capacity to provide materially for a home and still feel submissive to the man. Hardly! The more reason God made the woman as a compliment and NOT a copy of the man. With the high rate of divorce in the western world is that not a lingering sign of subversiveness. 1 Like |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by cococandy(f): 8:14am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Jagabanthelion:I lost a few brain cells reading this poo. So punishing oneself taking public transport, begging for lifts everywhere when you can afford a car is a sign of humility? And that's something that a man with functioning brain finds attractive? Who did this to you people? Like the most retardedd shyt I've ever heard in my life. Wait she even needs a man's consent to buy a car with her own money. I feel like I get stupider every second I spend on nairaland because here's like the den for propagating the most stupid things ever spouted in the history of mankind and maybe if one is not careful this foolishness might be contagious. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by edetcnn(m): 8:14am On Apr 29, 2015 |
@op (in case you are not really Bruce Jenner), the truly 'successful women' in Naija and elsewhere are all taken. There are very very few, I repeat, very very very few of 'em available. And truly matured men (not boys or transgenders like you) are hunting hard for those few. I wish you well in the real hustle that made you open this populist but baseles assumption-driven thread sha! But abeg shine your eye well o! Don't let a shiny car that still has over 28 months of remaining payment deceive you |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Nobody: 8:14am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Owliver: Nice point bro. We all know the situation on ground. I better pick an average girl and shape her up to my taste, then when i see her, i see my handiwork. So doing, she will tend to respect me alot which is better than jumping into an over-bloated egoed lady simply cos she has the dough. |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Nobody: 8:15am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Tallesty1:
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Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by major466(m): 8:15am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Being the head of a relationship need to be understood by men. The problem with relationships has not always been the issue of finance persay but the lack of mutual respect and understanding. The ability to lead harmonously in relationships is very critical. Leading in this case means providing good leadership. Ladies are followers naturaly. They tend to follow the lead of a man they feel is leading them for their own good. This is in sharp contrast to men who control the relationship rather than provide leadership. The word 'Control' in relationship is a catalyst for conflict. Women will rebel no matter their financial status when they feel their lives are being controled by their men. It gets even worse when the control exerted on them is done through selfish reasons. This will set up a natural response of rebellion and level headedness in them. What men see as arrogance and lack of submition is actualy ladies's natural defence mechanism. They are trying to protect themselves from the men who are heading (controling) their lives. This has always been the problem. When guys understand the concept and the difference between Leadership and Control then relationships will have a smooth ride. Control of an individual in relationships must be avoided at all cost because it breeds conflict. Total control of an individual in itself is bad enough talkless of relationships. The sooner guys undertand that being the head of a relatonship is about providing good leadership to the benefit of their ladies, the better the relationship irrespective of their background. A lady naturaly becomes submissive if the man in her life is providing good leadership to her benefit irrespective of her financial status. 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by InZA: 8:16am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Thankz: Wow!!!...I really appreciate this. Thanks a lot. |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by InZA: 8:17am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Whobedatte: Thanks man |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by InZA: 8:20am On Apr 29, 2015 |
edetcnn: You nailed it man. |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by popiong(m): 8:22am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Rapmoney: Don't you get tallesty1's point One of his points is most women aren't able to draw a line between the use of qualities needed to succeed in business and qualities needed for a successful marriage Rapmoney: Don't you get tallesty1's point One of his points is most women aren't able to draw a line between the use of qualities needed to succeed in business and qualities needed for a successful marriage |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by loswhite(m): 8:29am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Rapmoney:how did u come up with this fact? Hope is not from your Facebook friends ooooooo |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by redhook(m): 8:33am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Rapmoney:.....Bros! Next time don't use YOUR point of view or those around "YOU" that you claim to have "HEARD" from to form a general opinion on a thread! Generalisation is either due to a lack of exposure or experience! No vex, Shalom! 1 Like |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by ceejayluv(m): 8:34am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Rapmoney:Dude, it's not a Nigerian thing. In fact, there are more dudes nowadays looking for high-earning ladies to marry to escape or alleviate hardship. That aside, I've heard of a case of a British lady that won a couple of millions of pounds worth of lottery Money. She didn't disclose it to her fiance for weeks, unsure if that'll change the relationship. |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by DollyParton1(f): 8:37am On Apr 29, 2015 |
misreal:Boy next time you quote me, make sure you use your brain. Don't mention me, and post trash like this. |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Tallesty1(m): 8:39am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Vickybee:Ok VickyBee. I no wan fight you this morning. How are you |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Owliver(m): 8:42am On Apr 29, 2015 |
silvercute:Well said man. The OP just wrote a lot of garbage right there. And he knew the ladies will surely dance around him like masquerades dancing around a voodoo shrine. |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Rapmoney(m): 8:43am On Apr 29, 2015 |
redhook:I don't see anything wrong in airing my opinion on a societal issue such as this. You see, most people are just trying to avoid the truth! We still have a long way to go 1 Like |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Nobody: 8:44am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Sacluxpaint:Exactly like me mum too. Infact, my mum use to call girls of this generation "indomie girls", that most of them cannot even pound yam. I have heard from a woman before who mentioned that she cannot pound yam for her husband that If he does not want to eat pondo yam, then he would have to find someone who will pound the yam for him. I really envy my mum, despite being very successful still maintains her humility, cooks very delicious meals and has been an epitome of a virtuous woman. 1 Like |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by remsonik(f): 8:47am On Apr 29, 2015 |
All of them screaming I am the man are the ones who have got mumu button and act like sissies around their boss's daughter . Yeye 1 Like |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Nobody: 8:49am On Apr 29, 2015 |
i wont date/marry any woman without ambition;seriously am addicted to career/successful women,a hardworking babe,i dont need her money.....but that academic degree she earned must be useful. 1 Like |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Tallesty1(m): 8:50am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Vickybee:Share your view where? In books or personal experience? Those people write/display what will earn them money and fame. Their life could be totally different from what they preach. Set your own path dearie else you will never be No1. 3 Likes |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by redhook(m): 8:53am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Rapmoney:.....if our journey is still so far? What advise will you give to ARAB men in the middle east and their PROGRESSIVE attitudes to women? So all the men that massively voted for a female candidate in last weekends governorship election in taraba came from yankee? They were not naija guys who wanted to give a sister a chance to improve their lot? |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Rapmoney(m): 8:54am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Mrdrix:I knew you would come up with this! This is another fallacy!!! That only women who are successful mothers and wife are truly successful! You cannot outrule the financial aspect...a woman that cannot take care of her children if the man is not capable to do that due to circumstances cannot be regarded as a successful mother or wife. In essence, money matters a lot! |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Tallesty1(m): 8:56am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Bluetooth2:I doubt if he has a "faithful" girlfriend. |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Rapmoney(m): 8:57am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Blitz888:I said men in other climes are different. Go check out and you will discover what am saying. |
Re: **Nigerian Men Who Are Scared Of Successful Women Possess Low Mentality** by Nobody: 9:01am On Apr 29, 2015 |
Rapmoney: What is the truth? That a man should marry a woman who is successful financialĺy because he wants to prove he has high self esteem, even when the woman does not have other good qualities like humility, respect etc. Are you sure you understand what you're saying? 1 Like |
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