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| She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by focusM: 11:23pm On May 02, 2015 |
Lisa(a nairalander who doesn't want to expose her identity emailed me to help her start this thread) is 28 going to 29 and phillip is 27. They were supposed to be just friend but somehow,things went otherwise. Now he says he wants to spend the rest of his life with her and has been asking her to marry him but she keeps refusing because he is 1yr and 6months younger than her. He sees nothing wrong in it but she feels its an abomination and that the younger guy deserves to enjoy a much younger girl. Imagine her turning 40,50 and 60 years old before her husband. Its a very disgusting thing for her. The guy has all it takes to be a good husband except for the age. She has been crying for many days now that life has not been fair to her. Why would the one she loves be younger? She believes she should wait for a guy older to avoid all the shame marrying a younger guy brings. What's you opinion on this. Pls help Lisa and a thousand others out there with the same issue. |
| Re: She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by jamex93(m): 11:25pm On May 02, 2015 |
she sick gon ooo na age she want chop?? why r most Nigerian gals like this now u dey hurt d innocent guy |
| Re: She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by Nobody: 11:29pm On May 02, 2015 |
It's her choice let her make it...we are not gonna be in her Marriage. But As for me I will marry my agemate |
| Re: She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by focusM: 11:31pm On May 02, 2015 |
jamex93: She wants to marry the guy but fears that she will face challenges in future because of the age. |
| Re: She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by jamex93(m): 11:35pm On May 02, 2015 |
focusM: future challenges rising from age diff can u name dem for me |
| Re: She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by Hila12(m): 11:58pm On May 02, 2015 |
Well if she feels this way about accepting a proposal, the age thing must really bother her that much. Love overlooks a lot only if we give it the chance. If she's not gonna give the relationship a chance, I'm sorry there's nothing he can do about it. Shiiit happens! 1 Like |
| Re: She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by Nobody: 12:16am On May 03, 2015 |
Foolishness of the highest order; ibeg this shit is too repulsive for me to comment on!!! Stay their dey find obasanjo father to come marry u; nonsense... Mtchewww!!b  |
| Re: She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by eph12(m): 12:48am On May 03, 2015 |
she can take a pen and list out all the pros and cons of being with the guy. If she knows the pros outweigh the cons then she can go ahead if not ... 1 Like |
| Re: She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by folamog(m): 1:04am On May 03, 2015 |
Make una leave Lisa oh! 5yrs from now she go kneel down for ifa shrine they find life partner. 1 Like |
| Re: She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by focusM: 1:36am On May 03, 2015 |
folamog: Lol |
| Re: She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by chigoizie7(m): 1:48am On May 03, 2015 |
I am soo sorry to say dis, but we africans, there are soo many ways that we refused to get mature to, She is absolutely right, yes, she love him soo much,and what she has been exhibiting is real and pure love for the guy,(why opt to be happy today and then sad almost for the rest of your life?) One thing women love. Soo much in this life is POWER, they always want u to know that they are superior to u especially to their female folks(some of them mistakenly extends such superiority to the male folks aswell(we all know that power intoxicates)) many of us might say that what they soo much love is money, NO, money is just the lather in which they climb to fame and extensively POWER. Now a woman can obey and respect u in the house even when she is the bread winner, that is because she knew that u are older than she is.(respect is what we learned from when we were as little as 2yrz old,therefore,such culture will be soo hard to leave us). Can u imagine how most of our older female folks react to us? They also want to feel superior(it is not even an exception to relationships or marriages) one day,smhow,she might be tempted to remind him who is older(maybe during arguments or jokes) and @ such time it might hurt our ego as men, which might put us in the direction of beginning to regret why we made such mistake all in the name of love.(Marriage is for better for worse and most times we fell out of love with our various partners just as we do in normal courtships,but because we are married and it is for better for worse,it now becomes an obligation to both parties to still fight hard and push hard to make things work,to make things go back to how it was in the beginning,and that is called marriage). Our dear sister is sooo scared that she might one day get to remind him who is older(which must eventually happen).any marriage without arguments and quarrels is not a healthy marriage, we disagree to agree in certain things or aspects. Our dear sister is soo scared that she might one day hurt the man that loved her soo much all because she is older. She is soo scared that she doesn't want to see him hurt because she loves him so dearly. My epistle is getting too long, will stop here. btw,that's my 2cents,our perception of live might differ, be free to criticize me, gud am. 1 Like |
| Re: She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by Mhizkel(f): 1:58am On May 03, 2015 |
The poster above me just said my mind! |
| Re: She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by Nobody: 2:02am On May 03, 2015 |
focusM: WTF. she already said no so what the fvck are we being consulted for?
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| Re: She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by pretydiva(f): 5:49am On May 03, 2015 |
If she truly luvs him,n she's sure he's d right man 4 her,den she should go ahead n get married. After all age is Jst a no. 1 Like |
| Re: She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by Cutehector(m): 6:45am On May 03, 2015 |
Girls be sayin age is just a number buh they gona be d same ppo dah wouldn't wana marry someone who z yunger dan dem when they r in d same shoes... By analysis,, its not proper to marry a woman who is yur age mate or older dan u.. Likewise for marryn a guy who is ur agemate or below. Age is not just a number... 2 Likes |
| Re: She Said No To His Marriage Proposal Because He Is Two Years Younger. by focusM: 12:40pm On May 03, 2015 |
Cutehector: Abi o,u just spoke my mind |
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