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10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by Nobody: 9:24am On May 14, 2015 |
Spoil means rotten! No naija parent wants to hear that his/her child is spoiled but self denial can NEVER take away reality. They say you can't spoil a baby with endless amounts of holding, rocking, and cooing, but once that child passes the toddler years, overindulgence can make that child spoilt . It's easy to pick out the spoiled kid on the playground . Here's a checklist of 10 signs that indicate that you may have a rotten child on your hands. 1. she throws tantrums often. The surest sign of a spoiled child is one who frequently throws temper tantrums, both in public and at home. Your refusal to buy her sweets or biscuits makes the child bitter tantrums such that every one will be irritated. 2. She Isn't Ever Satisfied. Spoiled children often can't express satisfaction with what they have. If they see someone else with something, they will want that instead. Buy expensive toys for them, the moment that child sees another child playing with ordinary 100 naira doll, the child will want to grab that one by force! 3. He Isn't Helpful. No child likes to clean up, but once the toddler years have passed, he should be willing to help with smaller tasks, such as cleaning up his toys and putting his shoes away, running little errands for his mom. But if such child refuses to help even when asked, my dear that child is as rotten as a rotten egg. 4. He Tries to Control Adults. Spoiled children often don't delineate between their peers and adults, expecting both to listen to them at all times. 5. He Frequently Embarrasses You in Public. A slipup here and there is normal, but when a child purposely embarrasses his parent in public for the sake of attention, the situation moves beyond an isolated event. 6. She Won't Share. Sharing is a difficult concept for lil ones to master, but once a child reaches the age of 4, she should be more willing to share toys, snacks, etc with friends and siblings but will beg others and collect from them. 7. You Have to Beg Him. A parent or caretaker is an authority figure and should be obeyed when a request is made. You should not need to beg your child to have a task completed. 8. He doesn't greet his parents or elders. No respect, the child will never greet his teachers, parents. No iota of respect or regard whatsoever. You don't need a prophet to tell you that such child is spoiled. 9. She Won't Play Alone By the age of 4, a child should be willing (and able) to play on her own for a stretch of time. Needing a parent or playmate to play with demonstrates her need for attention. 10. You Have to Bribe Him. When I was a child, before my mother put meat in my soup, just know that I have worked and worked until she's satisfied! But a spoiled child will want a candy or money before he does any chore in the house. Parents should not have to bribe their lil ones with money, toys, treats, or the like in order to get them to do routine tasks. 71 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by donbenedict(m): 9:26am On May 14, 2015 |
They love indomie 81 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by Cherlene(f): 10:06am On May 14, 2015 |
lofty900: Goodmorning In ONE WORD a SPOILED child needs -- DISCIPLINING. Cherlene 25 Likes |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by Nobody: 10:21am On May 14, 2015 |
Cherlene:gud a.m. I agree 14 Likes |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by adebayour26: 10:33am On May 14, 2015 |
[size=30pt]CORRECT[/size] 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by reaky(m): 5:58am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Just buy koboko 23 Likes |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by koxi: 5:58am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Are u sure about that, op? |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by MrSmith007: 5:59am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Bribing your kids..., is your personal effort to spoil dem 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by laurel03(m): 5:59am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Ds is Africa, arrange nice thick koboko for the child...#Egba loko were..... 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by PLANETMARS(m): 5:59am On Nov 28, 2015 |
if I catch d mod wey ban me all this days see wetin I go do am.......#spoilt child 42 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by nurex01(m): 6:01am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Ok |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by obeenah40(m): 6:01am On Nov 28, 2015 |
This are normal childish behaviors, No big deal, 3 Likes |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by Nobody: 6:02am On Nov 28, 2015 |
I thought spoilt kids are those that write 'Toto is good for boys and girls" in class? 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by Nobody: 6:02am On Nov 28, 2015 |
That is why i have made up my mind not to spare the rod when i get married and start having kids. My parents didnt train spoilt kids and am not ready to deviate from that path. 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by Tombilly(m): 6:02am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Don't spare the ROD and spoil the child......... in this case koboko (the one made with Camel skin) takes over 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by Rapmoney(m): 6:02am On Nov 28, 2015 |
The way some so-called parents bring up their children can even help a child to become spoilt! Too much exposure to people outside can also spoil a child. When you see some parents going to their children's schools to fight teachers who discipline their children, you would know that our society is turning into something else!!! Mama Udo, take note! Your cup go soon full! Orue!!! 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by tpiadotcom: 6:03am On Nov 28, 2015 |
it's childish behavior which most kids grow out of, if an adult exhibits the same, then that is cause for concern. 1 Like |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by ChemicalMallam(m): 6:03am On Nov 28, 2015 |
good morning Nigeria meanwhile, a child behaving like this is in dear need of MANUAL RESET . I tell you, NO ONE is above manual reset , it works like magic 10 Likes |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by Nobody: 6:04am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Problem is most parents think they are doing the child a favour by spoiling him/her. The "my children ll not suffer the way i did" mentality. They end up adults who become liability to society 8 Likes |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by madjune(m): 6:04am On Nov 28, 2015 |
What do you call a child that plays on the computer all day? |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by Sasuwa(f): 6:04am On Nov 28, 2015 |
LET ME HAVE KIDS FIRST |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by kekakuz(m): 6:05am On Nov 28, 2015 |
[size=20pt] he calls chichi his wife[/size] 5 Likes |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by veraponpo(m): 6:05am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Most of them are true |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by Phoenix001(m): 6:05am On Nov 28, 2015 |
I hear |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by baruzeez(m): 6:06am On Nov 28, 2015 |
End time pikin 5 Likes |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by samx4real(m): 6:07am On Nov 28, 2015 |
If your child/ward possesses most of these characters, just know that he/she is an End Time Child. Follow am up with water cain! Thank me later 6 Likes |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by tpiadotcom: 6:08am On Nov 28, 2015 |
madjune: same thing you call the child that reads all day. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by ignis: 6:08am On Nov 28, 2015 |
These characteristics are peculiar and common to ajebutters, not pakos like us. |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by kilode100(f): 6:08am On Nov 28, 2015 |
Kilode100 is proudly a spoilt child There's no fun in being good 28 Likes |
Re: 10 Signs That Your Child Is Spoiled by tpiadotcom: 6:08am On Nov 28, 2015 |
samx4real: 2 Likes |
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