missKiffy:
You are just one of the few who cherish it, some guys don't and there is no way a girl would know if the guy she is about to approach would cherish it, so she would not make an attempt, than make an attempt and be seen as trash.

Gbaghan:
I've had girls walked up to confess how they were madly in love with me... The last one happened about two months ago when i was still in school, never new this girl was taking note of everything happening around me! So one morning i was sitting on my own in an empty lecture hall when she walked up to invite me for a church programe which i turned down. The next day, she came back to tell me how i missed the programe and she collected my number for unknown reason! What really got me suspicious was when another guy she had been with a while ago came around seeking her attention, but she reacted angrily while asking the guy for a break! A day latter, she put a call through to my phone asking if i was living alone which i told her yes, and she said she was coming to my place, so i asked what she was coming to do? I'm sure, she never expected me to ask with the kind of silence and disappointment i perceived through her voice, then she said she was coming to charge her phone! How surprise i was cos...

KiidaACE:
hmm,so i guess you are feeling like oshiomhole nah?

ronald4lif:
Girls ask guys out everyday. It's no biggie. But before a girl does so she must have been friends with the guy first. We're no longer in the medieval ages, this is 21st century. But that doesn't mean one should expect a girl to just walk up to them and ask them out when their path has never crossed. Most guys will just take a girl for granted if she ask them out. So they prefer to give subtle signs, and a guy who's interested will pick it up from there. That's the conventional practice.

I just dey pity you sha. Dey there dey wait make that babe come woo you until she drop you wedding IV.

missKiffy:
You are just one of the few who cherish it, some guys don't and there is no way a girl would know if the guy she is about to approach would cherish it, so she would not make an attempt, than make an attempt and be seen as trash.

SexyNairalander:
i just wish she can do that. . .sometime last month a girl told me to my face that she likes me, i was really happy and till date am very close to her, i treat her like a queen, listen to her problems but i can't date her reasons best known to me sha

Gbaghan:
for somebody to hang-on to for financial cover-up to see her through the rest of her time in school. and she actually thought i could fit in perfectly cos my clothes were always properly ironed plus my way of life. thanks to my laundry man and my atm-card that always made me look good and handsome! but how disappointed she was cos i ain't no samson, adam... etc

ronald4lif:
Girls ask guys out everyday. It's no biggie. But before a girl does so she must have been friends with the guy first. We're no longer in the medieval ages, this is 21st century. But that doesn't mean one should expect a girl to just walk up to them and ask them out when their path has never crossed. Most guys will just take a girl for granted if she ask them out. So they prefer to give subtle signs, and a guy who's interested will pick it up from there. That's the conventional practice.

I just dey pity you sha. Dey there dey wait make that babe come woo you until she drop you wedding IV.

henribj:


well said man, I couldn't have said it better.
some dulling guys out there are the ones causing problems for other guys.
a girl likes you, gives you and shows you all the signs, and yet you are still waiting for her to open her mouth and say "pls be my boyfriend". some guys sef ehn, maybe next life them suppose born them as females make them see as e dey be.

DonX001:


Guy, you're just one liverless puppy.
Stay there and be exchanging glances with her and wishing she'll come and ask you out........i dont know if you're a guy or a girl in a guy's body.

If you,even as a guy cannot walk up to a girl to initiate some small talk, how would you have been able to do it if God had made you a girl?? And you're now blaming girls for not coming out to talk to you, something you can't even do yourself.

Better grow some balls and go talk to the babe, if not, Vaseline will continue to be your partner.
Before you know it, some sharper guy will just come and kolobi the babe, while you'll still be sitting down there exchanging glances.

SexyNairalander:

lols. . .smart babe, but bro are you sure she aint looking for something more than that e.g r/ship, bst of friends. Probably she picked your swag. . .just saying

Gbaghan:
though she is beautiful and curvy no doubt, but her motives were dead on arrival cos i could perceive her intentions... ain't carried away by act of pretence no matter who's involved!

SexyNairalander:

ha bros no be like so na, all am saying is what's wrong in striking a convo with the guy or just talking to him self. I believe the guy should be smart enough to ask her to be his gf and not vice versa

SexyNairalander:
i just wish she can do that. . .sometime last month a girl told me to my face that she likes me, i was really happy and till date am very close to her, i treat her like a queen, listen to her problems [/b]but i can't date her[b] reasons best known to me sha

Missonas:


So u friendzoned her

henribj:


Alright, that being the case, a woman who has a crush on you and is not able to walk up to you and say hi is not a matured woman, remember that age has nothing to do with maturity. A matured woman knows there are so many lines to use on a man depending on where you both are at that point in time to make him start a conversation with her.
For instance, the woman meets the guy in a party or club, and she finds the man attractive, she could walk up to him and say "Hi, could you buy me/get me a bottle of drink?. If it's in the library she can say "Hi, I am interested in so so book, I wonder if you have ever read it or come across it, I wonder where I can get it from". etc, the lines are plenty and it will always work on guys cos most guys are always wanting to talk with a woman as long as she is cute and have assets. But unfortunately this won't work for most guys if they try to apply it cos most gurls are not looking to talk to men except they have already been crushing on you before you approached them.
The long and short of this is that any woman who has a crush on a man and can't even give him the basic green light or walk up to him to say Hi is on her own.

SexyNairalander:

nice write up bro, am happy you finally understood where am driving at. . .i believe girls outside africa are already bold enough to meet a guy they like and tell them though not all, but our own naija girls sees it as an abomination

henribj:


to some extent I would say do not blame the naija gurls, rather blame it on the culture in naija which inhibits females from doing such, but to a greater extent I would say blame the naija gurls cos naija culture no longer has a place in the life of naija women. what I am trying to say is this, if a naija gurl can borrow all the fashion ideas of the advanced countries and other such stuffs from them, then why can't they also borrow the nature of the gurls in advanced countries by walking up to a guy you like and introducing yourself?
but anyways, thats their own business, na them life.

SexyNairalander:

abi, i like you already. . .you always have something cool to say, as for our naija girls their mata tire gan. . .most times they play very hard to get until the guy is tired and eventually gives up. . .anyways it should be a topic for another trend.