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Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by dollarlander: 2:22pm On May 17, 2015 |
freshvine: Waho, I used to think this only happens in Yoruba land. An ijesha will not marry an ijebu or Abeokuta. There is this hatred across Yoruba people about where they marry from. Its so endemic. For the church things, the best way that can stop is the government to regulate churches. The rate at which individuals spread church like mat is serious. No pastor wants to release his member, especially the female but a male is free to bring a girl from anywhere to the church, though to an extent. Everything is about number and money. But OP needs to do more research, its not all church that does this e.g. RCCG. But in CEC, it is a taboo for you to go outside the church to marry, even at the top level of the church they are almost close to incest. |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Paulv(m): 2:25pm On May 17, 2015 |
i want to read comment.YEAH! |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by cosby07: 2:26pm On May 17, 2015 |
My Bro na true talk ooooo....i experience that with a christ embassy lady, after formal introduction, for me to meet her pastor or cell leader or whatever they call it, i began to hear stories, she started with '' she cant leave her church for another'' dats how everything ends. Glory be to God i now ave peace like a river. |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by omooba969(m): 2:28pm On May 17, 2015 |
Edusouls: Which way forward bro. 1 Like |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Ifebazz(m): 2:30pm On May 17, 2015 |
kelvyn7:Please i'd like you to show me a Quoran believing church, i'd love to worship there. If not, you guys should stop deceiving yourselves. Churches everywhere, still the prison never gets empty. |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Dollyak(f): 2:30pm On May 17, 2015 |
omooba969:I meant WHY and not how. I already know how he did, but why he went there was the question. In the context, the reasoning behind such act is lost on me. Just because 'How did you' is the norm, doesn't make 'why' the wrong English |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by fabulousdora(f): 2:34pm On May 17, 2015 |
soe:my take a chill pill...u just dey para for nothing |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by darepoju(m): 2:36pm On May 17, 2015 |
olu77:like seriously? different religions?? |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Nobody: 2:36pm On May 17, 2015 |
This thread reeks of anger,ignorance and hatred. These are the same people who are supposed to be christ like in all their dealings. imagine a so called christian calling women of a certain age 'old cargoes'.Why on earth wouldn't christianity be divided? Really, what do your so called pastors teach you? What do you learn in your church? is it how to come to NL and speak ill of certain denominations so that atheists, pagans and people from other religions will join forces with you to bash them left and right simply because they have preferences? Op, have you asked any member of the denomination you've accused of the reason(s) behind their 'stand'? It's not about reduction in church membership or selfishness on the part of the pastors like some people have said. Infact, the people you accuse do not crave for membership growth or marriage They have other priorities in life. If you understand what marriage entails especially for true christians and not all these 'dust bible,go to church,clap hand and life continues kind of christians' , you wouldn't have created this thread in the first place. 2 Likes |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Dollyak(f): 2:38pm On May 17, 2015 |
tranxo:Tell me why your comment hold any value beyond a grain of pile it already is? Welcome to my ignore-irrelevant list. |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by uzolexis(f): 2:38pm On May 17, 2015 |
kelvyn7:@the bolded, pls wc one is bible believing church again is there any church that doesnt believe in the bible |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by cirmuell(m): 2:45pm On May 17, 2015 |
freshvine:Is this really true, the bolded is it true? |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by mekadinho(f): 2:48pm On May 17, 2015 |
soe:ISLA.MQ IS THE WORST RELIGION, @LEAST I HVNT HEARD DAT A CATHOLIC KILLED A PENTECOSTAL, OR A PENTECOSTAL KILLED AN ANGELICAN... BUT SUNNI AND SHIA, DEY SLAUGHTER THEMSELVES EVERYDAY, ESP IN MIDDLE EAST... RUBBISH. |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Thereishel: 2:52pm On May 17, 2015 |
I wonder whether the writer of this article is born again at all. Can two walk together except they agree? You shall not be unequal yoke with unbelievers, what does the temple of God have to do with the temple of beliar? These are the relevant scriptures for not going outside to marry because many of them are unbelievers. How do you want a saint to marry a drunkard, how can a believers marry an adulterer, and how can a born again marry a womanizer? Scripturally, they are not compatible and God does not want any marriage with Jezebel, Delilah or philistines. |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by olu77(m): 2:54pm On May 17, 2015 |
darepoju: I am sorry bro. Actually the op is right to a large extent Christians leaders have divided the body of Christ to suit their selfish desires and I don't want to cause more havoc so I will edit that in my post. |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by omojeesu(m): 2:57pm On May 17, 2015 |
YOU CAN MARRY ANYONE YOU LIKE AND WANTS TO MARRY YOU. GOD TOLD JEWS TO MARRY JEWS THE BIBLE SAYS CHRISTIANS SHOULD MARRY CHRISTIANS. THE QUESTION IS WHO IS A CHRISTIAN? NOT ALL CHURCHES ARE CHRISTIAN CHURCHES ALL WHO GO TO CHURCH ARE NOT CHRISTIANS ALL TRUE CHRISTIANS LOVE TO GO AND GO TO CHURCH TRUE CHRISTIANS ARE BORN AGAIN AND BY THAT BECOME GOD'S CHILDREN BUT ARE NOT PERFECT NOR SHOULD CLAIM PERFECTION. IT IS EXPECTED THAT THEY SHOULD MARY OTHER CHILDREN OF GOD, IRRESPECTIVE OF DENOMINATION. MAY GOD GIVE US UNDERSTANDING! 1 Like |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by mbulela: 3:00pm On May 17, 2015 |
Syphax:Myopic comment. It is like saying water is the agent of doom because folks are getting killed in floods. Afterall, Luther was used by God to liberate the church from the clutches of Vatican. |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Nobody: 3:05pm On May 17, 2015 |
soe: Which way? To terrorism? Or to ISIS? Despite the many challenges facing the Body of Christ, it's a million times preferable to Islam. Heard some of your folks bombed places and people to pieces a few days ago. Islam? NO WAY! !!!! The freedom in Christianity alone! |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by goldtooth: 3:15pm On May 17, 2015 |
olu77: i am catholic and i must say the priest was not fair to you. i have attended a wedding of a catholic lady to a non catholic man and it held in a catholic church. The man's pastor was there. I must say that in your case the priest did the wrong thing. So i want you to know that it is not so all over catholic churches. i am a strong critic of different christian denominations acting superior to each other cos i know in heaven there will not be a separate place for catholic, winners, or christ embassy saints. All saints would be together without distinction of tribe or denomination. |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Nobody: 3:17pm On May 17, 2015 |
@ Op I can feel your pain, I think all you need is a little patient to find out the about those you mentioned in your post and what bible said. Proverbs 14:15 said "The naive person believes every word, But the shrewd one ponders each step." i) 2 Corinthians 6:14 said Do not become unevenly yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship do righteousness and lawlessness have? Or what sharing does light have with darkness? It is no news that those who call theirselfs christians today must live according to God's moral standards. Then, you need to ask yourself this question. How many Churches today teaches their follower God's moral standards ?, if you can answer that question then you should know that it would not be right for someone who have found the truth and willing to do God's will to marry an unbeliever. 1 Like |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by scarred9jan(m): 3:19pm On May 17, 2015 |
soe: try me then |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by olu77(m): 3:19pm On May 17, 2015 |
goldtooth: 1 Like |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Nobody: 3:23pm On May 17, 2015 |
VOICEOFTHEMASES:Jacob made his servant swear to give Isaac a wife from his people. Rebecca was found from his people. Today, it is not bad to marry in the fold. |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by olu77(m): 3:25pm On May 17, 2015 |
goldtooth: Thank you bro. You are right because it is like Pareto principle of 20-80 also applies here: only 20% of christian leaders that cut accross every church are giving the 80% of Christians bad name. 1 Like |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Nobody: 3:26pm On May 17, 2015 |
sochima1989:That your God is a failure? A weak God killed by 3 nails? Indeed, we know better. Keep worshipping the dead Jew. |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by goldtooth: 3:30pm On May 17, 2015 |
soe: Is islam itself not divided? Dont we have shia and sunni muslims with different doctrines killing themselves in the middle east? 1 Like |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by tbaby534(f): 3:31pm On May 17, 2015 |
Syphax: Did u read the topic at all? Learn to love and stop discriminating 1 Like |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by neonet(m): 3:32pm On May 17, 2015 |
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Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by gagewonda(m): 3:32pm On May 17, 2015 |
omooba969:yea sadder dan I even expressed here sef |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by Hiploko(m): 3:33pm On May 17, 2015 |
The worst is whern a white garment guy wants to marry a girl from another church. It will seem like its a muslim or native doctor that's wants to marry her. |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by davien(m): 3:34pm On May 17, 2015 |
koyyes:Funny enough I'm sure you also would be picky....as we've seen you have a distinction for atheists and pagans....so would you marry anyone of them? 1 Like |
Re: This Madness On Marriage Has Got To Stop In The Church. by djdoxxx(m): 3:35pm On May 17, 2015 |
no god is d way...live ur lifes according to the laws of ur land,love people,dont hate,do good,have good moral ethics,think and reflect on d consequences of actions b4 doing any...all these and so many good things u can do without being religious...to believe there is a god doesnt mean u r righteous but it is the biggest lie one would lie to oneself! dont u think if he exists,he would av never allowed these segregations in d 1st place? 1 Like |
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