Houseofglam7:
Na so wives dey scarce

MUMINATED:
Nothing wrong but you are not following the yoruba proverb dat says (a ki je meji ni aba alade,you don't eat twice in alade's village)shey na only their family waka come try other places na

indiraserv:
Well technically there isn't anything bad in it but superstitiously it is believed something bad will happen to either of the couple ........and sometimes because of the believe in the superstition it comes to pass,hence his parent's fears

indiraserv:
Well technically there isn't anything bad in it but superstitiously it is believed something bad will happen to either of the couple ........and sometimes because of the believe in the superstition it comes to pass,hence his parent's fears

agarawu23:
anywhere your love is, we should go for it if you are ready to face the challenges. no big deal marrying in same family with your brother if not for "Africa mentality"


there is nothing like superstition that will come to past bro , its just our believe in Africa.

give it a trial if your family isn't against it and you will see the out come.

no bad omen guiding such situation

epelumi42:
Well, it depends...

Coolcash1:


You seems to have read my mind.

Coolcash1:


This was the same point his parent were making but I beg to differ. History has shown that most of these things are myth and there is no empirical evidence to back them up.

agarawu23:
anywhere your love is, we should go for it if you are ready to face the challenges. no big deal marrying in same family with your brother if not for "Africa mentality"


there is nothing like superstition that will come to past bro , its just our believe in Africa.

give it a trial if your family isn't against it and you will see the out come.

no bad omen guiding such situation

chigoizie7:



Yes, it is our african believe, we love it, we abound by it, it is wat makes us africans, the fact that we are africans makes us unique in our own way. We must not be follow follow people.


If u still think it is a stupid superstitious belief, why don't u consider marrying your brother or your cousin, I bet other part of the world which we believed are more advanced than us does that.

Culture is the peoples way of life, that is what differentiates us from other parts of the world.

PROUDLY AFRICAN.


As for the op, if ur parents are against it, please heed to their advice,no be only that family waka come jare.

chigoizie7:



Yes, it is our african believe, we love it, we abound by it, it is wat makes us africans, the fact that we are africans makes us unique in our own way. We must not be follow follow people.


If u still think it is a stupid superstitious belief, why don't u consider marrying your brother or your cousin, I bet other part of the world which we believed are more advanced than us does that.

Culture is the peoples way of life, that is what differentiates us from other parts of the world.

PROUDLY AFRICAN.


As for the op, if ur parents are against it, please heed to their advice,no be only that family waka come jare.

ireneony:
there is something wrong with no matter how people try to sugarcoat it, it dont jst feel right..

they are suppose to be in-laws not fucck mate.

my sister would never try this rubbish

Coolcash1:


@Chigozie, no body is marrying her cousin or niece here. Is a case of affection between two in-laws.

UnknownT:
I rather believe the guys that went 'superstitious ' than this reason

agarawu23:
you have your point bro.

but do you think we Africans aren't following other peoples culture?

the situation on ground is about choice making, cos I see know reason why I can't marry from same family with my bro.

if the both family accept, the case is solved not any Africa mentality or culture.

the cloths we are putting on today is our culture right ?

chigoizie7:



If u read well, the guys parents are totally against it. So?

agarawu23:
I also stated in my first comment that if the parents aren't against it, it isn't a bad idea.

ireneony:
there is something wrong with no matter how people try to sugarcoat it, it dont jst feel right..

they are suppose to be in-laws not fucck mate.

my sister would never try this rubbish