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Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by XavierBlue(m): 3:32pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Your write up left me with a namby pamby demeanour. Very emotional. Like ishilove said, " there is some one for everyone" it true. Just go on with your hustle, one day, you shall come across yours. XavierBlue 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by pinkguy(m): 3:35pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Life is like rat races, after running its for years u look back and ask urself why running ,right in front of my house right now some kids got birthday going on , this kids respond and help the DJ to sing some local song I can't believe I don't know any of this song , I was I'm I part of this society 5 Likes |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by absoluteSuccess: 3:37pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
I love my life a great deal. I am my best friend and though I dont have all the money. Friends likes me because I don't doubt if they like me, I'm okay with me being the one liking others. I love people with passion, with the thought that I can make a difference. If I fail, I told myself that I tried my best till I failed. Where I've failed, I see myself as part of my friends' success. I can point to friends who has succeeded or have their dream come true, mine can. I never go after success to be succesful, I go after success to touch life and to be free. Op, a mans life does not consist in what he has, detach yourself from your achievements if you want to be happy and free. 5 Likes |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Desanta(m): 3:42pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Dyt:Why not hook up with the op? And see what happens. 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Realtol(m): 3:42pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
I love this, even with all its grammatical errors it qualifies for a solemn poem... But what a shame! I can't help you, you just have to do it yourself. You are on the right path brother, you just took a bold step by pouring your weary heart to total strangers like me and other commenters and this will definitely help. But again, I can't help you only YOU can. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Nobody: 3:43pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
I suspect this moniker, he sounds so much like my best friend. |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by anonymousey: 3:43pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Hmm. I know what you're talking about. I feel you. I've been there. I chose success in one area above success in the matters of the heart. I've had to rethink my strategy. I am trying to find a way to meet people and BE HUMAN. I've largely forgotten how to. My poems have been my only companion day and night. www.thetravelerpoems. I believe that someday soon I will find that someone that makes it all worth it. I believe you can too. One way, I think, is to find a place where the kind of girl you'd like to be with gather and go often. Meet people in a relatively neutral environment and develop relationships and friendships. Eventually you'll probably find that one you don't want to live without. I wish you success on this journey just as I wish myself the same. Remember to smile often and let yourself go. Let yourself live and be happy. There's no point living if you can't enjoy life and that has little to do with what you have as much as how you choose you enjoy what you do have. It could have been worse but you are here anyway but not for long. You'll be happy again. Cheers! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by UjSizzle(f): 3:44pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Loneliness is a biitch. Get out more. Meet people, talk to them, chat up strangers if you must. But do not go with the mindset that you're searching for something, because you start thinking this is a rat race and all your filters are up. I've learned you find the things you want the most when you let your guards down and stop searching actively. A desperate person can miss the most subtle details. But someone who's living life sees everything. In the meantime, writing like this helps, music too. And go take a picture-- you'll learn to appreciate life more. Best wishes 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by OwerriChairman(f): 3:46pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Many people do not realise that the Op is a WOMAN. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by GodMode: 3:47pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
UjSizzle: No one is lonely... there's an inner voice to talk to always... a person has to be internally happy to cure loneliness or just marry and have kids. 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by gentlezypher: 3:49pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
theplushist:Not as you think, there alot of factors considered |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by UjSizzle(f): 3:51pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
GodMode:No one is 'alone', but people do get lonely when there's no one to share life with. Even with all the inner joy in the world, life can still feel empty to the best of us. Marriage is a good way to cure oneself or being in a romantic relationship (as unmarried couples) as is common in this age. But to say loneliness isn't real.... 4 Likes |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Davvymavvy(f): 3:53pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
GodMode: Well, loneliness is a choice so you opined but i must say, it does'nt work that way. What works for me might not work for you and as such, we have different people with varying reasons for depleted happiness, some, for reasons that are beyond their control. And if you think is about socializing? Some have got that, i mean, active social life, they operate at a high frequecy, yet, they feel that void, that emptiness and loneliness for what they think they deserve that is out of their reach. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by 2sex(m): 3:54pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Ravenwolf:That;s summarizes it all... I found one and I aint letting go.... even though |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by 2sex(m): 3:56pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
GodMode:man is an insatiable animal and there comes a time when the inner voice is inaudible... |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by baby124: 3:57pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
I will tell you something that may help you. You know the problem with guys? You people have herd mentality. The most crazy nut job amongst you sets the pace and expectation. Which is one of the strangest things I have noticed about guys and their friends. You people listen to the ones amongst you whose life is in shambles and one who on a normal day, if not for circumstances that brought you together, you would never have been friends. The one who am outsider will look at and think, this guy has mental problems. You know the one that tells you what kind of girl you should marry, how your future wife should relate with you, what and how you should treat women. See, the most successful men in successful relationships have a mind of their own and they treat their women like their own body. They listen to the fake macho talk and they know better. You may be brilliant and successful but you put other's expectations ahead of what works for you. It's time to start thinking about your future and putting the expected aside. How can you let another's opinion of how they will degrade a woman rule your life in finding the one. Make your own rules and have an open mind. Your wife is not who you expect. Of course have standard expectations but know that no one is perfect. You can never have perfection because you are not perfect. There are so many good women around you, think for yourself and your future and go for that one woman who will fill that role. Never let an outsider determine your future because only you will live in the reality. If you are a good person, you will find a good wife. That is how some of you find women, treat her bad. Before you say jack, your best friend has married her. And they have a great marriage. You wonder why the best friend did not keep the code. Code my left yansh. When one who is independent minded sees a good woman, they will betray any and everything because they have found their life partner. Which is more important than any friendship that is only there to poison and put them in eternal single brotherhood. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Nobody: 3:58pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
The rich also cry... Bros I totally understand you. In fact, I have painted this scenario to a particular guy a gazillion times before when he's too busy chasing all the goodies of the world and neglect to nurture love. The heart finds its wealth and riches in other(s). Love is the most important phenomena on earth! I know someone who has millions worth of properties but died recently on his birthday of kidney related issues which he refused to take seriously on time cos he thought his recurrent sickmesses are emotional related. He lost a love cos there wasn't much time to nurture the relationship. Anyways, op open your heart, look beyond perfection. Love and happiness is at zenith when flaws of that special persons are embraced. Teamlooooveeee! 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Desanta(m): 3:59pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
OwerriChairman: Is that so? How can you tell? 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Nobody: 3:59pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Go out and approach more ladies. |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Nobody: 3:59pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Ishilove:Me too . the humanoid form caught my attention.. Sounds digitally entrenched , poetic line of a tech guru....... Don't disconnect yourself totally while u search for success .stay connected .once in a while "hello" can save nine. my 2cent 2 Likes |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Cindino20(m): 4:03pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Oraculus: |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by bueze046(m): 4:04pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
mehn....seriously I really use to think about this at time but I know DAT wen I get there I will find a solution for dat..... But for you brother thing about employing a lady clerk,and before you might gone through three to four you must fell in love with someone and trust me the best one really. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by 2sex(m): 4:07pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
OwerriChairman:DAMN... YOU hit the nail on the head... Over 90% of people here missed it including me,,, |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by sisisioge: 4:09pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Life and needs. Our quest for life needs move up the ladder, then comes back to the very base again. A critism of Abraham Maslow's postulation on motivation a lot of people continually contest. Well, I believe in love, family, friendship...those beat the mansions and exotic cars in my book. Just look for someone and grease the relationship. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by sirhot(m): 4:12pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
softysparky:I've just found mine... Every other person should stay clear... Come to me baby... |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by emzila(m): 4:13pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
OwerriChairman:do u just say she is a woman? |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by LyfeJennings(m): 4:14pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Hmmm!!! Lemme pour my heart here first. Its funny when I read this, knowing this is one problem I'm gonna deal with the coming months. Even as I never get money, I deal with it but with the kind of success I imagine in the nearest future, this issue might be more than heavy for me to deal with and considering my release therapy (Drugs most especially weed & sex) have develop a form of resistance to my body, I wonder how I'm going to make it through. Truf is U should appreciate what U have & make best use of it to get what you want. Despite, all I foresee, I'd rather be SUCCESSFUL & LONELY than be BROKE & have people around. Please brov, be glad for what you have and where U are. The right one would come at the right time 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
theplushist:See the way you talk like its that easy to JUST walk up to someone. You can't just walk up to anyone like that. Girls are not helping matters too. They way most of you treat guys who walk up to you can be discouraging. 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Panshow(m): 4:22pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
This is what I think every day. |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Kentrasso(f): 4:23pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
"Nice machine" how did we get to this point?? I smile at everybody and they all think am fine and have lotss of friends. How wrong they are! |
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