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Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Ishilove: 7:55pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
texanomaly:Thanks Tex 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Desanta(m): 7:56pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
softysparky: I know she would just that I can't imagine talk less of living without her. So she's in my head every minute of the day, whether asleep or awake. I don't know how to let go and I really don't want to let go. As far as I'm concerned not even death can keep us apart. |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by funshint(m): 8:02pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Mehn loneliness is as real as life itself...mehn #ShitJustGotReal 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by lepasharon(f): 8:04pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
This why I need to get over my shyness |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Dparagon(m): 8:10pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
shanira:My dear, you've opined well. 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by taharqa: 8:11pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
K. So am not alone. That is nice to know, almost reassuring even... The problem isn't really with the Success but this impossibly high standards some of us set on the opposite sex we 'choose' 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by kay29000(m): 8:16pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
haul: I understand. |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Nobody: 8:21pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Desanta:It's hard when you don't even want to let go. I won't say I understand because I have never been there, I only wish there's a way I can help. Please try harder, you must have to live for something. May her beautiful soul rest in peace. 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Osyxcel(m): 8:30pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
softysparky: See you how are you? |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Nobody: 8:32pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
haul:You are not alone. 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by funshint(m): 8:34pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
They do say "money can't buy love" but the reality is not everybody has the charisma and playa instinct to get whatever they want. What profits a man to have all the riches in the world and yet have no one to love in his life?! That's the real definition of "Vanity". Some will really need money to get love...whether U̶̲̥̅̊ use your mouth, charisma or money to get love no wahala. Just get it if U̶̲̥̅̊ can; no feeling can be compared with knowing someone cares and loves U̶̲̥̅̊! 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by anonymousey: 8:53pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
texanomaly: I have called the number and sent text messages. Been waiting to hear from y'all on whatsapp or something. |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by texanomaly(f): 8:56pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
anonymousey: I'll tell Dammy to get on it immediately. |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by lastchild: 9:19pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
@op I know what your problem is but I won't say it because I'll sound stupid to you and some people |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by hameina(f): 9:26pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
"There are only two tragedies in life: one is
not getting what one wants, and the other is
getting it." - Oscar Wilde 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Nobody: 9:27pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Ishilove: Oraculus You just found her. "The One". Ishilove- She loves ur poetry! 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Svelteb(f): 9:27pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
funshint:hmmm.... 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Nobody: 9:46pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Osyxcel:Osy I dey as you leave your babe ooo. |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Nobody: 10:03pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Attractive people are the loneliest, because everyone thinks they have someone. I know how you feel, just focus on being the right person. Don't feel sorry for yourself, don't use online dating it's shit, don't let yourself be used. Be the right person, be more social and you'll see her. #peace. |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by UjSizzle(f): 10:06pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Desanta:I'm so sorry for your loss You'll find someone --not a replacement, just another partner. 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Ishilove: 10:10pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
UjSizzle:I agree 2 Likes |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Ishilove: 10:13pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Desanta:Eyah. Sorry about this 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Ishilove: 10:18pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Na wa o, and i used to think men have it easier than ladies. I am obviously very wrong |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Ishilove: 10:25pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
lastchild: |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Desanta(m): 10:30pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
softysparky: Thanks. Showing concern is a lot of help already. Just before she died, I prayed that God should allow me take her place and spare her life. She smiled and asked me "what kind of life do you expect me to live without you'. Now I ask myself that same question. Am now cold and indifferent to life despite the smile I wear like a mask. l have lost my peace and I try to bury my sorrow in my work. But the pain still shows through the window in my eyes. Death is a better substitute to this pain that I can't even explain or describe. Love can cause so much pain even as it can give joy. It is well as I try to surrender my feelings and my wife to Jehovah, the All knowing creator. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Desanta(m): 10:40pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
UjSizzle: Thanks. She was perfect for me. My own personal angel. And I was her saint. The one thing I was ready to lay down my life for. Maybe the gods got jealous and decided to punish me. It is well. 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by UjSizzle(f): 11:02pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Desanta:You will find another love and she will be perfect for you too. And no one expects you to erase memories of your first, she'll special and always be. But open up to someone else. Pray to God to heal your wounds and when he's ready to, please allow the instrument of his choosing to administer the balm to your wounded heart. Some people know love just once in a lifetime, some never find it (tragic I know). But there are the lucky few who are blessed to have it twice in one lifetime-- you'll be one of them. Honour your wife's memory and remember she'd want you to be happy too. If nothing, let yourself live again for her. I read this a long time ago, "Love happens more than once, but never the same way." Keep that in mind 2 Likes |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by haul: 11:06pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
mordtonia: Your first line is apt 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by Curvinus(m): 11:10pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Story of another self obsessed little man. How can you say you're successful, got all you want, yet you're lonely and can't find love? Haba! For this Naija where almost all what the girls need to see is the slightest hint of comfort and they label you as a potential Mr. Right? Besides who do you think youre kidding? Successful people have always been known to have the ability to cherry picking the best of the bunch, and leave out the rotters for other average joes to drool and oggle over them. So how can a successful man now see the kind of woman he actually fancies, cute, sweet, brainy and young and still not be able to impress or seduce her with either his wealth or charisma? And don't tell us you had to hussle because the basic instinct in every man after survival is sex aka love and your subconscious is always in pursuit of this regardless of how you think you feel about this. Either tell the truth the way it is or admit you like to wallow in self pity. This may also be a windup to get people talking about a selfing indulging man who thinks the world should revolve around him. |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by texanomaly(f): 11:24pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
Desanta: I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you find someone. 1 Like |
Re: How Do The Successful Combat A Lonely Lovelife? by netotse(m): 11:26pm On Jun 07, 2015 |
UjSizzle: Can you or ishilove show the guy serubawons post about being a widower...on my phone so doing it is wahala.... |
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