elantraceey:
The age difference is not a problem but I'll advice you to quit dating her for now instead be like a guide for her and be a good friend , be someone she can discuss anything with but don't abuse her for any reason , when she has come of age , like 20-22 you can then take the next step. She's just to timid right now and knows not what love is about , let not her looks deceive you.

i beg to differ,, at 16, i tell u she is not a small girl, she knows what she wants...

sirjohnson:
Okay, the 16 year old girl lives on the same street as mine. She is a very pretty girl, looks like a 20 year old. She is very intelligent as well. And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going. Can someone tell me I am crazy? BTW, I am 28.

Bros are you in love or in lust?

kilode100:


Crazy
That's someone's little girl and they have dreams for her.

Now pack that little twiny thing you call peenis and grow up!!
Were you ràped as a child?
Why are you afraid of going for women your age?



You are a man in a little boys body and you need a shrink.

what's wrong with fat pig

If she's ur daughter will u be happy, then be ur own judge. Anyway u r above 18years old. Ur jail won't be here at all...no mata d kind of green light she must av shown u, in a court of law, she doesn't know wat she's doing sir

Ask oshiomole that question.. he go just smh for u

Agbaya

sirjohnson:
And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going...

Do you trust yourself this much? As a human being?

Temptations are real.. and are best avoided.

Confidence is a sign that you are loaded with good things!

But over confidence...?

I think it is a sign that one is becoming very reckless!

pretydiva:
Dunno wat 2 say. Lemme jst read comments

same here sis

idu1:
what's wrong with fat pig

Is that all you can say?

I have simple questions for you,
1. Do you want to marry her? if yes when. I guess you now see that you may not be right.
2. what will you be discussing when you are with her? I suppose the young girl does not understand what she feels for you, she may just like and respect you, but mistake it for love. I know what I am talking. if you are not careful you will start a fire, and these naive girls can be crazy in the name of love.
Please try to make her focus and redirect your thoughts. I wish you luck

U re nt crazy man. In fact its even very good. If u end up marrying her, u will pamper her lik a baby. D age gap is nt bad. Woman age faster dan men u no? So there will b no opportunity of her looking sa u in d future. I wish u luck.

You must be jobless

loool @comments.


OP, let no one insult you. I wrote my first & only JAMB at age 16. Entered the University at 17. At 17, most of these girls you see around and on Nairaland had lost their virginities.

There is nothing wrong in falling in love with a 16 year old. If you truly love her, wait till you're 35, then propose marriage. At that age, she'll be 23.

However, this principle is unrealistic, so I'd advise you quit as she'll most likely fall in love and f , , k other dudes as she progresses academically on campus.

You're 28, let your focus be on a working class babe, who has seen it all. If you continue with her, you guys would most likely have s e x just for the fun of it (and no one will jail you, as she'll enjoy every bit of it), but one thing is certain, that relationship will crumble

S e x with a 16 year old girl who is probably a year one student in a university would never attract any jail term. Most girls here had their first experience at that stage and they enjoyed it. Ask them

kilode100:


Is that all you can say?

try get sense small so I ll not insult you next time.


All your comments are just senseless....

There's nothing wrong with it. Most of our grandmothers and even mothers are at least 15 years younger than our grandfathers/fathers.

Just leave sex till she's 20 or so. Then marry her. Problem solved.

op there is nothing bad and u're not crazy cos age is'nt a barrier in a relationship.All u need to do is to treat her right not just have sex with her and dumb her sorry ass.Btw are u really in love with dis girl or u are just attracted to her asset

Her been 16 is what is bothering me. Hadn't been she is 25 and you are 37 nii, I wouldn't even worry at all.

Please, let her reach 20 abeg.

sirjohnson:
Okay, the 16 year old girl lives on the same street as mine. She is a very pretty girl, looks like a 20 year old. She is very intelligent as well. And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going. Can someone tell me I am crazy? BTW, I am 28.

Why don't you wait till she starts University

Acidosis:
loool @comments.


OP, let no one insult you. I wrote my first & only JAMB at age 16. Entered the University at 17. At 17, most of these girls you see around and on Nairaland had lost their virginities.

There is nothing wrong in falling in love with a 16 year old. If you truly love her, wait till you're 35, then propose marriage. At that age, she'll be 23.

However, this principle is unrealistic, so I'd advise you quit as she'll most likely fall in love and f , , k other dudes as she progresses academically on campus.

You're 28, let your focus be on a working class babe, who has seen it all. If you continue with her, you guys would most likely have s e x just for the fun of it (and no one will jail you, as she'll enjoy every bit of it), but one thing is certain, that relationship will crumble

S e x with a 16 year old girl who is probably a year one student in a university would never attract any jail term. Most girls here had their first experience at that stage and they enjoyed it. Ask them

And why can't he marry her at 20? Then he'll be 32. Perfect age for a guy to marry.

sirjohnson:
Okay, the 16 year old girl lives on the same street as mine. She is a very pretty girl, looks like a 20 year old. She is very intelligent as well. And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going. Can someone tell me I am crazy? BTW, I am 28.

The guy is an eediot.

sirjohnson:


Trust me gurl, I aint nearing her pants, am not after that. I have slept with enough girls in my life already. The days I used to be sex freaked are behind me. At most I would kiss her. I just wanna nurture her.

I know people are different but at that age trust me she won't be looking for something serious, she still has a whole lot of growing up to do

[size=14pt]@OP....Who Cure U The First Time[/size]

Then what is the problem? Why is this in the front page?let her parents know about your good intentions for their daughter now...I see ntn special in this

Btruth:
Her been 16 is what is bothering me. Hadn't been she is 25 and you are 37 nii, I wouldn't even worry at all.

Please, let her reach 20 abeg.

Exactly. 20 is the ish. If the op can wait, if he really loves her. Cool.

idu1:
try get sense small so I ll not insult you next time.


All your comments are just senseless....

Insult me kwa??
Didn't you just call yourself a fat pig
Hian!!

What is wrong is that,shez nt up to 18,,,,if she was 20 nd u re 32,ders no biggie,,,,,anyways am talking from experience,women turn to grow older than the men,just wait till shez 18,,,,sm of u calling him names have done worst than this.

skyface00:
If she's ur daughter will u be happy, then be ur own judge. Anyway u r above 18years old. Ur jail won't be here at all...no mata d kind of green light she must av shown u, in a court of law, she doesn't know wat she's doing sir

Don't mind the Agbaya!!

Dude if I did advise u first of all we don't choose who we fall in love with so it's not wrong in u n her falling in love n secondly she is 16 which still makes her a minor still might not knw wats she is doing as d court might see it n third dont u get her sexually active or if caught it's jail term 4 u, if u truly love her guide her n get an adult 4 a GF, if she sees u with another she will get over it she still needs 2 experience disappointments as part of life lessons. PS

sirjohnson:
Okay, the 16 year old girl lives on the same street as mine. She is a very pretty girl, looks like a 20 year old. She is very intelligent as well. And I have no ulterior motive; I dont want to sleep with her or mess around with her. She gave me the green light, I got it, I followed it, now we have something going. Can someone tell me I am crazy? BTW, I am 28.

U r not.....
U r just sooo onspec..
carry go but take no advantage of.....

sirjohnson:


Trust me gurl, I aint nearing her pants, am not after that. I have slept with enough girls in my life already. The days I used to be sex freaked are behind me. At most I would kiss her. I just wanna nurture her.

you are getting promotion gradually

Some girls of that age have started dating sugardaddies.She might have been disvirgin by a man old enough to be your father.

This one na love in Tokyo in the meanwhile let's laff up small jare

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