FrancisTony:

When I start exposing hypocrisy of men, they'll go emotional like a wussbag and start character assassination.

They think today's women were silly as their mothers who you could use scare tactics on under 'culture' or 'religion' to push around like a marionette.

@Op
It's not in your place to say what the worst thing in marriage is.
Different strokes,different folks.
Some like a rich man even if he cheats,some would prefer a faithful pauper.

Na pesin wey wear shoe wey know where e de pinch am

jaybee3:
I think your attempt at downplaying the significance of a cheating partner is apt but you've failed to consider how the act of cheating in it's entirety reverberates around the foundation that a successful marriage should stand on. In other words, the ripple effect of cheating

Yes cheating to us Men at most times is simply defined as sharing ones body.

These are some of the direct impact of cheating in a relationship:

The obvious STI's
Finance
Trust Issues (both Present and future)
Increase of anxiety on the receiving partner
Emotional Imbalance and in turn cloudiness of judgement when it comes to real issues

Cheating is not a non-issue. It's a terrible thing. Yeah. My message is for those women who might decide to commit suicide at the mere thought of their spouse cheating on them.

I do not condone cheating in anyway. Whether I like it or not, men will cheat, and possibly keep cheating. Just want women to accept that reality.

FrancisTony:

Daily? Blasphemy! I only made some points on few threads about gayism and I don't care who accepts my opinion.

Who am I to judge? I'm sinner. All have sinned and fallen short of His glory.
An imperfect man should be judging another imperfect one.

Okay, I accept that I've erred but I still stand with the cliche, "Live and Let Live".

John3:16, For God so love the world that he gave his only begotten son and whoever believe in him shall not perish but have an everlasting life.

Anyway, can we forget the gay thingy?
I'm sexually flawless without blemish and it shouldn't be my concern.

So I'm going through your posts fishing for where u blasphemed against the bible and I realise you are making a sort of turn-around on your religious beliefs...


Awwwwww shiiiiii1t....

I can't discourage a lost sheep seeking it's way back to the fold now can I?


Who do I send all these my choice insults to now...

Moana:
I don't need a wife

Oh but you'll definitely have a husband

5minsmadness:


I can't discourage a lost sheep seeking it's way back now can I?


Who do I send all these my choice insults to now...

I was never lost, I needed a moment of nothingness, which I got and it never lasted more than a month.

You insult? I want to see a day you'll throw insults apart from soft jabs.

Amya:

Don't be 100% sure that your husband is not cheating or will not cheat on you. That will be living in a fools paradise my dear. It has nothing to do with how pure or holy you were growing up. let's lower our expectations as far as marriage is concerned, and I bet you you'll have a happier and fulfilled marriage.

As hard as this may read to a lot of women, better to go with this submission than living with the absolute confidence & certainty that whoever they're with will never cheat on them.

I even developed this same attitude a long time ago towards any woman I'm with sexually or romantically - I couldn't possibly be the only one who saw what I saw that got me attracted to her in the first place...and from the number of other guys who will make a move on her, who's to know how well she'll be able to resist all of them - It's better not to let things like that be a bother.
If I'm with any woman who's not getting any attention from many other men who are trying relentlessly to win her heart, then I'm definitely with the wrong person.

However I wouldn't call it lowering one's expectations, I call it protecting oneself from any and every emotional distress that may result from being met with a cheating spouse.
There will be disappointment of course hitherto, but that's where it ends for me as it should for any reasonable person - heartbreak to the point of suicide or thinking of getting back at a cheat by cheating yourself is one hell of a biitch move.

Amya:


Cheating is not a non-issue. It's a terrible thing. Yeah. My message is for those women who might decide to commit suicide at the mere thought of their spouse cheating on them.

I do not condone cheating in anyway. Whether I like it or not, men will cheat, and possibly keep cheating. Just want women to accept that reality.

Gotcha

FrancisTony:

I was never lost, I needed a moment of nothingness, which I got and it never lasted more than a month.

You insult? I want to see a day you'll throw insults apart from soft jabs.

Disadvantages of being an inherent gentleman
I'm working on it though

bukatyne:


Interesting,

What/who is a pseudo-feminist?

Lol, that would be you and the rest of your comrades on here my dear Bukatyne.

Take a look in the mirror, the definition will stare you right in the face...







You don't have to reply...

5minsmadness:

Dey there dey blush. You don't recognize gay alert when u see one!

See dirty mind...

crackhaus:

Lol, that would be you and the rest of your comrades on here my dear Bukatyne.

Take a look in the mirror, the definition will stare you right in the face...

You don't have to reply...

Get it into your skull that I am not interested in discussing with you

And you can hug a transformer if my pseudo-feminism gives you heart attack

Goodbye and great day

bukatyne:



Get it into your skull that I am not interested in discussing with you

And you can hug a transformer if my pseudo-feminism gives you heart attack

Goodbye and great day

Feeling funky now, are you?
As a perfect gentleman, I answered your question for you as the person you asked doesn't seem interested in answering, and that means I'm interested in discussing with you? Lmao...

What sensible thing are you even going to discuss with me?
Is it how God is genderless, or how you can be a Christian feminist?

You're not very sharp at the end of the day

CoCoLav:


Fixed

babe ,u are funny oo

I never knew the romance and family section is as interesting as this .I am enjoying this section .

See the so-called Christains that will start preaching the bible when it suits them hailing someone who thinks cheating is ok from men.

Don't you guys get ashamed of your hypocrisy?

TooNoisy:
What exactly is your point? So women should expect their husbands to cheat? What nonsense is this?

Try hardeerrrrrrr!
You'll make sense freely sooner even though you tried here, but all na wash.

VintageCocktail:
I can't believe I belong to the same species as you people......justifying cheating.

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Bravoo!

Stillfire:
Cheating is a deal breaker for me. I am guided by certain rules and principles I have set a standard for myself to the extent I can never date, let alone marry a babypapa. I know my worth and my worth requires 100% dedication in my relationship, marriage. I do not do half, quarter love. Material wealth does not move me, I will be content in one room with a dedicated, faithful husband. Also with my capabilities, I can provide for myself. All I need from a man is his faithfulness, companionship, ardent respect for family.

What standards have you set for yourself?

Don't think women can't/wont cheat. Despite the stringent punishment society places on cheating women, women still cheat. Imagine if those rules don't exist.
It's best to stop looking at cheating as a man thing. I always say that the standards we hold women by regarding this subject, you need to hold men by it. Society needs to see cheating as anathema in men rather than condone it.

Best POSTERRRRRR!

Nonso23:


My friend go an sit down inside poto poto
I regret that we even share the same forum talk less of gender. You and your kind are the weak men raining on our parade.

Learn from that post . It is filled with wisdom!

Proud foolishness been exhibited.

Thought I've seen it all.

cococandy:
See the so-called Christains that will start preaching the bible when it suits them hailing someone who thinks cheating is ok from men.

Don't you guys get ashamed of your hypocrisy?

Lol! May God deliver us from all these two-faced Idibias. God would rather you are hot or cold, not two faced.
Even the bible allows for divorce from a cheating partner.
I advice every christian woman to read her bible for the love of God.
If they bring one, you bring two verses that shatters their argument.
Only a weak female would still be threatened by all these scare tactics in the 21st century.

Nonso23:

She has shown up again
Have you revised your Jss notes? How about your daily milk dosage??

Idi very useless.
Meche onu, small boy.

onatisi:
I never knew the romance and family section is as interesting as this .I am enjoying this section .

You should come around when we are having a real war
Blood everywhere!

Nonso23:


See eh .. I will be honest.

I don't have the required strength to troll right now.
Give me some time. Let me go-an recuperate for a while.
Just set your alarm for 6:00pm and mention me. I will gladly oblige you the session.

Who was/is trolling with you and who will stay online till 6pm?

Nonso23:


See eh .. I will be honest.

I don't have the required strength to troll right now.
Give me some time. Let me go-an recuperate for a while.
Just set your alarm for 6:00pm and mention me. I will gladly oblige you the session.

bukatyne:


Get it into your skull that I am not interested in discussing with you
And you can hug a transformer if my pseudo-feminism gives you heart attack
Goodbye and great day

We are pseudo, yet they keep arguing with us.

I find it amusing when one of these hypocrites quote me to tell me what the bible says about something.

This place houses the worst set of shameless and conscienceless humans in the history of Christianity.

At least if you're a sinner like me, desist from using the bible to make your stand when talking to someone else.

Stillfire:


Lol! May God deliver us from all these two-faced Idibias. God would rather you are hot or cold, not two faced.
Even the bible allows for divorce from a cheating partner.
I advice every christian woman to read her bible for the love of God.
If they bring one, you bring two verses that shatters their argument.
Only a weak female would still be threatened by all these scare tactics in the 21st century.

onatisi:
this is the truth majority of young married ladies don't understand. But older married women do and that is why they are never bothered when they learn their husbands in cheating outside ,their only problem is him marrying them. Now we have married women who even pack condoms into their husband things when he is traveling. Women must know that the first thing in a man brain about the opposite sex is sex .that is the way god created us.

This is silly. Your god created men to be cheats and women to endure and encourage. Your god must be crazy.

sunnydayasaba:
OP, your so on point, So ladies think a man marries them because of sex, but that's a big lie. Most men don't get married because of sex, its over rated, so any woman who gets married and wants to kill herself because her husband cheated on her, Can do so, its her life.

For most men, the reason they get married is for companionship. So if he finds u gud enough to be his companion, then border not abt his cheating habit, but guide him better and talk with him if u suspect that he's cheating. Show how much of a gud companion ur to him. That's why he married U

Fûčķ it!!! Such a man who needs a "mere" woman (like misogynist like u would say) is not fit to be a man. Y'all can come up in all our faces about men being the head and superior to women, but your senses are too dull to know right from wrong. Some one has to guide you towards the path of fidelity. What sort of fuckery is that?

DollyParton1:

This is silly. Your god created men to be cheats and women to endure and encourage. Your god must be crazy.

Damn!