STENACO:
One of the things why I should lock my phone is that common bank alert of a buisness which I have on my phone, my wife will see it and think it is my money without knowing how much I am owing the bank. She keeps demanding heaven and eat because he saw money in my account. For this reason I lock my phone.

germainediva:
Pls want to know your take on this: Hubby insisted dat we should password our fones and not tell eachother d password so we can have some privacy so for like 2yrs or so its been like dat but a Pastor friend of mine insisted dat its a sin...... ......tho me am indifferent.

germainediva:
Pls want to know your take on this: Hubby insisted dat we should password our fones and not tell eachother d password so we can have some privacy so for like 2yrs or so its been like dat but a Pastor friend of mine insisted dat its a sin...... ......tho me am indifferent.

harveyspec:


By guy I hope you mean husband but if boyfriend, I will like you to have a rethink about the social network part & ATM.

Couples who divorced were once the loveliest couples & never imagined they will part ways someday.

The social network password ought to be private, if things should go south between you & your partner, that can become a tool of destruction against you.

Remember when the human heart is broken or grieved, it can damn all consequences just to get revenge

That I refuse to share my towel with you or tooth brush doesnt mean I don't love you! Hygiene standard dictates I have mine while you have yours

it's just an advice & I hope you consider it

germainediva:
Initially when hubby suggested it I refused but when he insisted I give in 4 peace sake......his reason ;in case he carelessly drops it nobody wll b able to access it, so when I demanded d pass word he gave me but after some wks he changed it and refused t give me d password.and said we both nid a little privacy.............but any time he has d opportunity he quickly checks my fone tho I password my fone too.

Bonethugss:
Hmm, though I ain't married, sometimes I have messages I wouldnt like my guy to see, and so does he. My issues is his insistence on it knowing you ain't comfortable with it.
If you force him to release his password, he might just end up deleting messages he knows you wouldn't like to see, which doesn't help.

Aprime:
Putting my self in your shoes -
If my wife should suggest this to me;

1. I
2. Will
3. Get
4. An
5. Immediate
6. Divorce.

Well there — dusted, divorced and alone, she can have all the privacy she needs. I don't care. Fúcking Bítch.

fluxview:


@harveyspec: I LOVE YOUR COMMENT: That I refuse to share my towel with you or tooth brush doesnt mean I don't love you!

NIGERIA IS ONE OF THE COUNTRY THAT HAS MORE CHRISTIANS BUT DO NOT PRACTICE CHRISTIANITY. EVERYTHING IS PASTOR SAID, MARRIAGE COMMITTEE ORDER THAT WE BRING OUR PASSWORDS FOR WHAT PURPOSE FOR CHRIST SAKE. DID THE BIBLE TELL YOU TO CONTROL MY LIFE RATHER ITS FOR YOU TO TEACH ME HOW TO LIVE MY LIFE. WHY ARE WE ALLOWING TECHNOLOGY TO CAUSE PROBLEMS FOR US IN LIVES AND MARRIAGES.

ITS RIGHT THAT THE BIBLE SAYS YOU AND YOUR LIFE IS ONE FLESH, TRUST EACH OTHER, DO THING IN COMMON BUT YOU SHOULD ALSO KNOW THAT GOD CREATED US AS MEN TO BE THE HEAD AS SUCH THERE ARE CERTAIN INFORMATION THAT YOU WILL NOT GIVE OUT TO A WOMAN/WIFE REASON IS THAT THE WOMAN IS AN EMOTIONAL BEING(ALLOWING EMOTION TO GUIDE HER DECISION WHILE THE MAN TAKES CERTAIN DECISION THAT HE DOES NOT BRING EMOTION IN). THE BIBLE DID NOT TELL US THAT ABRAHAM TOLD SARAH THAT GOD ASKED HIM TO SACRIFICE ISAAC(IMAGINE WHAT WOULD HAVE HAPPEN), HER EMOTION WOULD HAVE CAUSED AN ISSUE. IF YOU WANT TO USE MY PHONE TO MAKE CALLS, I WILL GIVE YOU, YOU CAN ANSWER MY CALLS IN CASE THE SAME LINE IS CALLING REPEATEDLY BUT IF YOUR PRIMARY INTENTION IS FOR YOU TO CHECK MY ACTIVITIES, MY CALL LOGS, MY MESSAGE BOOK, SORRY I WOULD NOT ALLOW THAT. I ONES ASKED MY FIANCE IF SHE WILL LIKE ME TO BE A GAY, SHE SHOUTED NO THEN I TOLD HER THAT MY PHONE BOOK MOST HAVE BOTH MALE AND FEMALE NUMBERS, WHY THIS WHO IS THIS GIRL AND WHO IS THAT GIRL, WHY SUSPECT THIS, SUSPECT THAT.

IT IS TRUE THAT MOST MARRIED MEN AND WOMEN HAVE COCKROACHES IN THEIR CARDBOARD BUT THAT SHOULD NOT BE A YARDSTICK TO START POKING PHONES EVERY NOW AND THEN, I DO NOT DO THAT. DO YOUR THING BUT MAKE SURE YOU DO IT RIGHT. WHAT IF YOU NOW SEE WHAT YOUR AFRAID OF SEEING, YOU WILL GIVE YOURSELF HEART ATTACK. YOU HAVE YOUR TABLET, ANDROID PHONE, CABLE TV, LAPTOP THEN YOU NOW SAY MY PHONE MASSAGE/ WHATS APP CHAT/FACEBOOK CHAT INFORMATION'S/ATM PIN AND MY MONTHLY SALARY IS WHAT WILL MAKE YOU TRUST ME THEN YOU HAVE TO FILE A DIVORCE/ END THE MARRIAGE PLAN OR END THE RELATIONSHIP.. 95% OF WIVES ABUSE THIS PRIVILEGE OF KNOWING ALL ABOUT THEIR HUSBAND SO HOW DO I KNOW THE 5%.

MY GRAND DAD TOLD ME THAT THE MAN DIES THE DAY HE GIVES OUT ALL THE THINGS HE KNOWS TO HIS WIFE OR ACCEPTS ALL THE SUGGESTION THAT COMES FROM HIS WIFE..

germainediva:
Pls want to know your take on this: Hubby insisted dat we should password our fones and not tell eachother d password so we can have some privacy so for like 2yrs or so its been like dat but a Pastor friend of mine insisted dat its a sin...... ......tho me am indifferent.

Phema:
Whatever works for you guys. As long as you two are comfortable and happy with the arrangement, then you are good.

bayulll01:

I can't hide my phone for my wife,if she's hiding her phone then something is wrong

Aprime:
Putting my self in your shoes -
If my wife should suggest this to me;

1. I
2. Will
3. Get
4. An
5. Immediate
6. Divorce.

Well there — dusted, divorced and alone, she can have all the privacy she needs. I don't care. Fúcking Bítch.

Phema:

Did you miss where she said they mutually agreed to do that? Whatever rocks their boat.