When you first met him, you thought he was a dream come true, your "one and only." He was charming, caring and so sensitive, he'd watch an entire Lifetime movie with you without once grabbing the remote.

But by the third or fourth date, everything stared to change. First the changes were subtle, and then more dramatic. Mr. Right became a predator, a player, a manipulator. Why didn’t you see it coming? Maybe your girlfriends saw it before you did. Were you blinded by his sex appeal?

Here are a few warning signs, some red flags you should never overlook.

* Red Flag: He’s narcissistic, loves admiration, convinced he’s the center of the universe. Does he talk about himself constantly? Does he seemed bored/disinterested in other people’s comments? Does he crave admiration the way a vampire craves blood?

*Red Flag: He plays loose and fast with the truth. In other words, he lies. Little white lies, fibs and whoppers. And the strange thing is, he lies even when it’s not necessary. He likes to exaggerate, embellish, make every story “bigger” than it has to be. Have you caught him him in a little white lie? Most players are “practiced liars.” They look you right in the eye when lying, with no tell-tale body language.

*Red Flag: He’s a control freak. His concern about your every thought, every movement seems charming at first, but it’s a bad sign. After a while this 24/7 scrutiny sends up warning signals in your head.

*Red Flag: He can be moody and unpredictable. His moods go up and down and he is inconsistent. He can fly into a rage one minute, and then suddenly switch gears and turn on the charm.

*Red Flag: He is impatient, abrupt, with a low tolerance for frustration. The tiniest thing can set him off–a slow driver, a careless waitress, a cold dinner.

*Red Flag: He fails to plan ahead and shows poor judgment. Maybe he invites you to a romantic dinner at a lakeside lodge. But he forgets the lodge is closed that month, and there’s nowhere else to stay in a fifty mile radius. You could camp out, but he forgot about the mosquitoes. You get the idea!

*Red Flag: He never admits guilt, never apologizes and blames others. As far as he is concerned, he is never in the wrong–never!

*Red Flag: He is manipulative. For example, he uses “grooming behaviors” to convince you to do something you really don't want to do. By getting you to agree to small things, he eventually pushes his demands and you find yourself caught up in a situation that is not of your choosing. Sales people call this the “foot-in-the-door” technique. The idea is to get the mark to say “yes” to something small and inconsequential, and then she will agree on larger issues.

Don't ignore these red flags. The time to bail is when you spot the first one. This is a player, a guy to avoid at all costs.

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The only guard you need is God...

Oya,,make we dey play they go nahh,,,, girls like ten-ten sha.

But if God will be your Guide you still have to guide you self.. Heaven helps those who helps themselves.

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KiidaACE:
Oya,,make we dey play they go nahh,,,,
girls like ten-ten sha.

What of the repercussion

newsdey:

What of the repercussion

till then.

KiidaACE:
till then.

U mean it? Are you a player

The ladies are not complaining. They love players.

I do look peeps in the eye when communicating now?


Personally, for the above reason, im not the same level with dbanj(who was and still is)

i just pray Muji didn't read this.. The day she do... The day i'm done actinq

Brugo:
The ladies are not complaining. They love players.

How do u know they are not complainig or who tells u that

newsdey:
U mean So are you a player

loool,,,i'm i supposed to answer that

GeneralQuamdeen:
i just pray Muji didn't read this.. The day she do... The day i'm done actinq

Now you are afraid of Muji Reading This Abi

KiidaACE:
loool,,,i'm i supposed to answer that

You may answer that if you know what category you are

Err I beg to disagree

MrTeymee:
Err I beg to disagree

Disagree in term of what? highlight them Please

newsdey:

Now you are afraid of Muji Reading This Abi

na true o, as if i'm the one the OP used as case study... He describe me when i am in my casanova mode.

GeneralQuamdeen:
na true o, as if i'm the one the OP used as case study... He describe me when i am in my casanova mode.

So there are still many player in here

newsdey:

You may answer that if you know what category you are

well,,,ion really know,,to me,, i'm not..i'll just call me an opportunist.

KiidaACE:
well,,,ion really know,,to me,, i'm not..i'll just call me an opportunist.

Opportunist in term of what please explain better

newsdey:


So there are still many player in here

i am not a player o... But when a woman wanna have me played... I qladly join in the qame. See my siqnature.

GeneralQuamdeen:
i am not a player o... But when a woman wanna have me played... I qladly join in the qame. See my siqnature.

Wow you are not really a player this time around but A coach

newsdey:

Wow you are not really a player this time around but A coach

yes, just the word i'm lookinq for.. That qualifies and modifies a lot thinqs about me

newsdey:

Disagree in term of what? highlight them Please

Not this nyt bro

Ok......nice one. But if CR toasts any babe, she go say no ?

newsdey:
Opportunist in term of what please explain better

you won't understand...

Catch me if you can

vislabraye:
Ok......nice one. But if CR toasts any babe, she go say no ?

Come to think of the answer urself if CR toast ur sister what will be ur advise to her

KiidaACE:
you won't understand...

Try and put it in an understanding way.... For us to gain

newsdey:

Come to think of the answer urself if CR toast ur sister what will be ur advise to her

No lets talk about your sisters. Mine are married..

vislabraye:


No lets talk about your sisters. Mine are married..

Ok what will be your advise then