I have been pondering on this for a very long time now why most ladies prefer their fiance or their date to be without a mother, i could recall my late mum (of blessed memory) overheard some ladies discussing in a bus that they pray they find a suitor without a mother, she came back home very bitter, when i inquired about her sudden change of countenance, she then narrated the conversation she heard in the bus. Ladies my question to you now is that why do you perceive mother in-laws as a curse instead of a source of joy and inspiration? Please am eager to know. Keep the comment flowing, matured minds pls.

This is ur own observation

because they belief mother in laws always have control over their sons. they forget they would be in that shoe some day

temitemi1:

why you wan cry kwanu

mormoni:
This is ur own observation

Not entirely my observation bro, i work closely amongst the female folk and i hear things which make me wonder why ladies of today don't keep a cordial relationship with their mother in-laws.

emerich:

Not entirely my observation bro, i work closely amongst the female folk and i hear things which make me wonder why ladies of today don't keep a cordial relationship with their mother in-laws.

ok

Jetjacky:
because they belief mother in laws always have control over their sons. they forget they would be in that shoe some day

Exactly my thought, they forget they would be prospective mother in-laws someday.

I wanna hug my mother-inlaw nd buy Hollandis wrapper for her

Next time you "observe" the ladies talking, you could just advice them to pray for a lovely mother in-law rather than praying to marry a man without a mother.

sinaj:
I wanna hug my mother-inlaw nd buy Hollandis wrapper for her

pls do dear, i really do admire you for that cos ma wifey to be won't hv such an opportunity, it's a rewarding experience.

emerich:

pls do dear, i really do admire you for that cos ma wifey to be won't hv such an opportunity, it's a rewarding experience.

xori bout dat

amokeme:
Next time you "observe" the ladies talking, you could just advice them to pray for a lovely mother in-law rather than praying to marry a man without a mother.

true, but most ladies are hell-bent on want they want, i guess you know better.

emerich:

true, but most ladies are hell-bent on want they want, i guess you know better.

no I don't

Lol. Those ladies have forgotten that they'll become mothers - in-law someday.

sinaj:


xori bout dat

Tnx swedy, missed her real bad.

emerich:
Tnx swedy, missed her real bad.

it apnd recently ?

Brugo:
Lol. Those ladies have forgotten that they'll become mothers - in-law someday.

I tell you bro. My lil bro whom is an Army officer too was in the same shoes, he was dating this sweet yoruba chick, she never took him serious cos she perceived my mum to be a threat, omo, upon the demise of my mum she turned a new leaf, forming love, if i hear! I told d poor boy to port for his dear life.

sinaj:


it apnd recently ?

Yes dear, Feb 14, a road accident, i guess henceforth Vals day is gonna be a mourning 1 for me.

emerich:

Yes dear, Feb 14, a road accident, i guess henceforth Vals day is gonna be a mourning 1 for me.

jeeez! time will do d magic for you dnt worry

sinaj:


jeeez! time will do d magic for you dnt worry

Tnx dear, u r a darling.

emerich:
Tnx dear, u r a darling.

u r wlc.

An ex once told me, she wanted her mother in law dead before getting married to her man... That changed everything I had fr her... Omo na so I picked race

opedaydydx9:
An ex once told me, she wanted her mother in law dead before getting married to her man... That changed everything I had fr her... Omo na so I picked race

Hmmmm!!!, The mindset of some ladies needs to be re-oriented, they have so easily forgotten the benefits of a mother in-law.

emerich:

Hmmmm!!!, The mindset of some ladies needs to be re-oriented, they have so easily forgotten the benefits of a mother in-law.

that's just too evil, such women would wish dre husband dead soonest after marriage or file a divorce

Interesting topic! Woe men easily forget that they'll be in the same shoe someday..
Cc: lalasticlala

opedaydydx9:
that's just too evil, such women would wish dre husband dead soonest after marriage or file a divorce

So as to get some percentage of the husband's wealth, assuming they are living in US or UK For example.. Some Woe men are worst thing to happen in a man's life

Sunymoore:

So as to get some percentage of the husband's wealth, assuming they are living in US or UK For example.. Some Woe men are worst thing to happen in a man's life

Ladies should just learn to apply the virtue of tolerance, whether they like it or not they still need their mother in-laws input in their respective homes.

sinaj:
I wanna hug my mother-inlaw nd buy Hollandis wrapper for her

easier said than done.

Pray you don't come across the type of patience ozorkwo.

@topic

Such girls might die before their sons get married too



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emerich:

Ladies should just learn to apply the virtue of tolerance, whether they like it or not they still need their mother in-laws input in their respective homes.

That just the truth

emerich:
I have been pondering on this for a very long time now why most ladies prefer their fiance or their date to be without a mother, i could recall my late mum (of blessed memory) overheard some ladies discussing in a bus that they pray they find a suitor without a mother, she came back home very bitter, when i inquired about her sudden change of countenance, she then narrated the conversation she heard in the bus. Ladies my question to you now is that why do you perceive mother in-laws as a curse instead of a source of joy and inspiration? Please am eager to know. Keep the comment flowing, matured minds pls.

Only GOLD DIGGERS has that notion!

For me I pray that my bf's mum be alive, so I can see the way he treats and interacts with her.
I see it as a pointer in how he will treat my mum, and me.
My two cent though.