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Why I Should Not Apologise To Any Female Nairander When I Wrong Her. / I Feel Awful Breaking Up With Her This Way, Was I Rude? Should I Apologise? / He Hardly Forgives/apologise Even When He's Faulty (2) (3) (4)
Should I Apologise? by dopeJemi: 12:32pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Here's how it happened My ex: jemi please come and see me Me: what's the problem? My ex: nothing really, just bored Me: Trynna set me up My ex: lol, how? Me: dunno, you should be the one coming over My ex: so you not coming right? Me: Nope, what's up sef, how's your boyfriend? My ex: he's alright, thanks Me: I'm happy he's alright, shouldn't he be the one you should be calling to come over? I mean, so he won't say you are cheating My ex: yea thanks Me: just saying, don't get mad, I mean my girlfriend wouldn't want me visiting another girl when she's bored... my regards to your brother.. thank you My ex: "obviously filled with rage"... hey! It's enough, you said you can't come and by the way I'm not forcing you, why talking much? It's enough Me: whatever abeg, just send my regards to your brother, cheers Now, this girl used to be a virgin(well that I believed) and act innocent and all, but now I just can't explain it, she's become so promiscuous and cunning... so I wanna know if I should apologise for being rude or just let it go like that, was I even rude? I don't have a girlfriend by the way |
Re: Should I Apologise? by winetapper: 12:36pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
you could have gon and visit her with ur current Gf |
Re: Should I Apologise? by ikeepitreal(m): 12:38pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Your point is? |
Re: Should I Apologise? by kilode100(f): 12:42pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
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Re: Should I Apologise? by ikeepitreal(m): 12:45pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Re: Should I Apologise? by ronald4lif(m): 12:45pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Why did you keep prolonging the chat when she'd glaringly stop chatting you up. And what are you apologising for if I may ask?. You were never rude, you just seem excited and interested in the chat more than she did. Not smart at all. Admit it, you've not gotten over her yet. |
Re: Should I Apologise? by dopeJemi: 12:57pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
ronald4lif: I didn't prolong anything.. she never stopped chatting me up as you can obviously see, she didn't end the chat, I did I woke up to see her msg, so I wasn't really interested in whatever she had to say, but I felt insulted, asking me to come cause she's bored, I don't roll like that I broke up with her, I was over her even while we were dating, thanks |
Re: Should I Apologise? by dopeJemi: 12:59pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
winetapper: Nah |
Re: Should I Apologise? by dopeJemi: 1:00pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
ikeepitreal: All these idiotic newbies trynna make a name for themselves, swerve |
Re: Should I Apologise? by Tallesty1(m): 1:00pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
You talk too much. |
Re: Should I Apologise? by dopeJemi: 1:02pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Just answer the damn question |
Re: Should I Apologise? by ikeepitreal(m): 1:06pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
dopeJemi: F*uck off! I asked a question and if u dnt comprehend stuff easily, dnt quote smarter people again |
Re: Should I Apologise? by RapLawd(m): 1:12pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
winetapper: the wine maker, the guy said he is girlfriendless...hehe... |
Re: Should I Apologise? by vizkiz: 1:17pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
mehn...you blew it nigga. Next time have some standards when chatting with an ex. Don't be a dick |
Re: Should I Apologise? by dopeJemi: 1:18pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
ikeepitreal: I don't interact with newbies, so like I said, Swerve, kapish? |
Re: Should I Apologise? by dopeJemi: 1:19pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
vizkiz: How na, if she has a bf, why call me in the first place? Just told her what I felt was right... so should I apologise? |
Re: Should I Apologise? by ronald4lif(m): 1:22pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
dopeJemi: At some point in the middle of the chat she said 'he's alright, thanks' when you asked about her boyfriend. At that point, you could have end the chat with okay but you pressed the issue further. After that she responded again with 'yes thanks' which you pressed further with more questions. There was no point asking further questions/remarks after those response of hers. Of what relevance is it to ask an ex about their boyfriend or girlfriend?. People often do that to find out if they're still in a relationship and to know if they are happy with who they are involve with. To enable them ascertain if they can get back into their lives. That might not have been the case with you but it's the case with many. I wouldn't bother to ask an ex about her boyfriend as it's completely extraneous. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Apologise? by ikeepitreal(m): 1:24pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
dopeJemi:Dude please, read the lines, don't quote me again, if u do, I won't give u the pleasure of a response. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Apologise? by vizkiz: 1:24pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
dopeJemi: nah, don't...you will look needy. Just let it go and continue your "normal" chat with her. By the way, what are you doing with your ex |
Re: Should I Apologise? by RapLawd(m): 1:26pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
Re: Should I Apologise? by dopeJemi: 1:27pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
ronald4lif: Yeah, you right, that's not the case with me, there are some things I really didn't state out... the thing is, she's not over me yet, she acts like she still owns me and all, whenever I'm around, she acts like she's not seeing anyone, she'll be all over me like we still dating think I don't know about her promiscuity, people are even starting to talk about her and they think I'm the mugu when they see us together You get? |
Re: Should I Apologise? by dopeJemi: 1:29pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
vizkiz: Lol, I'm not doing anything with her, she's always poky about my business with other girls and my life, still got her on my whatsapp Try and read my reply to ronald's post, you'll understand better |
Re: Should I Apologise? by dopeJemi: 1:31pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
ikeepitreal: You'll get what you calling for if you don't get outta my thread, don't make me quote you again, you won't like it, now I'm telling you politely to swerve... cheers |
Re: Should I Apologise? by dopeJemi: 1:32pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
RapLawd: Why wetin |
Re: Should I Apologise? by djeezy(m): 1:34pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
You even had her on your contact. You even seemed interested in the chat. That's not how we roll son. I wish I could show you what I said to my ex when she said she was coming over to spend the weekend at my house. Anyways as for apologising, no need for that man. And lastly why are you still single? |
Re: Should I Apologise? by dopeJemi: 1:37pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
djeezy: Wasn't interested in the chat, was only interested in making her keep her distance, when I say the girl is poky I mean the girl is poky, as for having her on my contact, I've deleted her number several times but she just keeps coming back one way or the other, what can I do man? Had to let her contact stay As for me being single, Love is for suckas |
Re: Should I Apologise? by ronald4lif(m): 1:39pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
dopeJemi: Well, she might be all over you and I'm not dismissing that for a fact, or not. However, it's hard to believe that you're no longer into her. It's uncommon to communicate with an ex and still hang out with them like you said. The feelings might just be mutual between you both but you're either finding it hard to admit it or you can suppress yours better than she manages hers. |
Re: Should I Apologise? by vizkiz: 1:42pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
dopeJemi: just be careful, girls are dangerous |
Re: Should I Apologise? by djeezy(m): 1:44pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
dopeJemi:So you still want to shine her kubi?? |
Re: Should I Apologise? by dopeJemi: 1:44pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
ronald4lif: No no, I pass on every opportunity to meet with her, though her bro is my friend, I don't even go visit him anymore cause of her, I don't even buzz her, she's just on my contact, the only time we talk on whatsapp is when she buzzes me |
Re: Should I Apologise? by dopeJemi: 1:46pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
vizkiz: That's the exact word bro, she's very dangerous, not the same person I used to know, thanks though |
Re: Should I Apologise? by dopeJemi: 1:48pm On Jun 11, 2015 |
djeezy: to be honest, I did that about two weeks ago or so, but now I don't want anything with her even though she'll jump at the opportunity again |
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