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Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Cutehector(m): 7:38am On Jun 20, 2015
NinoBrown888:


nevertheless I've got a thing for white dudettes. Me like their acts of decorum.

A date go to be real man, not some kinda hide n seek games.
to be frank av not taken any girl for a real date.... If we wana see, we see grin
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by prettytasha(f): 7:42am On Jun 20, 2015
XavierBlue:
will be glad, if you exagerate a little on this.



XavierBlue
you run out of questions easily .....and u get easily nervous
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by prettytasha(f): 7:43am On Jun 20, 2015
peeparty:
bursted please try add source when you steal pples work.
weldone Nneke123
i didnt steal the work ...i only shared it !!
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Nobody: 7:44am On Jun 20, 2015
Cutehector:
to be frank av not taken any girl for a real date.... If we wana see, we see grin


#chuckles...

Typical Nigerian date schedules ! hahaha
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by agarawu23(m): 7:47am On Jun 20, 2015
Cutehector:
lol thankGod they aren't mods...
I tell u
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by exlink10(m): 7:47am On Jun 20, 2015
tnks
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Cutehector(m): 7:47am On Jun 20, 2015
NinoBrown888:



#chuckles...

Typical Nigerian date schedules ! hahaha
hahahahhahahha... U shouldn't forget our forefathers and mothers had dates under the mango tree
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Cutehector(m): 7:48am On Jun 20, 2015
agarawu23:
I tell u
seriously I no knw say u b muslim
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by agarawu23(m): 7:51am On Jun 20, 2015
prettytasha:
i didnt steal the work ...i only shared it !!
OK
seems you are new here. Whenever you have topic to share and the topic wasn't created by u, always add the source (the site you saw the topic u wanna share) that's how we do it here smiley

welcome to romance section where we av a lot of undercover police grin

grammar spokers grin

trolls etc
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by loomer: 7:52am On Jun 20, 2015
Every body na love and scholar now o
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by agarawu23(m): 7:53am On Jun 20, 2015
Cutehector:
seriously I no knw say u b muslim
hmmmm e know dey show for face now grin

even majority think say I be Igbo guy
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Cutehector(m): 7:57am On Jun 20, 2015
agarawu23:
hmmmm e know dey show for face now grin

even majority think say I be Igbo guy
agarawu na igbo name na
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by GeneralQuamdeen: 7:58am On Jun 20, 2015
You have done a great job OP.. Now ladies.. Will you learn?
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by imoh4king(m): 8:00am On Jun 20, 2015
XavierBlue:
The one that freaks me out, is the surgical attachment to their device. Nevertheless, Op, you're damn beautiful.






XavierBlue

yea, but too skinny, for my liking....
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Tallesty1(m): 8:00am On Jun 20, 2015
Nneka123:
Okay where is your source?
My Own First Dates Dey Different Sha.....

It Is Always In A Room.



Either in my room or in a hotel room.





Not Time To Check Time.




Where is your angry partner?
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by agarawu23(m): 8:04am On Jun 20, 2015
Cutehector:
agarawu na igbo name na
if a hear cheesy
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Cutehector(m): 8:05am On Jun 20, 2015
agarawu23:
if a hear cheesy
so wetin e com be?
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Alezy(m): 8:06am On Jun 20, 2015
prettytasha:
here #hands her my indomie sauce
lolz
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Nobody: 8:14am On Jun 20, 2015
Tallesty1:
My Own First Dates Dey Different Sha.....

It Is Always In A Room.



Either in my room or in a hotel room.





Not Time To Check Time.




Where is your angry partner?
Lol. I don't know, taking a break perhaps
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by peeparty(m): 8:19am On Jun 20, 2015
prettytasha:
i didnt steal the work ...i only shared it !!
sir u should reference works shared.
even when Nneka23 was trying to ask for source your response was not cool.
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by agarawu23(m): 8:29am On Jun 20, 2015
Cutehector:
so wetin e com be?
oga that name get as e be o cheesy
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by prettytasha(f): 8:31am On Jun 20, 2015
peeparty:
sir u should reference works shared.
even when Nneka23 was trying to ask for source your response was not cool.
i was only being sarcastic ...but why so much emphasis on the source ? cant u just get the moral of the story and forget its origin
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by peeparty(m): 8:37am On Jun 20, 2015
prettytasha:
i was only being sarcastic ...but why so much emphasis on the source ? cant u just get the moral of the story and forget its origin
it ok sir.

Hope you take correction anyway.
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by funlord(m): 8:40am On Jun 20, 2015
prettytasha:
yh yh smiley
grin
prettytasha:
yh yh smiley

So this is all you can say after getting caught? "Yh yh?" Bloody lying TROLL! Gtfoh!!!

Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by XavierBlue(m): 8:50am On Jun 20, 2015
imoh4king:


yea, but too skinny, for my liking....
apparently, what rock your boat won't rock mine. smiley are you an akwaibomite?



XavierBlue
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Nobody: 9:37am On Jun 20, 2015
prettytasha:
ok but the worst mistake anyone would make will be avin a first date at an eatery...

Worst mistake? Reasons please....
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by pelumikorede(m): 9:56am On Jun 20, 2015
prettytasha:
1.
DON’T be wishy-washy.
Nobody—and we mean nobody—likes a pushover,
so if your date tells you he’s planned dinner at a
sushi joint and you don’t eat fish, or he wants to
hang at a cocktail lounge but you don’t drink,
speak up. It’ll only look weird if you tell him all
that after you’re already seated and waiting to
order. Same goes for being decisive: If he asks
what you’d like to eat, drink, or share for dessert,
don’t say “I don’t care, whatever is fine.”
Verbalizing what you want isn’t bossy, it conveys
confidence—and is incredibly attractive. Having the
personality of tepid water, however? Not so much.

2
DON’T show up late on purpose.
On a first date, you’ll make a stronger impression
if you show up on time. Would you want him to
show up late? Probably not. Huh? It takes you two
hours to do your hair and makeup? Sounds like
you’re perfectly aware of that fact, which means
you’ll know exactly how much time you need to
prepare ahead of time, even if it’s five hours (no
judgment!)

3.
DON’T be surgically attached to your phone.
This is the big one, ladies: The act of compulsively
checking your phone every two minutes could be a
bonafide deal breaker. There’s nothing ruder than
trying to have a conversation with a person who’s
constantly stating at their screens—wouldn’t you
be put off if he were paying more attention to his
iPhone than to you?
While you’re at it, we know it’s commonplace for
folks to keep their cell phones on the table, but it’s
not polite when you’re getting to know somebody.
Responding to every beep, text, alert, and vibration
is distracting and unnecessary. Be mature and
keep it in your bag, and glimpse at it while he
goes to the bathroom, if you must.
Similarly, do not post any status updates, tweet
about your date in real time, or snap any candid
Instagram pics, or post to Snapchat when he’s not
looking. That’s just creepy.

4.
DON’T think it’s cool to not eat.
Most guys will freely tell you that there’s nothing
more cliché (read: lame) than a girl who doesn’t
eat on a date . If you think not ordering dinner, or
only taking a birdlike bite of your entree will make
you appear skinnier , prettier, sexier , more feminine,
or more mysterious, guess what? It won’t. What it
will do? Probably not get you a second date.

5.
DON’T sit there like the Queen of Sheba when the
check comes.
Even if you’re of the firm belief that your date
should always pay, it’s a mistake to assume he
will—especially on the first date. If he goes for the
check right away, offer to split the bill, or at least
leave the tip. He’ll probably decline, so make sure
you offer to get the cab to the next destination, the
movie tickets, or a round of drinks.
However, if you offer to pay or split, be prepared to
actually pay or split. Don’t play games. Not
offering at all, however, could translate to entitled.

6.
DON’T give TMI, too soon.
Sharing personal details about your life after
knowing anyone for 45 minutes is never a good
idea. Want to get married on the beach in Mexico
by the age of 3o, and have a baby boy named
Henry by the age of 32? Keep it to yourself for
now. Similarly, steer clear of personal topics like
your contentious relationship with your mother,
any ailments you have, or major work woes —all
valid, but none are appropriate first date topics.

7.
DON’T stalk him after the date—social, or
otherwise.
In today’s world, texting and catching up via social
media is a viable means of communication after a
date, but there are a few rules we all should follow.
If you had a wonderful time and feel like shooting
him a casual text later that night or the next day,
go for it.
A good text: “Had a really good time, thanks
again!” is fine.
A bad text: “OMG literally had the best time EVER,
ur sooooo amazing and I can’t wait to see u again.
Wanna do brunch with me and my girls
tomorrow??! LMK ASAP xoxox!!!” is not.
In addition, try to resist the urge to follow him on
Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, Vine,
Linkedin, or any other conceivable social network
until you’ve gone out a couple of times. Even in
today’s connected world, remaining a creature of
(a little) mystery is a powerful thing..

my TWo cents
Only one in ten women will take your advice to join the one in ten that actually practice it.
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by prettytasha(f): 10:53am On Jun 20, 2015
funlord:
grin

So this is all you can say after getting caught? "Yh yh?" Bloody lying TROLL! Gtfoh!!!
getting caught ? i aint gonna gv u the attention you crave for ...now run along bro ...go and play outside with ur mates
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by funlord(m): 12:05pm On Jun 20, 2015
prettytasha:
getting caught ? i want u to give me the attention i crave for ...now I need to run along tho ...after getting nabbed by my mates
grin
prettytasha:
getting caught ? i want u to give me the attention i crave for ...I need to run along tho ...after getting nabbed by my mates

LOL! I think you made sense with this post! Plagiarising dolt!
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by prettytasha(f): 12:22pm On Jun 20, 2015
funlord:
grin

LOL! I think you made sense with this post! Plagiarising dolt!
ok smiley
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Charles4075(m): 1:01pm On Jun 20, 2015
Cutehector:
Why can't girls just agree to have dates in either the guy's house or their house...
Lolz. Bro, you're a pervert. Your house ke? You wan rape her?
Re: Ladies !! These Are Things You Shouldn't Do On A First Date by Cutehector(m): 1:09pm On Jun 20, 2015
Charles4075:
Lolz. Bro, you're a pervert. Your house ke? You wan rape her?
bless u bro...

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