Happy Rainy Day.. Everyone!

Looking at our present generations, the rate of make ups and breakups is really alarming.. People hook up today and by tomorrow they are No more. If really our parents practised this lifestyle and trends,some of us won't be born by now.. Havnt you wonder why our parents still live in peace and harmony from the 80s till now? You should ponder on how they sustained and Managed their relationship with little or no issues.. And hold on to each others till date!

Some will say because their lifestyle then was different and the ladies then was much more loyal and caring then.. Well little do we know.m we can't really tell..
Fine, the moral decadence of our ladies these days are diminishing real hard and their societal value is nothing to write home about.. Ladies of these centuries have lost it, they are following kim kardashians,amber rose and rihannas trends ..
But I belive out of every wolves you can find a sheep.. Also I do believ that. Dog was once a wild animal but was managed and trained to live with man!
You can find Mary out of every Eve.. Find rebecca out of every jezebel... Let's Focuse on the Topic Now .

1. Patience : Patience and Endurance goes a long way in relationship, these days we believ in living a Fast money Fast life kind of relationship but really we shld forget about what we watch on hollywood movies.. Try to exercise enough patience with ur partner in relationships when he/she gone astray or have offended you.. Try and be patient with him/her to adjust..

2.Management : Anyone that tells you that relationship shouldn't be managed but all enjoyed is a blatant liar! See letme tell you! Almsot everything in life needs to be managed!! Yes! You must learn and know how to manage your partner, her attitude,speeches,lifestyle etc! Aside Infidelity in a relationship anyother thing can be managed! Yes.. Try to be able to manged him or her in the relationship.

3 Open Mindedness : You can't pray for your Relationship to last wthout you being open to ur partner, share ur minds,thoughts,and burdens with her/him.. Don't try to hide things away from him or her.. Make her feel she's part of you and important to you.. Let her know your way in and out.. Don't keep secrets away from her/him .it kills and dwindles relationships.. For real!


4 Trust : one of the major factor killing relationship these days is TRUST, lack of trust, you don't trust ur partner,so why dating him or her in the first place?? See if u really want something serious to come out of the relationship then you should be willing to give him or her that is called "BENEFIT of Doubt" try as much to trust him. Or her don't try to be on d fence and say " if I trust this one now, and she dissappoint me later, It will kill me" noo! In as much you are trying to trade with caution like being mindful,you should also give her or him dat trust in relationship.

5. Sacrifice : this is it! You must be willing to sacrifice in your relationship, be it Love,Money,Time,Attention, etc.. You should be responsible to sacrifice any of this.. These days its two of these " Money and Time or maybe Love.. But all these works in hand to enhance the relationship.. Mr man, you don't expect your relationship to work out if you don't have a kobo in your pocket.. And when especially the lady you are dating isn't really okay financially, even if she's faithful to you it will go to some extent and it will definitely crash.. To people who support their girlfrnds financially will know what I'm talking about.. Its not just recharge card or outings! You must try as much as possible to make her comfortable and prove to her you are the best that she can get.. Don't Be stingy with your partner! These days money nutures d love ! I'm telling youb believe it or not.

6 Romance/Sex : Mr man! Relationship isn't all about Sex and Romance! Infact this is one of the point that kills relationship these days! Too much se.xx and romance! Some of you are into relationship because of the free and whenever sexx attitude.. You can call her anytime you feel Hot so she come satisfy your urge.. Some pple do have sexx 4 to 5 tyms a week with their partner they aint married to yet.. You pple shuld give each other some chances and value.. Once you keep eating same food all time.. Withing one to two years u are already tired of her and den looking out for another taste.. Ever since Sex is easy to get,Love becomes hard to find.. Don't mke ur partner to sexx machine.. Try as much to miss it a little time.. Months and weeks.. To avoid this stop being togeda all alone in a secret place all time.. Sexx really kills relationship faster than anyother thing.

7.Maturity : try and be a man! Handle things like a man! Don't complain unecessarily over everything, try and overlook somethings.. Wave some thing by, especially when angry try to calm down and walk away! Women tends to talk annoying thins when angry ..they rant both good and bad.. So Mange your anger well.. Don't cause more harms or damage.. Don't include third party to ur relationship issues EXCEPT when the need arises.. Don't over suspect ur partner..

8. Wisdom : the bible says in all you getn get wisdom! Wisdom is the principal key to everything in life! Ask God for wisdom all time to do the right thing at the right time! And to speak well.. Wisdom is the key! King solomon used wisdome to manage his numerous wives and others..

9.Loyal : don't try to claim superiority over ur partner! Be loyal, give him or her listening ears.. Don't be autocratic or decisvie all time.. Create room for opinions and ideas.. Seek his or her advice over somethings.. Don't be jack of all trades.. Remember that all opinions could be opinionated! Be loyal.. And humble..

These I Think are Few Things That can make your Relationship Wax stronger.. With God All things are possible..

N/B : This is for people from 22-Above (who really know what to be in a relationship is all about) ..
Thank You! #Livintainment!


Cc @ishilove lalasticlala

9z one OP

Chopet:
9z one OP

thanks

oya where dem bwoys @ ?



de shud read diz
u guyz shud read no. 6 and 4 slooowly

d gurls too


gud one op

ama save it

This one of the best write up in recent time.for mature minded men/women!

sinaj:
oya where dem bwoys @ ?



de shud read diz

Girls nko?

viczing:

Girls nko?

they are busy in d kitchen... itz sunday u knw

priestman:
This one of the best write up in recent time.for mature minded men/women!

thanks!

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Andrew114:
hmmm...... Finally i found a reasonable thread but op who is the enterpenuer in this relationship managment?

na you naa

Liviintainment:
na you naa

am nt in any relationship o [quote author=Liviintainment post=34991340]

Andrew114:
am nt in any relationship o

so many Nairaland babes are lookn for pple like u

Liviintainment:
so many Nairaland babes are lookn for pple like u

so i should go and manage one of them,is dat what u are saying?

sinaj:


they are busy in d kitchen... itz sunday u knw

Ain't you suppose to be in the kitchen or are you multi tasking

viczing:

Ain't you suppose to be in the kitchen or are you multi tasking

I blong to d bedroom

sinaj:


I blong to d bedroom

Ok happy sunday anyways

Nice one sha

What a writeup!

Jollyjoy:
What a writeup!