you see, according to your story, you have no value for your friendship with this guy you say is like a brother to you.
what are friends for?
he is in a situation and he puts his trust in you to be his friend and have his back but here you are saying how you are
thinking of ending your friendship with him just because you feel he is bothering you.
why should any guy or babe be my friend if I can not bother him or her with my issues ?
that means if you are in Japan and he just got in town looking for help, you will avoid him because his wahala is too much ?
abeg make una dey try understand wetin friendship really mean.
any guy or babe that is ready to cut of the friendship so easily as you have just described it is not a friend .

Ginaz:
please, this story is real.

me and this guy have been friends for almost 3years now, we're like best friends. he's more like a brother I never had, but his girlfriend won't let me rest.

my boyfriend even knows him, they talk on phone. so we are not dating, nothing like that. I can relate to him very well, he tells me everything and anything troubling him.

just recently, he and his girlfriend quarrelled and I was put in the middle once again. I told him its time we end things cos of his girlfriend, I dont want him to lose his relationship. but he won't LEAVE me!

he keeps calling and begging me not to leave him, he doesn't want to end our friendship. I no longer pick his calls anymore. what should I do? should I still keep the friendship or leave him? I'm confused pls advice me!

Marry your best friend, i hope to get married to mine someday

Dynamique:
If you don't leave him now that the monster is just raring its head,this is what will happen;

-His relationship will break,his girlfriend over time will find it hard to believe there is nothing going on.

-He will channel all his emotions to you and you will love out of pity gradually destroying your own relationship.

-Your relationship will finally break and you guys will start dating officially.

-The date process will be smooth until one of either of you's exes creeps back,then you break up and then one person is left with the everlasting agony of the heartbreak which will most likely be you.

Shikena.

...Or they fall in Love and live happily ever after.

naijathings:
you see, according to your story, you have no value for your friendship with this guy you say is like a brother to you.
what are friends for?
he is in a situation and he puts his trust in you to be his friend and have his back but here you are saying how you are
thinking of ending your friendship with him just because you feel he is bothering you.
why should any guy or babe be my friend if I can not bother him or her with my issues ?
that means if you are in Japan and he just got in town looking for help, you will avoid him because his wahala is too much ?
abeg make una dey try understand wetin friendship really mean.
any guy or babe that is ready to cut of the friendship so easily as you have just described it is not a friend .

You know these naija girls na.. You get friend zoned, you sit comfortably in there.. and they still treat you like crap.

Apparently her friendship to the guy is only when it is convenient for her..