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7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by Sirma1: 11:07pm On Jun 24, 2015
In fact, there
are certain plausible advantages of getting married at
a younger age. The belief that early marriage comes
as a burden and an incomprehensible commitment,
is not really a standard that applies to all.
So, here are some reasons that explain why marrying
early can be a good decision.
#1. The perfect age saga
Marriage is more about the ‘perfect person’ than the perfect age’. Many argue on the necessity of being
prepared for
marriage. But in reality, you can never be prepared
for it whether you are in your 20s, 30s or 40s.
So, if you find your prince charming or dream girl at
an early age,
then there is no point actually waiting for long to get
married. It is all
about spending the beautiful moments of your life
with the person
you love. So, think about finding the right person
rather than waiting
for the right time to arrive.
#2. You get more quality time with each other
The young couples usually do not have the pressure
of achieving
parenthood immediately after their marriage. In fact,
they get enough
time to know and understand each other before the biological clock
starts ticking. So, when you get married early, you
have a lot of time
on your hands before you indulge into family
planning or saving
money for future.
You can enjoy your life with your partner without
worrying much
about these things. You can see the world together
and steer your life the way you want it.
#3. More harmonious relationship
You are more likely to be a companion and a friend
to your partner rather than just being a husband or a
wife. While you would be learning to live life as adults, you would be
more flexible with each other and more open to compromise.
Also, you will have enough time to adjust with each
other’s temperament, and understand one another
before you delve
into more serious and deeper responsibilities of life.
This way, you are likely to be more compatible than
the couples who
get married late.
#4. More lovemaking time
You will get to experience those beautiful moments
of cosy lovemaking with your partner more
frequently as compared to those who get married late. It surely will help you to feel strongly connected with your partner
emotionally as well as
physically.
And since you do not have the pressure of having
kids right after your marriage, there is ample time to
thoroughly enjoy
this time with each other. Also, many researches
show that after having kids, the couples usually
experience a dip in
their lovemaking activities due to reasons like low
energy, lack of time etc.
#5. Sharing each milestone
The milestone of achieving parenthood is of course
one thing, which every couple experiences together.
But when you marry early, there is a lot more that you achieve as
well as celebrate together.
Whether it is buying your first car, moving in to your
own home, achieving success in career- the happiness increases
manifold when you have a partner by your side to share these amazing experiences of life.
#6. Being a great parent
As you would have spent so much time together, you are expected to share a really strong bond with each
other. This
level of understanding between the two of you is one
of the key requirements of being a great parent.
When you attain parenthood in your twenties, you are all the more excited as well as energetic to spend
time with your
child. On the other hand as you grow old, you might
be burdened with issues like financial well-being of
your family or
your own health. This will take away the time from
you to be with your child. Furthermore, seeing your
child become
independent before you retire is an achievement in
itself.
While you become a proud parent at the right time,
do not let it take away the charm from your married
life. Here are 5
Ways to Spice Up Your Marriage after Kids
#7. A second chance
Although this is not at all desirable, but if at all things
go terribly wrong in marriage, the younger couples
get a slightly
better chance to bring everything back on track. Since
they would have already shared many ups and downs
together,
they would know how to handle each other during
tough times.
Surely, an early marriage is no recipe for success.
But, it is necessary to understand the nuances of a
marriage to make
it an accomplishment. Getting married by mid-
twenties is a great option and with the above
reasons, we hope you know why.

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Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by ZeezaRapture(m): 11:15pm On Jun 24, 2015
FTC cool
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by Nobody: 11:17pm On Jun 24, 2015
STC
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by greatmarshall(m): 11:19pm On Jun 24, 2015
Eziokwu
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by Imdachick(f): 11:22pm On Jun 24, 2015
greatmarshall:
Eziokwu
Lol..No be small thing my brother.
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by sandrannna(f): 11:59pm On Jun 24, 2015
Who read dat?
Whether u read it or not, I know the long story is crappy.
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by Nobody: 12:41am On Jun 25, 2015
sandrannna:
Who read dat?
Whether u read it or not, I know the long story is crappy.
see dis F.U.CK T.ARD
oh.na by force to comment or click the thread.
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by sandrannna(f): 12:42am On Jun 25, 2015
FINgames:
see dis person oh.na by force to comment or click the thread.

Na by force to take jabs @me? Dats ma opinion, respect it.
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by Nobody: 12:45am On Jun 25, 2015
sandrannna:


Na by force to take jabs @me? Dats ma opinion, respect it.
Thank god your opinion doesnt count
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by sandrannna(f): 12:47am On Jun 25, 2015
FINgames:
Thank god your opinion doesnt count

Ma opinion is invaluable to the wise.
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by Nobody: 12:53am On Jun 25, 2015
sandrannna:


Ma opinion is invaluable to the wise.
sit down and read your first comment again.the first thing that will come to the mind of a sensible person after reading that 5tupid comment of yours is "shoro niyen"
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by Cutehector(m): 2:53am On Jun 25, 2015
FINgames:
sit down and read your first comment again.the first thing that will come to the mind of a sensible person after reading that 5tupid comment of yours is "shoro niyen"
lol yu dey mind am.. Freaking attention seeker she be.
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by Medunah: 5:32am On Jun 25, 2015
My only reason for wanting to get married early is none other than "I will av kids early" nd still look young
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by Nobody: 5:42am On Jun 25, 2015
Sirma1:

#1. The perfect age saga
Marriage is more about the ‘perfect person’ than the perfect age’. Many argue on the necessity of being
prepared for
marriage. But in reality, you can never be prepared
for it whether you are in your 20s, 30s or 40s.
So, if you find your prince charming or dream girl at
an early age,
then there is no point actually waiting for long to get
married. It is all
about spending the beautiful moments of your life
with the person
you love.



#4. More lovemaking time
You will get to experience those beautiful moments
of cosy lovemaking with your partner more
frequently as compared to those who get married late. It surely will help you to feel strongly connected with your partner
emotionally as well as
physically.
And since you do not have the pressure of having
kids right after your marriage, there is ample time to
thoroughly enjoy
this time with each other.


#5. Sharing each milestone
The milestone of achieving parenthood is of course
one thing, which every couple experiences together.
But when you marry early, there is a lot more that you achieve as
well as celebrate together.
Whether it is buying your first car, moving in to your
own home, achieving success in career-
the happiness increases



My favourite points.. True talk OP

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Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by ifejilika(m): 6:09am On Jun 25, 2015
as an average 9ja guy, my question is whr do U get d moni to maintain d family?
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by Rilwayne001: 7:00am On Jun 25, 2015
Medunah:
My only reason for wanting to get married early is none other than "I will av kids early" nd still look young

Hello dearie,
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by INTERMAN: 8:09am On Jun 25, 2015
It easier say than done
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by Medunah: 9:20am On Jun 25, 2015
Rilwayne001:


Hello dearie,
Aw u bin??
Re: 7 Reasons Why You Should Get Married Early by Rilwayne001: 9:23am On Jun 25, 2015
Medunah:
Aw u bin??
I'm good smiley

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