Gurgle:


lol you will get to know at the appointed time!

but are you searching at the moment or just cruising?

mira4u:


I never suggested he should marry her or not cos it's entirely his choice to make . The bottom line is, she shouldn't be judged cos she was sincere. If she lied, he would not have known. She jeopardized the relationship you say? If he cheated within that time too, didn't he also jeopardize the relationship?



Whoever said that faithfulness was for a female only? Didn't he also cheat within that time interval? Will he be cool if the girl judge him after being sincere that he cheated? If he can sincerely say 'yes' to the question then cool.

icedbeatz:
my dear the op never implied That he cheated on her on his post in anyway, truth is bitter yeah that she confessed to cheating doesn't make it less painful or appear less of betrayal. from the ops post you can ascertain that he's a newbie in dating (haven't been a player) and never expected the unforeseen circumstance of his girl cheating on him. that guy knows what to do its just that now he's in a shock.

sirhot:
my dear, At a point I wasn't o, I was on a bus but the driver(babe) decided to drop me. I would have opened a thread here to cry but it's of no use. I moved to the next bus stop.

So I'm searching for another bus to get on

icedbeatz:
my mum is a brain dead ugly biitch. She must be a flop academically that is why she gave birth to me

sirhot:
agreed, but people here are just a reflection of what is outside. I can't remember when last I asked a girl out!

The interest is not just there... When it's time to marry and everyone screams at me to marry, I'll close my eyes and pick anyone since they are all the same.

Life goes on.

Gurgle:


oo. Jisie ike. may the bus arrive in good time and with minimal stops along the way!

sirhot:
Amen

I remembered what I went through today and was so hurt! She left I had proposed to her, and she accepted.

Gurgle:


oo Ndo.

but maybe that was a good thing. If you had married and she had left it would have been worse.

what was her reason for leaving, if you don't mind me asking?

sirhot:
seriously I cannot tell. She's now disturbing me that she wants to come back.

TK0907:
I'm into a relationship which is 4yrs old and the lady is someone that i loved so so much and i even introduced her to my parent as the girl i intend to marry and from the way she treats me also, i have this deep feeling that she even loves me more than how i love her but few months ago, I just wish to tease her and i ask her if she has slept with another guy since we started dating and sincerely, i was expecting her to be angry for even asking her such question but to my surprise after asking her several time and promising her not to use it to react to her, she eventually told me that she slept with somone else and her excuse was that it was due to the fact that we actually parted for like 7months which was due to my NYSC program which the distance was far for her to pay me visit. To cut d story short.

I still love her but their is this second thought that comes to mind once in a while what if work has to take me away from her for some months when we get married, hope there will not be a repeat of such? Pls i need a serious minded person to contribute cos the trust i have for her was not like before anymore.

6fit:


u ask for it..what u are not aware of never affect u.nxt time don't ask such Qs. pussy no be wood

TK0907:
I'm into a relationship which is 4yrs old and the lady is someone that i loved so so much and i even introduced her to my parent as the girl i intend to marry and from the way she treats me also, i have this deep feeling that she even loves me more than how i love her but few months ago, I just wish to tease her and i ask her if she has slept with another guy since we started dating and sincerely, i was expecting her to be angry for even asking her such question but to my surprise after asking her several time and promising her not to use it to react to her, she eventually told me that she slept with somone else and her excuse was that it was due to the fact that we actually parted for like 7months which was due to my NYSC program which the distance was far for her to pay me visit. To cut d story short.

I still love her but their is this second thought that comes to mind once in a while what if work has to take me away from her for some months when we get married, hope there will not be a repeat of such? Pls i need a serious minded person to contribute cos the trust i have for her was not like before anymore.

Eliba:
your so disgusting, i wish u get a little respect for people.

olaremint:
ogbeni, drop that lady fast, if she can sleep around because she didn't see u for 7 months then it means she may probably kill u later in marriage if she meets someone who can satisfy her more sexually. u cannot afford to live with this doubt for the rest of your life, every one has a past, but this unfaithfulness is your future.

Joy1706:

Na u sabi. I'm saying what I know. Some women can have sex with emotions attached. Some can have without emotions. Doesn't make one a prostitute.

Insidous:


Did you ask the OP if he had been faithful to her all along? . If he cheated on her, you would categorise as purely physical. Why should it be any different with a woman?

Emodeee:


I nvr expected u to be rude, I expected u to be concise and civil. U no c "pardon me" rudeness dey ur gene.

Gurgle:


nawa my sister, is that all you have to say?!

EggovinMma:


What do you expect her to say?
It's a silly thing to test a spouse . Especially when you can't handle the truth.
Is like guys who ask their gf how many guys dey have been with.
Like seriously I always find that question silly as I can't bring myself to ask a guy how many gurls he has been with.Hell,no one gives a rat asx the last girl he sniffed.

Lobolintin:




Abeg I fit hammer yoi ??

MrBasketball:
Why are so stüpid?

uplawal:
fornicators,you are not ashame to speak like this.

1miccza:


Sorry no vex oo what if he actually didn't alll through the seven months??

Classicman47:


U must be one of those women for you to sound so convincing.
The problem is, is that really how you want to live?
In case you don't know or you forgot, that is called cheating.
Do you think that's cool?

sule5727:
all those ladies in d house self trying to support their fellows is too bad wen something is bad is bad okay!!!

lucky032:


how long can you endure not having sex?

Gurgle:


Oh are you still in contact with her? when did she leave?

do you still love her?